Pickup Korea Podcast: Three Tips To Date Hotter Korean Girls

Summary

The Pickup Korea Podcast unveils three tips to help men date hotter Korean girls. Dive into practical advice for pushing past common roadblocks, like reliance on online dating and playing it safe. Embrace the vibrant Korean social scene by learning where to meet attractive women, making more engaging interactions, and transforming your dating approach. This episode delivers a treasure trove of insights, focusing on being bold, playful, and breaking predictable conversation patterns to build genuine connections.

Highlights

• Avoid the complacency of online dating; it's time to step out! 🚶‍♂️
• Discover the importance of finding your type and where they hang out. 🧐
• Learn to engage in conversation without falling into the 'question quicksand.' 🤔
• Transform boring interactions into fun and dynamic exchanges. 🎉
• Locate hotspots in Korea for meeting the most attractive women. 📍

Key Takeaways

• Be proactive and step out of your comfort zone. 🏃‍♂️
• Ditch the dating apps and explore real-life opportunities. 📱➡️🌆
• Avoid boring questions; make bold statements instead. 💬
• Misinterpret and play with responses for fun interactions. 😜
• Seek high-quality encounters in vibrant areas like Gangnam. 🌟

Overview

In this exciting episode of the Pickup Korea Podcast, listeners are introduced to actionable strategies for navigating the vibrant dating scene in South Korea. The host emphasizes breaking free from the confines of online dating and encourages stepping into real-life interactions that promise greater authenticity and success.

Listeners are guided on how to shift their conversational dynamics from mundane to engaging. Instead of bombarding with questions, the key is to make bold statements, followed by playful assumptions and unconventional responses that can lead to more memorable interactions, fostering a genuine connection with potential partners.

Finally, the podcast provides a roadmap to discovering prime locations within Korea, like the renowned Gangnam district, known for its high concentration of beauty and fashion. These tips, combined with daring and non-linear communication techniques, prepare listeners to succeed in their pursuit of dating attractive Korean women.

Chapters

• 00:00 - 02:00: Introduction The chapter introduces the podcast's focus on dating challenges faced by men in Korea, specifically when it comes to forming relationships with attractive Korean women. It highlights common issues that prevent men from achieving their dating goals, whether for short-term or long-term relationships. The host aims to discuss these barriers and provide insights to overcome them.
• 02:00 - 04:00: Complacency in Online Dating This chapter discusses a trend observed in men who are becoming complacent by overly relying on online dating, specifically with Korean girls. The chapter talks about experiences from dating coaching over the years, highlighting how some men limit themselves to dating through online apps, getting to a routine of going on a few dates a week using these platforms. This has been a noticeable pattern in recent times, with clients exhibiting this behavior.
• 04:00 - 06:00: The Opportunity Cost of Online Dating The chapter titled 'The Opportunity Cost of Online Dating' discusses the challenges of using online dating apps, particularly when trying to connect with Korean girls. The speaker emphasizes that unless one has an exceptional profile, outstanding looks, and an impressive bio, it will be difficult to match with top-tier individuals. The focus is on the need for a strong online presence to succeed in online dating, especially for those new to the scene and aiming to date individuals who are considered average.
• 06:00 - 09:00: Finding Your Type and Location The chapter discusses the importance of gaining experience by going on dates, especially if one is inexperienced. It emphasizes that practicing being around girls and dating is beneficial. However, it also notes that unless someone is in the top percentage of looks, it's unlikely they will consistently match with very attractive partners. The narrative reflects on the occasional success of getting dates with decent-looking individuals, illustrating a reality check on dating expectations.
• 09:00 - 12:00: Avoiding Question Quicksand The chapter discusses the concept of 'opportunity cost' in social interactions, particularly in dating scenarios. It suggests that one should have standards, such as choosing to approach only those who meet a certain level of attractiveness according to personal criteria, for example, 'an eight and above.' This contrasts with the behaviors often seen in online interactions, where people might indiscriminately 'swipe' on potential matches without setting similar standards.
• 12:00 - 16:00: Tips for More Engaging Interactions This chapter discusses the concept of attractiveness perceptions based on meeting people online versus in person. It touches upon the idea of the 'catfish phenomenon' where individuals may appear different in photos due to filters or other enhancements as compared to real life. Meeting in person is emphasized as a way to accurately judge someone's appearance and potentially have more genuine interactions.
• 16:00 - 20:00: The Importance of Statements Over Questions The chapter discusses the complacency prevalent in Korea's online dating scene, highlighting how individuals often fail to pursue what they truly want, resulting in significant opportunity costs. It points out that many men are hesitant to take risks, such as approaching more attractive women, preferring instead to remain at a low level of engagement by relying on dating apps instead of direct interaction.
• 20:00 - 24:00: Locating Attractive Girls in Korea The chapter discusses strategies for finding and meeting attractive women in Korea. It highlights different locations where one might encounter various ‚types’ of girls, such as high-end nightclubs, certain bars, and notably, the streets during the day. The author shares personal experiences, mentioning recent encounters with diverse and attractive women, including hooking up with an actress.
• 24:00 - 27:00: Summary of Tips The chapter discusses the unrealistic expectations often set by online dating profiles, particularly focusing on how some men find themselves attracted to women they perceive as ‘out of their league’. It touches on the intimidation and discouragement they may feel when they don't receive attention from these individuals online. The narrator acknowledges that many men have similar experiences when first starting to date online, highlighting a common scenario where they feel they wouldn't even match, let alone communicate, with such women. This reflects broader issues many face when navigating the online dating scene.
• 27:00 - 33:00: Client Success Stories The chapter 'Client Success Stories' discusses common pitfalls individuals face in social interactions, particularly with an example of someone getting stuck in a cycle of asking predictable and uninspired questions when talking to someone they find attractive. It highlights the importance of avoiding 'question quicksand' where the conversation becomes dull and repetitive, even if the initial engagement starts off well.
• 33:00 - 35:00: Conclusion and Contact Information In this chapter titled 'Conclusion and Contact Information,' the author discusses the responsiveness of an individual over time in a specific context. As time progresses, there is a tendency to demand more from the individual, which is portrayed as being lazy and boring, similar to an interview on YouTube. The chapter concludes by mentioning immersion programs or boot camps, but it seems the transcript was cut off before providing more details on these subjects.

Pickup Korea Podcast: Three Tips To Date Hotter Korean Girls Transcription

• 00:00 - 00:30 welcome to the pickup Korea podcast and today I would like to discuss uh some common issues that are holding guys back from meeting from dating and having long-term relationships with very very attractive girls right whether that's long-term whether that's shortterm you know casual um there are definitely some things that are holding guys back from achieving their dating goals with gorgeous beautiful attractive Korean girls Okay so so uh one common thing
• 00:30 - 01:00 I've noticed after coaching guys over these past uh several years but especially over this past year is a lot of guys are really really complacent and they really limit themselves to online dating with Korean girls right so uh recently had a couple clients and they go on dates you know maybe one two three dates every week but they're using online apps right right and not to say
• 01:00 - 01:30 that online apps um don't necessarily have their place however really at the end of the day with Korean girls specifically unless you have a really really good profile you're really really goodlooking and you have you know an amazing bio uh so to speak it's going to be really really hard to match those topend girls right if you're just getting your feet in the door you want to date some kind of average chicks average girls or you know you don't mind
• 01:30 - 02:00 that kind of thing um you're inexperienced you need experience going on dates um then really that can be a good thing right you can get some practice um being around girls getting dates however at the end of the day unless you're really in the top percentage of looks you're not really going to uh match with the better-looking girls right so these guys they talk about you know I go on dates every now and then they're decent every now then I'll get a seven out or I'll
• 02:00 - 02:30 get a you know cute girl out or something like that however you also have to consider at some point this is just an opportunity cost right you could be going to places approaching much attractive girls for example you can set your limit that I'm only going to approach girls who are an eight and above in my own um you know my own standard so to speak right whereas with online you're like to just swipe on you
• 02:30 - 03:00 know average girls or the ones that seem like they're an eight on the photo you're more likely to uh if you get a date with them they're more likely to be uh less attractive the catfish phenomenon the filter phenomenon Etc right whereas if you meet them in person then you can more likely you're more likely to see how they actually look right and so uh really often times the
• 03:00 - 03:30 online dating scene in Korea um it's really just full of complacency not really going after what you want and it's really an opportunity cost right and so another thing is a lot of guys are afraid to put their balls on the line afraid to go out there afraid to talk to hotter girls and they just kind of hide behind these apps and stay at that level forever right and so that's one thing all right the next thing is um really
• 03:30 - 04:00 you know Finding Your Type finding where they are you know whether that's in uh high-end night clubs certain area certain bars and of course in the case of Korea the daytime the streets really the streets have all the quality all the different types of girls that you can meet right so even me here recently you know in the past two weeks um hooked up with an actress from the street hooked up with um a really really hot uh uh
• 04:00 - 04:30 student younger student with big fake tits you know decup tits uh which is really nice but really would I even match any of these girls online the answer is no I would get nowhere with these type of girls right wouldn't even match wouldn't even be able to message right and so uh another common thing I've noticed when guys are going out uh they really really uh and I'm sure this is probably you if if you're kind of new
• 04:30 - 05:00 or even if you're somewhat of an intermediate in the game you're coming in you're asking a lot of questions you fall into what I like to call question quicksand right you come up you approach the girl maybe she's hot maybe she's your type but then it turns into you know uh oh where are you from oh what do you do for work uh where are you going now you fall into just question question question boring boring boring maybe the initial open was okay maybe in the first
• 05:00 - 05:30 10 seconds she's responsive but as the set goes on you're kind of asking for more asking for more being lazy being boring being interviewyoutube [Music] on the immersion program or boot camps
• 05:30 - 06:00 is to really only make statements right so one thing you can do is to uh you know make a challenge all day I'm going to go out I'm going to do you know 20 30 approaches whatever your goal is and then I cannot even ask a single question and so what does that do it doesn't allow your brain to be lazy to fall back to interview mode to questions because you have to make everything a statement right and suddenly you learn learn that
• 06:00 - 06:30 you can do cold reads you can make assumptive statements right you can uh share stories um you can be even a lot more uh fun in a way right you can express yourself in a way that you wouldn't if you just could fall back on questions right and so you know maybe a common question would be um you know what do you do what kind of job do you do in Korean right but you could change that into um yeah I noticed you have
• 06:30 - 07:00 these like really Unique Nails this kind of nail art that's like a big thing these days but you must be some sort of like nail artist or work at like a um like a beauty Clinic around here or something right and so that instead is making a statement an observation it's something to engage with it's something to either affirm or deny right so if she affirms it you get more information or at least it shows that you have some kind of insight you notice something about her she denies it often times
• 07:00 - 07:30 she'll offer up what she actually does right and so this makes it a lot more uh engaging a lot more uh you know a lot more that you're providing some kind of value you're creating a Vibe rather than relying on the girl to answer a series of you know questions right uh another thing is really uh even if you're just not answering or sorry if you're not asking a bunch of questions uh another thing is guys really fall into this boring sort of back and forth
• 07:30 - 08:00 it's very linear uh it's very uh predictable it's sort of like you know what do you do oh I do this yeah I like this kind of food I'm going here this very Bland very boring conversation right but in order for girls to have an experience to have fun to let loose to enjoy being around you you have to have a degree of you know nonlinear uh conversation some kind of stupidity some kind of fun you know sort
• 08:00 - 08:30 of misinterpreting her questions making outlandish statements you know um things along these lines so that she can kind of uh you know engage she can kind of enjoy it rather than falling into this boring uh predictable you know Quicks sand kind of interaction right and so like even with really basic stuff A lot of times they'll ask you why why did you come to Career or how did you come to Career is actually how they of and ask
• 08:30 - 09:00 it so how did you come to Korea what they actually mean old hung always like you know did you come here for did you get employed here or you know did you have a girlfriend here something like what were the reasons really right and so you know how did you come here oh by uh by plane of course what do you mean you know I jumped on a plane uh bought a ticket uh you know it didn't crash luckily but yeah that's how I came here so it's stupid it's [ __ ] right but it's getting out of that like oh I came
• 09:00 - 09:30 here to work I am doing this job you're getting out of that boring frame that boring interview mode right um other things like she's asking like um you know say for example you're talking about you're learning Korean um you know but you're you're learning Korean but you know you still confuse simple stuff this and that just showing that you don't take yourself very seriously right um um it could be
• 09:30 - 10:00 you know you're talking about um uh different kinds of foods or whatever right and she's asking you know what are your favorite foods and then you answer with something stupid like uh some kind of drink that you're into or like you know some kind of like other even like a whole different topic like oh she's like oh what kind of Korean food do you like oh Korean food yeah yeah yeah well I'm into um you know BTS uh new jeans oh food okay yeah yeah
• 10:00 - 10:30 my English isn't very good I can't speak English that well just being dumb being nonlinear right little [ __ ] like that that gets the conversation sort of off the predictable back and forth kind of thing right and it really doesn't have to be even clever I mean clever can be good right of course however you know even just being almost [ __ ] at some points in the interaction or um almost even looking at girls conversations or listening to how they speak when they're are at a cafe and it's very nonlinear
• 10:30 - 11:00 you can kind of pick up on that sort of emotional mode of communication that kind of fun right so that's one thing um and yeah so how can you really get better at this like I mentioned you know sort of playfully misinterpret uh things right uh so she says oh I think you're from uh you know she asked like where are you from and then you say like uh typically you would probably say where you're from or even volunteer that information I'm from
• 11:00 - 11:30 Norway I'm from Spain USA or whatever right but instead like yeah where does it look like I'm from and then she says you know Australia and you're like oh God Australia like disgusting place really just uh weird people uh whole place smelt like [ __ ] when I went there um God you must think I look like a total like uh Country Bumpkin kind of like Chom in Korean right and then she's like no no no no no no so
• 11:30 - 12:00 you just go off on this like [ __ ] tangent right that's not even accurate but you you know I'm just kidding just kidding actually I'm from uh just kidding I've been austo it was pretty cool but I'm from you know whatever uh LA or wherever you're from right so sort of ways to like playfully misinterpret things misinterpret questions go off on tangence on questions right um or even like I mentioned earlier sort of like respond in a way that's not even related to the initial question things like that
• 12:00 - 12:30 right um and yeah so having this kind of approach allows it to be more fun more unpredictable and to really be more engaging right um another thing another really common issue with guys trying to get these hotter girls these days is that um since most Korean guys you can go out on a given day and there's guys approaching on the street in Korea right Korean local guys and really they'll often come in with that same opener right oh I like your style you look really nice I like
• 12:30 - 13:00 your fashion you're cute you're pretty something like that right and uh coaching a client recently um he tried that for his like first 10 approaches all blowouts right and I told him like you got to stop you got to take the word style um cute um I liked your whatever right I liked your style you're cute you have to take that out of your vocabulary and really just make an observation about them unrelated to I like your style I I
• 13:00 - 13:30 think you're cute and you know just say something that's not even you can you can make a comment on something about them you know oh something about the bag something about her shoes something about her um Nails something about the way she's walking but avoid your cute I like your style right make an observation make a direct uh comment on something right or you know comment on the situation uh etc etc right and so then he uh ends up doing that and of course what happens is the girls start engaging
• 13:30 - 14:00 not blowing out right away longer interactions some phone numbers and then even ends up getting a date out of it and closing that date right whereas the first half of the day falling into that predictable spam kind of approach of I like your style really just uh did not work uh over and over again right another story of a recent client um on an immersion I actually got to witness his date and it was really really the
• 14:00 - 14:30 same kind of thing really boring interviewyoutube [Music] [Music] the hottest girl he's met during the
• 14:30 - 15:00 program right and so this just shows that like often times these small little tweaks of going from you know question quicksand to making more statements more Dynamic Expressions more fun stupid playful misinterpretations more nonlinear conversation even these little small seemingly small tweaks can really have you know massive changes in your results right and it's really these little tweaks you know some here some here
• 15:00 - 15:30 changing your texting changing your conversation changing your emotional expression changing how you lead changing how you set up the date um changing um you know how you respond to a girl and what she says all these little things add up right and ultimately it's like these little baby steps these little 5% here 5% here that lead to massive changes in results getting hotter girls having a hotter girlfriend having the girl more engaged
• 15:30 - 16:00 getting more you know casual hookups if that's your thing right and so um yeah that being said another thing I'll get asked is like where are the hotter girls well if you're in Korea if you're in Soul really the top of the top is usually in kangnam area right it's because the area is known for its beauty known for having the most uh Beauty clinics fashion shops plastic surgery you know everything is so focused on um
• 16:00 - 16:30 appearance in the area you know there's the celebrities the entertainment companies the hostesses the model agencies the um you know flight attendant eies all of the uh sort of businesses or opportunities that are focused on beauty are really concentrated in that area that being said of course you go to other areas you go to H day you have very gorgeous young student types artistic types you go to different areas and different types but when it comes to really just a high
• 16:30 - 17:00 concentration of the top of the top of the top it really is going to be in the K Kum District whether that's you know akang Shin kangam station shinan station uh yokam places like this right and so really if you're going out for Day game you're going out for Street approaches that and you really want to focus on just high high high quality girls that would be the place right and then of course if it's night game you you know often times the uh higher in clubs in
• 17:00 - 17:30 Gangnam District in shinsa in akang or even the um the poas the lounge bars in those areas akong Rodeo shinsadong uh places like that will have a higher higher concentration compared to uh other places like Ean or uh other spots you may visit right all right so um hopefully you got some really good tips really to kind of summarize these tips right some useful tips to really
• 17:30 - 18:00 change your game up to really get more attractive girls to have better interactions with hotter girls is uh first of all if you're already experienced if you're already getting you know some okay girls some average girls um from the internet but want to up your quality really just delete the apps really delete it and go and Street it up right um that's one tip um get out of the complacence get out of hiding behind the apps get
• 18:00 - 18:30 out of not putting your balls on the line get out of the frame of avoiding uh approaching the girls you're really into right another tip would be to get out of the question question question quicksand thing right um very very common issue almost every guy I've coached has this issue at one point or another and so really making a kind of challenge for yourself that you're only going to make statements you know until you can do it for a day a week a month until it
• 18:30 - 19:00 becomes sort of second nature right you in grainless habit that I go up I talk I share statements I make cold reads assumptive playful statements um and then once that becomes second nature then you can ask questions because you're not asking questions because you have nothing to say or you're being lazy or boring you're asking probably more strategic questions right logistical questions um things that might get the interaction moving forward so to speak
• 19:00 - 19:30 right that's another huge major tip another one is being more dumb being more fun being more nonlinear misinterpreting uh what the girl says you know and uh really answering even in the wrong kind of ways going on you know stupid dumb tangents uh things along these lines right being more dumb being not more nonlinear allows the girl to have fun to be unpredictable and to sort of uh warm up to your presence in a way right and
• 19:30 - 20:00 so yeah I hope these few tips have been very useful um finding where the hot girls are going to those areas uh deleting the apps um being more fun more dumb and then also uh asking more qu or sorry making more statements making more statements than asking questions right and so uh yeah I've really um been very happy with the progress after coaching clients giving exact tips you know in
• 20:00 - 20:30 the past month or so had a handful of clients and uh they all ended up really changing up their results getting uh one guy aay with a really really hot girl um another guy which was very rare for him he says um you know much above his quality blew his mind so to speak uh another guy you know even got uh I think it was two or three last week um very attractive girls and uh and another guy
• 20:30 - 21:00 did actually I think he got his first it was his first uh time approaching in the daytime on the street and got his first date um from that as well and so that has been really good and then uh another guy uh just sharing some kind of client stories here another uh client actually had just got back from Japan um was out there for a while comes to Korea really just blown away by the quality
• 21:00 - 21:30 and um he uh he was he's also kind of falling into that like needing the perfect thing to say needing the perfect asking a bunch of questions but with the adjustments he uh has he said he booked a couple dates and then got his first girl he pulled um from the daytime uh to his place and got a result right and so uh until next time if you have any questions you know can leave them either in the comments below um or even email
• 21:30 - 22:00 me I'll drop the email down uh in the comment section or in the show notes and also if you're interested in a program you're interested in actually improving in your game getting better quality girls sharpening up uh learning to uh learning to really improve your dating skills and get the results that you want then reach out to me we can uh book a call and uh see what kind of program would be a good match for you a boot
• 22:00 - 22:30 camp program perhaps an immersion program perhaps an online remote program all right until next time