20 Things Your Husband Wish You Knew About Him As A Good Man

Summary

The video by "The Happy Wife School" discusses the challenges good men face in feeling misunderstood and unappreciated in marriages. Highlighted are 20 key qualities these husbands wish their wives recognized, focusing on their moral integrity, supportive nature, and desire for familial happiness. The creator emphasizes that perceiving these qualities helps rebuild relationships and offers courses for both men and women to improve their marriages, fostering understanding and personal growth.

Highlights

• Men feel they are unfairly blamed and portrayed as the problem in relationships. 😟
• Good men possess important qualities like honesty, support, and integrity. 💪
• Understanding these qualities can help women see their husbands' true nature. 👀
• Courses are available to help men regain confidence and women improve self-awareness. 📚

Key Takeaways

• Good men often feel unappreciated and misunderstood in their marriages. 🤔
• Recognizing a husband's positive qualities can lead to a happier marriage. 💑
• Communication and understanding are key to resolving marital issues. 🔑
• The Happy Wife School offers courses to help both partners improve their relationship. 🎓

Overview

In today's revelation, "The Happy Wife School" delves into the often silent struggles of good men in marriages. These men find themselves in a bind, feeling misunderstood and oftentimes wrongly accused of being the issue in their relationships. The video invites wives to pause, listen, and truly perceive the goodness in their husbands, consequently fostering a happier and more understanding marital environment.

Presented are 20 notable traits that husbands wish their wives acknowledged. These qualities include moral integrity, emotional support, and a strong commitment to family welfare. The intention is to help wives appreciate the underlying strength and love in their husbands, which can often be overshadowed by day-to-day challenges and misunderstandings. By acknowledging these traits, couples can work towards building a more harmonious relationship.

To aid both husbands and wives in this journey, the creator offers specialized courses. These are designed to enhance self-awareness among women while bolstering men's confidence and relationship skills. These educational tools aim to bridge the gap in marital misunderstandings, ensuring both partners contribute positively to their union. Ultimately, these resources serve to empower individuals to foster more fulfilling and balanced relationships.

Chapters

• 00:00 - 00:30: The Quiet Desperation of Good Men The chapter explores the quiet struggles and internal conflicts faced by good men in relationships. It delves into their feelings of confusion and self-doubt as they ponder over changes in their partners' behavior and happiness. The narrative suggests that these men are left in a state of silent desperation, questioning their own actions and choices that might have led to the transformation of the women they once loved into difficult and unhappy individuals. The chapter calls attention to the emotional turmoil and the hidden battles these men endure while trying to understand and navigate their changing relationships.
• 00:30 - 01:00: Listening to Your Husband The chapter titled 'Listening to Your Husband' emphasizes the importance of wives taking the time to truly listen and understand their husbands. It suggests that if wives were to genuinely hear what their husbands have to say, they would realize that beyond any issues or faults they focus on, there are 20 qualities that make their husbands good men. The key message is to move away from blame and criticism and instead, recognize and appreciate the positive attributes in their husbands.
• 01:00 - 01:30: 20 Qualities of a Good Man The chapter discusses the important qualities that define a good man. It emphasizes the significance of listening to the entire list of qualities to gain a complete understanding of who a good man truly is. The chapter concludes by highlighting the most crucial quality, which is saved for last, and reflects the collective insights from hundreds of good men.
• 01:30 - 02:00: Vulnerability and Perception The chapter 'Vulnerability and Perception' delves into the sensitive aspects of men's emotional experiences, exploring how societal and marital pressures can lead men to lose touch with their inherent vulnerabilities. The discourse highlights the blame and portrayal men often face, shedding light on their struggle to reconnect with their vulnerable sides after being conditioned to view them negatively. This chapter advocates for understanding and empathy towards men who grapple with these issues, aiming to portray them in a more compassionate light.
• 02:00 - 02:30: Introduction to the 20 Things The introduction lays the groundwork for the exploration of 20 insights into the thoughts and desires of husbands, specifically from the perspective of good men. These insights are shared from experiences gathered in various courses, aiming to reconnect and reveal the core essence of good men. The chapter does not yet delve into the specifics of the 20 things but sets the context for their discussion.
• 02:30 - 06:00: 1-10 Qualities of a Good Man The chapter discusses the qualities that contribute to being a good man, emphasizing introspection, the ability to admit mistakes, and the willingness to change. It highlights the importance of being a good communicator who is straightforward and says what they mean.
• 06:00 - 09:00: 11-20 Qualities of a Good Man This chapter continues to explore the qualities that define a good man, focusing on their moral compass. The highlighted quality is a man's ability to act morally, distinguishing right from wrong and good from evil. This reflects an honest and straightforward character devoid of hidden agendas or manipulative behaviors.
• 09:00 - 10:00: Conclusion of the 20 Things In this chapter, the emphasis is on personal virtues and characteristics that define a trustworthy and reliable individual. The narrator highlights being even-tempered, not easily angered or offended, as a key attribute. Trustworthiness is depicted as the ability to keep secrets and being someone that friends and family can rely on. These qualities tie into building and maintaining strong, healthy relationships.
• 10:00 - 11:00: Courses for Women and Men The chapter titled 'Courses for Women and Men' discusses the perspective of the narrator or a character who considers themselves a 'big picture person.' This individual believes in making choices that benefit the family in the long term, even if those choices do not provide immediate gratification. The emphasis is on the value of long-term planning over short-term pleasures.

20 Things Your Husband Wish You Knew About Him As A Good Man Transcription

• 00:00 - 00:30 sad truth is that good men live in a quiet desperation and in a quandry for what happened to the woman they fell in love with and what have they possibly done wrong that she's become so difficult and so unhappy so ladies in a quiet
• 00:30 - 01:00 moment if you as a wife were willing to sit down zip it and listen and actually really hear your husband this is what he would want you to know that despite the issues and the faults that you focus on these are the 20 qualities your husband has as a good man when you stop blaming critic izing
• 01:00 - 01:30 and finding all that is wrong and of course I think the most important is number 20 and saving the best for last so it is crucial that you listen to this whole list to know and open up to see who your husband truly is and in working with hundreds of good men that this is what they have shared
• 01:30 - 02:00 with me in a very sensitive and vulnerable way because these are the things that have been beaten out of them that they have lost touch with because of how much they have been blamed and portrayed by their wives and society that they are the problem so I am sharing this on behalf of good men again and excuse me if I'm a little vulnerable
• 02:00 - 02:30 in doing that um but these are the 20 things your husband wish you knew about him as a good man and I'm going to share from their perspective and again these are what men have shared with me in my courses that they sometimes struggle to reconnect with and really see but it is the core of who they are as a good man and I'm just going to read the 20 because they are powerful and speak for themselves number
• 02:30 - 03:00 one I am introspective admit when I am wrong and am willing to make changes number two I am a good and straightforward Communicator I say what I mean
• 03:00 - 03:30 without any hidden messages or games number three of what your husband wish you knew about him as a good man I act morally in recognizing right from wrong and good from Evil number four
• 03:30 - 04:00 I am even tempered slow to anger and not easily offended number five I am trustworthy I can keep a secret and my friends and loved ones can trust me number six of what your husband wish
• 04:00 - 04:30 you knew about him as a good man I am a big picture person and can see and know what is best for our family long term I know that making short-term choices that might feel good in the moment may not be the best in the long run
• 04:30 - 05:00 number seven I am able to disagree without being disagreeable and this man shared most of the time so as I go through this good men aren't perfect and never claim to be but this is the core of who they are number eight of what your husband wish you knew about him as a good man I am very easy to
• 05:00 - 05:30 please and appreciative of all the blessings and good things in my life number nine I love for my wife and children to be happy and cared for I enjoy providing for the needs of my family number 10 I find great joy in making others
• 05:30 - 06:00 laugh and feel less worried in life number 11 of what your husband wish you knew about him as a good man I always want what is best for my wife and my family number 12 I have a good
• 06:00 - 06:30 and kind heart number 13 I work hard and always try to improve myself number 14 of what your husband wish you knew about him as a good man I fully support my wife
• 06:30 - 07:00 and always provide her encouragement in whatever she does number 15 as a father I want my children to be set up and prepared for a successful life number 16 of what your husband wish you knew about him as a a good
• 07:00 - 07:30 man I forgive things very quickly and easily and rarely hold a grudge I do not live in the past number 17 I am an independent person that is willing to do what it takes to get things done and willing willing to take full
• 07:30 - 08:00 responsibility for my own actions number 18 I always do my best to uphold my Integrity word and character number 19 I am in tune with my family's needs
• 08:00 - 08:30 usually to a fault sacrificing my own needs and number 20 of what your husband wishes you knew about him as a good man which is the most important I will sacrifice myself and my own desires to uphold my vows and my
• 08:30 - 09:00 responsibility to my marriage so again these are the 20 things that your husband wish you knew about him as a good man that as women through our emasculation of them manipulation living in Camp victims seeing them as the problem we beat out of our husbands
• 09:00 - 09:30 have lost sight of and cannot see because we can only see through that lens of negativity but what I just described and the 20 things your husband wish you knew about him as a good man which again started as a list of 10 then moved to a list of 15 and then we ended up with 20 is the core of who a good man is and it doesn't mean he's perfect or
• 09:30 - 10:00 that he doesn't stray from this or make mistakes or lose sight of his character and constantly being blamed and treated as the problem in the relationship but this is the nature and core of who a good man is hello again thank you so much for taking the time to watch today for those women listening who know you are the problem and you want a path forward to change your woman ways and truly be
• 10:00 - 10:30 happy in yourself I have a course for women called the happiness program and the happiness program teaches you to resolve the unhealthy relationship you have with yourself so that you can be the solution to the issues and challenges in your marriage and your life you can find the link in the description below to learn more about the course and apply to enroll for the good men listening who want a way to take back the power you've unknowingly given away to to your wives I also have
• 10:30 - 11:00 a course for you called the marriage rescue course for good men only and the course teaches you how to rebuild your strength and confidence so that you can navigate the relationship with your wife in a healthy constructive way again you can find the link below in the description to learn more about the course and apply to enroll again thank you so much for watching today and I look forward to seeing you again soon