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Supporting LGBTQIA2s+ Youth | Family Acceptance Project | NASW Social Work Talks

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    Summary

    This episode of Social Work Talks, sponsored by Connect to End COVID-19, features Caitlyn Ryan, executive director of the Family Acceptance Project. Caitlyn shares her extensive experience in LGBTQ health and mental health, emphasizing the significance of family support in reducing risks and promoting well-being for LGBTQ youth. Through the Family Acceptance Project, Caitlyn and her team have developed culturally relevant educational and intervention resources that guide families to understand and support their LGBTQ children while respecting their cultural and religious beliefs. The project aims to empower families, build healthy youth futures, and cultivate advocates who foster change in their communities. Despite current challenges in LGBTQ rights, Caitlyn's work continues to provide crucial support to families in diverse settings worldwide.

      Highlights

      • Caitlyn has dedicated over 45 years to LGBTQ health and advocacy, starting in the 1970s 🌟.
      • The Family Acceptance Project was created to support families with LGBTQ children by respecting cultural values 🤝.
      • Their research identified over 100 behaviors that affect LGBTQ youth's health, leading to strategies for family support 🧩.
      • The initiative includes creating resources in 11 languages to reach diverse cultural and religious groups 🌍.
      • Despite political backlash, the Project continues to work worldwide, offering training and resources 🏳️‍🌈.

      Key Takeaways

      • Family Acceptance Project helps diverse families support LGBTQ children by respecting cultural traditions 🌈.
      • Family support reduces health risks, promoting well-being for LGBTQ youth ❤️.
      • Caitlyn's 45-year journey in LGBTQ health has led to groundbreaking interventions 🏆.
      • The project offers culturally relevant resources for family support and education 📚.
      • Current political challenges highlight the need for ongoing support and advocacy for LGBTQ youth 🚨.

      Overview

      In a touching episode of Social Work Talks, Caitlyn Ryan shares her inspiring journey that spans over four decades in the field of LGBTQ health and advocacy. Her calling began in the 1960s with the anti-poverty movement, eventually leading to pivotal roles in addressing LGBTQ health disparities. Through her efforts, she sought to bridge gaps in healthcare access and create a more inclusive society.

        The Family Acceptance Project, a fruit of Caitlyn's relentless dedication, was formulated to help families learn and practice supportive behaviors towards LGBTQ youth, thereby promoting well-being and reducing risks. By recognizing family dynamics and cultural values, the project offers a unique approach to aligning traditional beliefs with modern acceptance, fostering healthy family interactions and stronger community bonds.

          Today, the Project stands as a beacon in advocating for LGBTQ youth, providing crucial resources and training to families worldwide. Despite facing current political challenges and anti-LGBTQ sentiments, Caitlyn's work exhibits an unwavering commitment to education, advocacy, and empowerment, encouraging families to become allies for their children and champions for equality and acceptance.

            Chapters

            • 00:00 - 00:30: Introduction and Episode Sponsorship This chapter introduces the podcast episode and mentions sponsorship by the organization 'connect to end COVID-19'. The host, Greg Wright, welcomes Caitlyn Ryan, the Executive Director of the Family Acceptance Project, to the show.
            • 00:30 - 01:30: Introduction of Caitlyn Ryan and the Family Acceptance Project The chapter introduces Caitlyn Ryan and the Family Acceptance Project, which focuses on educating and assisting families in supporting their LGBTQ children within the framework of their cultural and faith-based traditions. It highlights that the project is a pioneering research, education, intervention, and policy initiative aimed at diverse families.
            • 01:30 - 03:30: Caitlyn Ryan's Background and Early Involvement in LGBTQ Health This chapter introduces Caitlyn Ryan, focusing on her background and early involvement in LGBTQ health. It highlights her extensive career in the field, marking her 45th year of work in LGBTQ health and mental health. Caitlyn had a strong calling for this work from her teenage years, initially engaging with the anti-poverty movement during the 1960s in impoverished communities. This early experience shaped her understanding of the impact of the lack of health resources, which led to her ongoing commitment to improving the health and mental health outcomes for LGBTQ individuals. The chapter sets the stage for understanding her motivations and the foundational experiences that led to the creation of the Family Acceptance Project.
            • 03:30 - 05:00: Development of the Family Acceptance Project The chapter discusses the personal and professional journey of an individual who recognized the profound impact that lack of care and discrimination have on people’s lives. It highlights her commitment to addressing these issues as 'the most important work' she could do. Upon coming out as a young lesbian in the 1970s, she immediately engaged with organizing efforts within the early LGBTQ health movement, which today would be acknowledged as such. Her initiatives included developing and carrying out the 1979 national lesbian and gay health conference as well as establishing a national network of LGBTQ providers, reflecting a pivotal step in LGBTQ health advocacy.
            • 05:00 - 07:00: Research and Findings on Family Behaviors and LGBTQ Youth The chapter introduces the research and findings on family behaviors and LGBTQ youth, emphasizing the historical context and challenges faced by the LGBTQ community. The narrative begins with the author's early observations of unmet healthcare needs predating the AIDS crisis.
            • 07:00 - 09:00: Impact of Supporting and Rejecting Family Behaviors The chapter discusses the early involvement of an individual in LGBTQ health through volunteer work and organizing efforts. The focus is on developing the first AIDS organization in the South and highlights the high proportion of gay and bisexual men of color, particularly black men, affected by the AIDS epidemic. The individual's journey continued after obtaining an MSW and becoming the first director of an AIDS organization, emphasizing the impact of both supporting and rejecting familial behaviors in this context.
            • 09:00 - 12:00: Cultural Sensitivity in Family Support Approaches In this chapter, the author discusses the challenges and importance of cultural sensitivity in family support systems, particularly in the context of the LGBTQ community in the southern United States. The narrative focuses on a time when many individuals moved to larger cities like Atlanta to live more authentically as LGBTQ individuals, often away from the prejudices of smaller towns. However, when parents and caregivers visited these cities, sometimes due to the illness of their children, they were confronted with the reality of their child's sexual orientation, often dealing with surprise and additional emotional distress. The chapter emphasizes the need for awareness and sensitivity in familial interactions and support structures, particularly in diverse cultural contexts.
            • 12:00 - 15:00: Challenges and Successes of the Family Acceptance Project The chapter focuses on the challenges faced by the Family Acceptance Project, particularly highlighting the lack of understanding and acceptance of LGBTQ+ individuals by their families. It points out that during the AIDS crisis, many families were unaware of their LGBTQ+ family members' lives and identities. The media at the time emphasized family rejection, showcasing how families would often distance themselves, showing up only to take possessions after a young person's death from AIDS. This reflects the broader societal attitude towards LGBTQ+ individuals and the critical need for projects that promote family acceptance.
            • 15:00 - 18:00: Influence of Cultural and Religious Beliefs The chapter explores how cultural and religious beliefs shaped perceptions and imagery regarding gay and bisexual men during a time of crisis. The narrative highlights the horrific imagery associated with these groups and the resulting familial rejection. Despite the negativity, many parents and caregivers expressed a willingness to do anything to change the future if they had known the impact of their beliefs sooner. The realization emerges that there is a need for a mechanism to provide accurate information and guidance before reaching critical endpoints such as the verge of death.
            • 18:00 - 21:00: Building a Supportive Environment and Addressing Challenges The chapter focuses on providing guidance to families and caregivers to support LGBTQ individuals. It describes the journey of developing a family support program, including conducting research and gathering necessary resources. The narrative spans many decades, culminating in a move to California 20 years later to further these efforts.
            • 21:00 - 25:00: Global Reach of the Family Acceptance Project The chapter 'Global Reach of the Family Acceptance Project' begins with the author's move to San Francisco State University in 1999 to establish an institute focused on LGBTQ health equity and social justice. This initiative marked the beginning of a collaboration with the California Endowment, which sought to incorporate LGBTQ health into their focus. Working alongside Raphael Diaz, the author developed the Family Acceptance Project, which conducted pioneering research on the subject.
            • 25:00 - 30:00: Current Challenges in LGBTQ Advocacy The chapter titled 'Current Challenges in LGBTQ Advocacy' discusses developing a family support model to aid diverse families in supporting their LGBTQ children. The main goal is to reduce identified health risks and promote the children's well-being. Over 100 specific behaviors of parents and caregivers in response to their LGBTQ children were identified through the research.
            • 30:00 - 35:00: Role of Social Workers in Supporting LGBTQ Youth Research on parental behaviors indicates a split between rejecting and accepting actions towards LGBTQ youth. Rejecting behaviors, such as forcing religious activities to alter identity or preventing association with LGBTQ groups, have been linked to serious health risks in youth. The study highlights the importance of understanding how these actions significantly affect the mental and physical well-being of LGBTQ children.
            • 35:00 - 40:30: Resources and Future Directions for the Family Acceptance Project The chapter titled 'Resources and Future Directions for the Family Acceptance Project' discusses the significant mental health risks faced by individuals due to family rejection. It highlights that such individuals have more than an eight times greater likelihood of attempting suicide, a nearly six times greater likelihood of suffering from high levels of clinical depression, and are three times more likely to use illegal drugs, thereby increasing their risk for HIV and sexually transmitted infections. Additionally, the chapter mentions the identification of over 50 family supportive measures that can mitigate these risks.
            • 40:30 - 44:30: Conclusion and Closing Remarks The chapter discusses behaviors that safeguard against risks and promote well-being, particularly in the context of LGBTQ young people and their families. It highlights the importance of actions like standing up for children when they're mistreated and finding positive role models to offer future options. Through collaboration with LGBTQ youth and families, a participatory framework was developed, leading to the creation of the first family support model aimed at reducing risks for these young people.

            Supporting LGBTQIA2s+ Youth | Family Acceptance Project | NASW Social Work Talks Transcription

            • 00:00 - 00:30 This episode is sponsored by  connect to end COVID-19. [Music]   Welcome to Social Work Talks my name is  Greg wright and it's my honor and it's also   our pleasure to have a Caitlyn Ryan here  she is executive director of the Family   Acceptance Project Caitlyn hi how are you Greg  it's great to be with you I'm good hope you're
            • 00:30 - 01:00 well too thank you thank you so I want you to tell  this audience exactly what is a Family Acceptance   Project and what is this mission the Family  Acceptance Project is the first research education   intervention and policy project to help diverse  families learn to support their LGBTQ children   all of our work is carried out in the context of  the family's cultural and faith-based traditions
            • 01:00 - 01:30 in the context of their cultural worlds the roots  of the Family Acceptance Project go way back   to my early days this is actually my 45th year  going into my 46th year working in LGBTQ health   and mental health uh I had a calling for this work  when I was a teenager I started working in the   anti-poverty movement in the 1960s in impoverished  communities and I saw the impact of lack of health
            • 01:30 - 02:00 care and discrimination on people's lives and I  realized this was the most important work that I   could do and when I came out as a young lesbian  in the 1970s I immediately became involved in   as an organizer in the early LGBTQ health movement  as we would call that today developing you know   the 1979 national then we called it lesbian  gay health conference and a national network of   LGBTQ providers and in carrying out the  conference and developing that network
            • 02:00 - 02:30 I saw multiple unmet needs in our community that  predated AIDS - I did the first lesbian health   care survey - I was accepted into social work  school after having to fight to become a social   worker as an out lesbian in the 70s and I was  sent to Atlanta to do my first field placement   where the CDC had identified AIDS in  1980 at the same time as I arrived
            • 02:30 - 03:00 and and I started immediately doing early work  there as an organizer in uh in LGBTQ health   I started as a volunteer to help develop  the first aids organization in the south   and I don't know that people realize that  from the very beginning of the epidemic   a high proportion of people with aids were gay and  bisexual men of color black gay and bisexual men   and part of my work as I as soon as I graduated  with my MSW I became the first director of aid
            • 03:00 - 03:30 Atlanta and part of my work involved meeting  families who came from across the south   to the bedsides of their dying children at that  time there was a huge LGBTQ community in Atlanta   hardly anybody was out and people moved to the  big cities to try to integrate their lives without   shaming their families and so these parents and  caregivers came from small cities and towns across   the south they were devastated to learn at the  same time that their son was gay and bisexual
            • 03:30 - 04:00 and was dying of aids they didn't understand  why maybe they only came home once a year   why they didn't know anything about their lives or  anything about who they were and the media at the   time was focused on family rejection on how all  families were rejecting on how they swooped in   when a young person died and took everything  that was accumulated by a couple and left
            • 04:00 - 04:30 the surviving member of that couple with  nothing I mean the imagery about gay and   bisexual men was horrific and the imagery  about families was all about rejecting   behaviors but I saw this incredible response from  so many parents and caregivers that would have   done anything to change the future if only they  knew what that was but it was at the portal of   death it was at the last moment and so I realized  that we needed to have a way to provide accurate
            • 04:30 - 05:00 information for families and caregivers about  LGBTQ people way to help them learn to support   LGBTQ family members and that started me on a  many decade course of really beginning to plan   for how I could develop a family support program  do research get the resources that I needed   and it wasn't really until 20 years later  when I was recruited to move to california
            • 05:00 - 05:30 uh in 1999 I started talking with san francisco  state university about moving there to set up   an institute on LGBTQ health equity and  social justice and as part of that work   when I moved to california the california  endowment invited me to present a proposal   on LGBTQ health because they wanted to add LGBTQ  health to their portfolio and with Raphael Diaz   I developed the Family Acceptance Project  it conducted the first research on LGBTQ
            • 05:30 - 06:00 young people and families the intent was indeed to  develop that family support model that could help   you know racially ethnically religiously diverse  families learn to support their LGBTQ children   to reduce the serious health risks you know  that have been identified over many years   and help promote well-being so that's what I did  and that research included identifying over 100   specific behaviors that parents and caregivers  engage in to respond to their LGBTQ children
            • 06:00 - 06:30 about half of those behaviors were rejecting half  were accepting it included behaviors like making   your child pray or attend religious services  to change their identity not letting them have   an LGBTQ friend or participate in LGBTQ support  groups and we showed how those rejecting behaviors   contributed to serious health risks lots of  those rejecting behaviors we correlated with
            • 06:30 - 07:00 a more than eight times greater likelihood of  attempted suicide or a nearly six times greater   likelihood of high levels of clinical depression  or more than three times as likely to use uh   illegal drugs and put oneself at high risk  for HIV and sexually transmitted infections   and we also identified over 50 I'm just going to  say we also identified over 50 family supportive
            • 07:00 - 07:30 behaviors that help protect against risk and  promote well-being and those were behaviors like   standing up for your child when other people  mistreated them because of who they were or   finding a positive role model to give them  positive options for the future and so based   on those behaviors and together in a participatory  framework with LGBTQ young people and families we   developed not only the first family support model  that help could help you know reduce these risks
            • 07:30 - 08:00 and promote well-being and do so in the context of  the family's cultural world but a whole range of   family guidance and educational and assessment  materials based on these behaviors that would help   families learn to support their LGBTQ children and  so that's what we've been doing over the past 20   years and this is actually the 20th anniversary of  the Family Acceptance Project wow I was wondering
            • 08:00 - 08:30 if you have any estimates on how many families  that you've worked with at this point Caitlyn   I'm sure it's been probably like hundreds of them  at this point it has been hundreds and I would say   that i've worked with over a thousand LGBTQ youth  it's even more than that if I think about going   back you know to the early days of doing this  work because I did another project in faith-based   communities before I started the Family Acceptance  Project but the other thing I think that's really
            • 08:30 - 09:00 been so inspiring for me is that i've worked with  families across cultural and racial and religious   backgrounds and what I found is you know based  on our work that when information and guidance   is presented to them in culturally relevant ways  they can learn to support their LGBTQ children   and become more supportive and decrease those  rejecting behaviors and in doing so strengthen   the family and what's also been so moving is that  once they learn to support their LGBTQ children
            • 09:00 - 09:30 and learn about the disinformation that's really  so widespread about sexual orientation and gender   identity not only do they learn how to advocate  for their own children but many of them across   diverse racial backgrounds also become advocates  for other people's children and are helping build   civil society and change communities and  really change and build healthy futures
            • 09:30 - 10:00 I was also uh wondering if the playbook  changes for you based on the family so   in other words is there a different strategy  when you are working with a black family or   an asian or a mormon one or are  there a lot of commonalities going on   ironically there are a lot of commonalities in  those three groups that you just mentioned and   the family is at the core of all of them and if  we start to think in particular families of color
            • 10:00 - 10:30 families are their first buffer against racism  and discrimination it's the way that parents   transmit knowledge about their racial identity  and building communities and living in the world   the Family Acceptance Project's basic model is the  same regardless of the background of the families   but we do an in-depth cultural assessment up front  to learn about the cultural and religious values   to learn about what the parents and caregivers  know and don't know about sexual orientation
            • 10:30 - 11:00 and gender identity to learn about their hopes  and dreams for their child and we do separate   assessments with the child and adolescent  and the family members to really understand   where each of them is coming from and so  our psycho-education plan our approach   is grounded in their cultural world so  there may be some differences in how   the family perceives sexual orientation and gender  identity differences in stereotypes differences in
            • 11:00 - 11:30 how they communicate with their child but we base  all of that in their cultural world so it's very   uniquely culture based and I think that's one of  the reasons why we've been so successful because   we hear a lot Greg about queering this or  queering that and that's one of the things that's   very troubling for families from traditional  backgrounds they don't want to queer anything   they want to have this child as they had expected  them to be they're really many are troubled by
            • 11:30 - 12:00 a queer identity that they don't understand  at all because I think largely because of   the misinformation and disinformation so  we're approaching them working with them   in the context of their cultural world which  is very different than trying to queer anything   and that includes their underlying cultural and  religious values their family values almost every   parent wants their child to be happy healthy to  have a good life to keep their family together
            • 12:00 - 12:30 and that's how we work with them there may be  some specific values related to gender roles   or religious values that may be different with  some of these families but what we found is that   most families want their child to be  safe and healthy and part of the I think   the power of our work is that because  we've identified and measured behaviors   we can show them that it's not their beliefs  that are harmful it's not their values that
            • 12:30 - 13:00 are harmful it's these behaviors that so many are  engaging in because they think they're going to   help their LGBTQ child to make sure that  people will treat them with respect to keep   their family together to help them  fit in and once they realize that   the beliefs that are grounded in certain  kinds of misinformation and disinformation   about LGBTQ people are then leading to  behaviors that are putting their child at risk
            • 13:00 - 13:30 we help them change and modify those behaviors and  we can show them especially in the early stages of   working with them families that believe that this  is wrong we can show them that there are behaviors   that they can engage in to support that LGBTQ  child without having to accept an LGBTQ identity   that that to them may be very wrong and those are  simple behaviors that we can show them how we've   measured them and what that looks like behaviors  like simply talking with your LGBTQ child and
            • 13:30 - 14:00 listening respectfully without ridiculing them or  punishing them requiring that other family members   treat their child with respect like all of the  other children in the family because they're a   member of the family because they're a child of  god if it's a religious family standing up for   your child when other people mistreat them because  of who they are because of their LGBTQ identity   or gender diversity these are things that parents  and caregivers can do that we can show how they
            • 14:00 - 14:30 reduce risk and help promote well-being but they  can do that without having to agree that this is   what they want this is acceptable that these are  that this is an appropriate behavior and it's a   way to begin to open the door once they learn  that they can increase connectedness with their   child and help decrease those high risk behaviors  they're in [promo: Join nasw's national Connect   to End COVID-19 effort - it's a CDC-funded  initiative to support social workers and their
            • 14:30 - 15:00 clients in informed vaccine decision making. NASW  is collaborating with its partner the University   of Texas at Austin Steve Hicks school of  social work to provide national webinars,   chapter trainings tools, and information that  promote vaccine confidence among social workers   and equip social workers to support clients in  informed vaccine decision making. Visit NASW's   website to learn more.] Yes so, what if a parent  is of a faith that actually believes that a child
            • 15:00 - 15:30 who is queer is automatically going to go to  hell are you trying to like alter that belief or   like just have them not express that in a harmful  way Caitlyn I think it's more of the latter but we   don't attack their beliefs and that's something  that is really important for them to understand   that we are there to help them learn to support  their LGBTQ child and strengthen their family
            • 15:30 - 16:00 so our approach really is to  understand what are their underlying   values and beliefs in terms of their family  culture in terms of their religion we've worked   with families from many rejecting religious  backgrounds but when we ask them about their   beliefs and then about their religious values it's  very clear that the values are different than the   beliefs and i'll give you an example many of the  world's major religions condemn homosexuality
            • 16:00 - 16:30 and increasingly many are anti-gender diversity  but when you look at the underlying values of the   world's major religions they're not values of hate  or victimization their values of mercy compassion   love and so we're helping families and  their pastors very often whom we've worked   with in religious leaders understand those  underlying values show them how LGBTQ young   people because of the way people treat them  are at extremely high risk for suicidality for
            • 16:30 - 17:00 ending up out of home for ending up in the  foster care system for example which really   impacts life chances across the course of their  lives helping them understand their high risk and   most people don't want that to happen so we can  show them how to modify those rejecting behaviors   and and how that actually helps decrease their  child's risk and pulls their family together and   part of this is it's a process young people have  been thinking about their identities typically for
            • 17:00 - 17:30 a while by the time families find out and families  find out very quickly and maybe carry a lot of   misinformation and also believes that  this is wrong and so what we're actually   doing is helping them reconcile values and  beliefs some people can do that very quickly   some it takes longer and part of our process  includes peer support with families from their   cultural and religious backgrounds who have LGBTQ  children who've been on that journey and who can
            • 17:30 - 18:00 help them understand what this really means for  them and for their family and how they can in fact   reconcile what seems like discordant beliefs so  how does the uh Family Acceptance Project find   the families that it's uh working with I mean is  it a referral are like faith-based organizations   reaching out to you how are you like finding that  connection out there Caitlyn well we provide a
            • 18:00 - 18:30 number of different kinds of services one is  we actually do a great deal of training across   the u.s and in other countries on helping diverse  families learn to support their LGBTQ children and   that training could be for families themselves  for foster parents in the child welfare system   for providers for youth and religious leaders we  also early on in the work when we developed our
            • 18:30 - 19:00 family support model we had the funding here on  the west coast to provide those services directly   and when that funding ended I started  working with agencies across the u.s where   we've been helping them implement faps family  support model so my role is really as a coach in   training and providing guidance and  case consultation to help them build   those programs and to increase family support  and because we've developed a whole range of
            • 19:00 - 19:30 different kinds of materials everything from a  family support model to intervention strategies to   multilingual multicultural family education  materials like our healthy futures posters   that are in 11 languages and cultural versions  we can show many people how to use these tools   in simple ways to start to modify these rejecting  behaviors and increase support so we work
            • 19:30 - 20:00 in a range of ways including building the field  you know by writing about this work and publishing   on our strategies and intervention framework  how many other nations other than the   uh us are you working in now Caitlyn I think in  like china at some point correct I worked in china   I worked in korea i've been working in the  spanish-speaking countries for about 15 years
            • 20:00 - 20:30 and actually about a week ago I did the opening  session for an international conference it's   an organization of families with LGBTQ children  from 23 spanish-speaking countries so i've been   working with them in those countries and have  presented in a number of different countries   over the years and and some of them actually went  across the country and did education and training   so we've been working with them to  provide guidance to policy makers
            • 20:30 - 21:00 to use our research to change repressive laws  and to disseminate our Spanish-speaking materials   in those different countries and  and I've worked with Canada as well   and I'm hoping to work with them increasingly in  the future and with some of the European countries   so we're in a political alarm environment now  where there was a lot of progress on LGBTQ rights   but now there are several states that have either  enacted or are thinking about enacting anti-LGBTQ
            • 21:00 - 21:30 laws so how has this affected the work that you're  out there doing Caitlyn I think the situation now   is extremely serious and in fact in all the years  that I've worked in LGBTQ health and mental health   I have not seen it as dire as it is  now there's been a dramatic increase in   distorted violent rhetoric and public violence  there's been significant stress on LGBTQ children
            • 21:30 - 22:00 youth and families especially for transgender  and gender diverse children and youth and   it's affected my work a lot I mean it's increased  my level of stress because for me part of the   tragedy is that we don't have systems in place to  provide accurate information guidance and support   for these diverse families with LGBTQ children  and these services are especially lacking in
            • 22:00 - 22:30 in our public systems in for low-income racially  diverse young people and families for those that   are involved with child welfare juvenile justice  and mental health systems we don't I think really   understand that we need to be providing the same  kind of support across systems of care that we   routinely provide for other children with special  needs for our LGBTQ children and their families
            • 22:30 - 23:00 I think historically sexual orientation and  gender identity especially sexual orientation   is seen as a private behavior and not something  that our public systems are should be addressing   and because of the information age and the  dramatic changes really over the last 30 years   we now see many many young people increasingly  coming out in childhood not just as transgender   not just observing gender diverse expression  but also young children coming out as
            • 23:00 - 23:30 gay lesbian bi whatever language they use  largely because they can see positive images   of themselves that they could never see before  and because this these identities are much more   in the public domain than they ever were before  we talk about them in schools in our congregations   over the dinner table in our families so young  people are identifying at very early ages families   are having to grapple with this but our public  systems still I think carry those perceptions
            • 23:30 - 24:00 that these are private behaviors this is  something that is an issue of adulthood   or older teens it's not part of childhood and  what we're seeing now Greg is the stripping away   of those information barriers that prevented us  from seeing what normative development of child   and adolescent identities looked like and we're  seeing that now those are a function of childhood   just like other identity development that starts  in childhood it's not something that all of a
            • 24:00 - 24:30 sudden pops up at age 21. but our systems aren't  acclimated to that they're not used to seeing it   they're now seeing this as something that's  deviant and unfortunately the violent divisive   rhetoric that's just so widespread now and spread  through the media is fanning that and it's it's   telling parents and caregivers when they see these  issues in their children that there's something   really wrong with this that they have to fix it  that they have to try to change them at home with
            • 24:30 - 25:00 you know the more than 50 rejecting behaviors  that we've identified and measured and then   maybe send them to some kind of a provider or  religious leader to try to change them outside   the home it's a dire situation because I think  our systems of care have neglected these families   especially families that are disadvantaged because  of so many historic uh gaps in who they are and   what's happened to them and how they're treated  how information is disseminated uh access to
            • 25:00 - 25:30 resources they don't have the same level of access  to resources and care as families with resources   and this is a very serious problem right now and  I think also in uh in religiously conservative   communities those young people and families  lack access to accurate information and support   and I think that we're going to see increased  levels of risk over a considerable future   wow so my final question uh for you is I was  wondering if you could give social workers advice
            • 25:30 - 26:00 on how they can help like members of the LGBTQ  community especially on our youth and children   I think social workers are in a unique place to  make a difference uh one of the things they could   start doing is using our healthy futures posters  in their agencies these are 11 different cultural
            • 26:00 - 26:30 and language versions that on a single page tell  the story of family acceptance and rejection   and there are three versions of these  posters in these different languages plus   a guidance a poster guidance that explains the  research underlying them it gives more than 20   plus rejecting or accepting behaviors that we've  shown contribute to health risks and health you   know promote well-being on a single page you don't  need a social worker or any other kind of provider
            • 26:30 - 27:00 to interpret the poster it's there by putting it  in public spaces where everyone can see it and   learn about these behaviors we're immediately  telling people how important families are   families are the most important resource  for their LGBTQ children and that could be   a mentor a foster parent auntie grandma uh  it's it's all different kinds of caregivers   we've shown with our research how important  they are but one of the things I think that
            • 27:00 - 27:30 people don't understand is you don't have  to have a whole intervention program or   special staffing to be able to make a difference  just by helping everyone understand that behaviors   matter the behaviors impact their child's risk  and well-being that's something that we can do   right now and one of the things we did recently  was we created a new webs but I'll start again   one of the things we did recently was we created  a new online resource for LGBTQ youth and families
            • 27:30 - 28:00 diverse young people and families that is a place  where youth can go on their own where parents and   caregivers can go on their own and where they can  go together as a family and that website includes   a national searchable website with resources to  increase social support to decrease mental health   risks around the us and some outside the us it  includes what we think is the largest list of
            • 28:00 - 28:30 affirming culture-based resources where parents  and young people can find resources to help them   affirm those intersectional identities  across their diverse identities   organizations that may be local but have  online activities and where they can talk   with someone and get more information about  integrating those identities it includes a   really large list of diverse affirming faith-based  resources and some of them like unity fellowship
            • 28:30 - 29:00 which is an african-american congregation that's  LGBTQ affirming have online worship services where   if it isn't in your community you can go online  and worship together as a family it includes   our evidence-based resources from the Family  Acceptance Project and national resources and this   is something that really should be on every list  of resources that all providers should be aware of   and and I hope you put the link to it up next to  how you're going to disseminate this interview but
            • 29:00 - 29:30 the website is we will we will should I tell you  what the website is tell you what the website is   uh yes yes please and uh we'll also  post that up in on our show notes up   under this episode as well fantastic so  the website is lgbtqfamilyacceptance.org and we developed this website with the  institute for innovation and implementation   at the University of Maryland that has  a very large network of LGBTQ affirming
            • 29:30 - 30:00 services and supports and a deep reach into social  work practice so this is something that everybody   can do right now and also they can become familiar  with our work at the Family Acceptance Project   they can come to the Family Acceptance  Project's website familyproject.sfsu.edu learn more about some of the materials  that we've developed including   a publication for supporting LGBTQ young people  in child welfare a publication for samsa in
            • 30:00 - 30:30 how to create more affirming agencies and  our first best practice resources for suicide   prevention for LGBTQ young people that was listed  in the national best practices registry for   suicide prevention there are a lot of resources  to open eyes they're written at a more simple
            • 30:30 - 31:00 literacy level to engage and involve  families and in different languages   and I think self-education is one of the most  important things we can do as social workers   the beauty of being a social worker is  you can practice for many many years   and it's something that we can even do as  volunteers in retirement and self-educating   about what transgender identity means what gender  diversity means what sexual orientation is like   in childhood and adolescence what family support  means these are things that we can learn about
            • 31:00 - 31:30 and we can teach everyone about because the  beauty of the work of the Family Acceptance   Project it's not just for work it's  information for life that we can use in   every parts of our lives including in our  communities and congregations and certainly in   our cultural worlds because families really matter  and that's I think the most powerful outcome of   this work that really is the culmination of my  work in LGBTQ health over almost five decades
            • 31:30 - 32:00 thank you so this is Caitlyn Ryan from the Family  Acceptance Project they are celebrating a 20th   anniversary and I hope that you have far more  than 20 years more because there's a lot of work   and we're so happy that you're on the forefront  out there doing it thank you [Music] you have been
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