❤️ How to get a girlfriend – A Feminist Chauvinist's opinion on women, love and romance💞

Summary

Highlights

• Go beyond the superficial; genuine connection is about more than physical attraction. 👫
• Focus on self-improvement and understanding your own needs. ✅
• Avoid the misleading advice from 'pickup artists' and seek meaningful romantic goals. 💡
• Engage in relationships that allow personal growth and challenge each other positively. 🌱
• Respect and understand the uniqueness of women to foster a deep partnership. 🌹

Key Takeaways

• The creator's perspective blends fitness dedication with romantic success - exercise your mind and heart! 💪❤️
• Understanding oneself and personal intentions is crucial before pursuing a partner. 🔍
• Reject the 'pickup artist' mentality for genuine connection and self-growth. 🛑🚫
• Navigating the balance between masculinity and femininity can enhance relationships. ⚖️
• Pursue love sincerely, avoid the pitfalls of modern dating wisdom. 🙌

Overview

Chapters

• 00:00 - 03:00: Introduction: Video Purpose The introduction of the video begins with the creator addressing their YouTube audience, expressing gratitude towards the supporters of their channel. Last year, as a token of appreciation, the creator made a dedicated training playlist, which they mention is available in the video description. This year, they intend to do something unique to continue showing appreciation for the community of natural lifters who engage with their content. The creator is still deciding on the specifics of this year's gesture.
• 03:00 - 06:00: Request and Motivation for Video In this chapter titled 'Request and Motivation for Video', the narrator discusses requests for a video on how to get a girlfriend from a channel frequently posting comments about it. While generally the narrator does not always comply with external requests for content that don't align with their channel's themes or seem inappropriate, they acknowledge that this particular topic, regarding women, is something they've touched upon in past videos. Therefore, there's a possibility for its inclusion.
• 06:00 - 09:00: Importance of Women in Life The chapter discusses the significance of women in the lives of heterosexual men. It highlights the viewpoint that finding a partner and building a life with a woman is an essential aspect of being a man, with some even arguing that it is the primary purpose of a man's life. The author acknowledges that such a statement can be controversial and suggests exploring this topic in detail.
• 09:00 - 12:00: Anti-Gaming Stance and Personal Experience with Women The chapter explores insights and strategies on building meaningful relationships with women. It emphasizes understanding women, sustaining healthy relationships, and eventually fostering families. The content is aimed at guiding men to avoid typical pitfalls in relationships, enabling them to successfully find and maintain connections with women.
• 12:00 - 15:00: Pickup Artists Critique and Personal Growth In this chapter, the narrator sets the stage for a detailed critique of pickup artists, promising a lyrical and less rigid analysis compared to their usual style. They mention the use of timestamps for those who want to skip to specific sections, and reference a request made using a particular hashtag, though not one that initially caught their attention.
• 15:00 - 18:00: Rejecting Bad Advice and Emphasizing Personal Growth The chapter titled 'Rejecting Bad Advice and Emphasizing Personal Growth' explores the misconceptions around certain dating strategies, specifically the 'gaming' approach towards women. It argues against the notion that interacting with women requires manipulation or deceit, challenging the perspective that women are like a system to be hacked. Instead, the chapter emphasizes understanding and genuine connection, advocating for personal growth and authentic relationships rather than relying on superficial tactics.
• 18:00 - 21:00: Friendship, Introspection, and Avoiding Dependence The chapter explores themes of friendship, self-reflection, and self-reliance, touching upon the notion that trickery or manipulation to gain affection highlights underlying insecurities and lack of confidence. It emphasizes the importance of being comfortable in one's own skin, rather than relying on strategies to win over others. The speaker expresses a personal belief in natural interaction without resorting to tactics or 'game.'
• 21:00 - 24:00: Balanced View on Inter-Gender Relations The chapter 'Balanced View on Inter-Gender Relations' challenges common perceptions about having 'game' in relationships, particularly concerning men and women. The narrator claims that being labeled as having no 'game' is often misunderstood, as it does not necessarily imply difficulty in interacting with women. Instead, the narrator asserts a deep understanding and success in dating, contradicting popular approaches such as those promoted by pickup artists. The chapter promises to offer an alternative perspective and method for engaging in inter-gender relations.
• 24:00 - 27:00: Masculine and Feminine Dynamics The chapter 'Masculine and Feminine Dynamics' explores the perspectives and outcomes of certain men who follow a specific belief system. The speaker expresses confidence in their own approach to life and relationships, in contrast to others who they believe are mistaken. The speaker suggests that despite what these men might portray, they often end up lonely and without family or children, indicating a fundamental error in their understanding or approach. This chapter delves into the consequences of these life choices and the dynamics between masculinity and femininity.
• 27:00 - 30:00: Avoiding Promiscuity and Meaningless Relationships The chapter discusses the mindset of some men towards relationships and sex, particularly those who struggled to interact with women during their younger years. These difficulties create frustrations that lead to an obsession with sex, viewing it as the primary goal of relationships. The chapter suggests that this one-dimensional perspective limits men from understanding and engaging in deeper, meaningful relationships. It critiques the belief that sex is the ultimate aspect of all relationships with women, equating such thinking to having a childish or simplistic view of human connections.
• 30:00 - 33:00: History and Evolution of Gender Roles The chapter discusses the historical and evolving perceptions of gender roles, focusing on the impact of misguided approaches towards relationships and the usage of gender roles. It touches upon the misconception of seeking fulfillment in sexual conquests, which leads to dissatisfaction and projects blame onto women. The narrative highlights a misunderstanding of feminine potential and how misuse of gender roles can contribute to individual misery, suggesting that deeper engagement and respect for gender dynamics could foster happiness.
• 33:00 - 36:00: Relationship Management and Boundaries This chapter delves into the psychology behind certain types of behavior in relationships, particularly focusing on individuals who spread misinformation. It is explained that these actions are often not intended to harm others but are rather a coping mechanism for the individual's own issues. By portraying their lifestyle as ideal, they manage their own insecurities but inadvertently negatively influence young men by skewing their perception of what a fulfilling life should be. The chapter highlights the importance of managing personal issues without impacting others negatively and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships.
• 36:00 - 39:00: Biological vs Cultural Drives The chapter explores the differences between biological and cultural drives, particularly focusing on the understanding and interaction between young men and women. It discusses how young men often develop a superficial perception of women, influenced by older individuals who claim to teach them about relationships. However, the chapter critiques this dynamic, pointing out that these older individuals are often not more mature than the young men they teach, as they tend to be part of communities comprising other young or disillusioned men. The chapter invites readers to reflect on this shallow understanding and encourages a deeper introspection into these relationships.
• 39:00 - 42:00: Marriage and Commitment The chapter emphasizes the importance of choosing whose advice to take, particularly in the context of relationships and dating. It cautions readers about following advice from pickup artists or individuals who may not have the desired life attributes, such as stable relationships or family life. The implication is that if someone’s life lacks the qualities or goals you aspire to, their advice may not lead you in the right direction.
• 42:00 - 45:00: Concluding Thoughts on Relationships and Society The chapter discusses the pitfalls of a promiscuous lifestyle and casual sex, suggesting that such a life does not lead to true happiness. It emphasizes that this message might be challenging for teenagers to accept, given their current focus on sex. However, the chapter argues that without the influence of these lifestyle choices, one's personal development would naturally guide them to this realization.

❤️ How to get a girlfriend – A Feminist Chauvinist's opinion on women, love and romance💞 Transcription

• 00:00 - 00:30 hello youtube last year as a christmas present for the people who actually support this channel i decided to make a training playlist that you can find in the description and for this year i wanted to come up with something a little bit special in the continuation of my efforts to thank you for the time you spend watching the channel and building a community of natural lifters i wasn't really sure what i was going to go with but there is a certain individual on the
• 00:30 - 01:00 channel that has spent a lot of time posting comments requesting a video about how to get a girlfriend now i won't necessarily always follow the the wills or the demands of people who want certain types of videos on the channel especially if i think that they're bad or that they're not aligned with what i do but in this case the topic of women is something that i've hinted at in the past in several videos
• 01:00 - 01:30 and something that a lot of you guys are very interested with and for a very simple reason the vast majority of my viewers are heterosexual males and therefore finding a girl and building a life with a woman is a very important part of being a man some would even say that it's actually the only purpose that exists in a man's life and since just saying that statement for example can be quite controversial i think it's very interesting to discuss it in details so for your christmas
• 01:30 - 02:00 present this year i am making a full segment on how to get a girlfriend how to understand women how to make sure that your relationship lasts and are healthy so that you can build a family and have children with that person eventually and how to deeply understand yourself as a male so as to avoid common mistakes that end relationships or make it so that some men are never able to either find a woman or keep a woman
• 02:00 - 02:30 so this is what we're going to be talking about today it's going to be a long video it's going to be a video that is going to be fairly lyrical so i'm going to take my time it's not going to be as rigid or severe as some of my other analysis so if you want to go to a certain point of the video you can use the timestamps now to make one thing clear the person who asked for the video used a certain hashtag and it's not hashtag that caught
• 02:30 - 03:00 up because it sounds catchy and the hashtag was release the french game well i'm not going to teach you how to game women because women are not a computer to be gamed okay it's not a system that you can hack this very approach is already an issue in my mind because it truly shows that a lot of men think women to be so foreign that the only way to access them is to trick them which also means that deep down they
• 03:00 - 03:30 have integrated the idea that women don't really want them because when you have to trick someone with strategies and nagging to get them to be with you this means that deep down there is an issue with your confidence you don't think you're good enough as you are and therefore you try to change try to simulate something in order to actually access girls that will not be necessary because i will not be sharing any game with you as i have personally no game whatsoever
• 03:30 - 04:00 now usually when you say you have no game people assume it means that you're not good with women actually quite the opposite i'm fairly gifted when it comes to talking to women i understand women on a fairly deep level and i'm i've always been very successful when it comes to dating at least past my teenagehood i say that because the methods and the approach i want to share with you is one that is going to be diametrically opposed to that of the people that you see on youtube all of the pickup artists
• 04:00 - 04:30 etc but to me it's because i believe i have the correct approach and i believe that theirs is wrong i think that they are deeply mistaken and the proof is in the pudding because when you look at these men you look at their lives not what they say their life is or what they present on youtube but their actual life they tend to be very lonely they tend to never actually achieve a family and they never have children and to me these are signs that they [ __ ] up at some point because
• 04:30 - 05:00 that's the entire goal when you actually get a girl the girl is not just sex they think like children they have the mindset of toddlers they cannot go beyond that and usually that comes from men who had a tough time accessing women when they were younger develop frustrations frustrations that then turned out their entire world upside down because they ended up being obsessed with sex and so they saw sex as the n-o-b-o of all relationships and all women
• 05:00 - 05:30 and therefore the only thing they seeked afterwards was sex and when they achieved that they think that that's it there's nothing further and yet they're so miserable so they usually project that onto women and they think that it's women's fault it's not women's fault you're not accessing women the proper way you're not tapping into the feminine potential that could make you very happy you're just using them for sex it's the reason why you're suicide and the problem is that usually misery loves company it's more complex than that
• 05:30 - 06:00 psychologically these types are not spreading the misinformation in order to make other men miserable usually what is happening instead is that they are trying to cope with their own problems by making it so that they present their life as the life that a man should live and it allows them to sleep at night they feel better about themselves the problem is that they damage the life of young men when they do that and since
• 06:00 - 06:30 young men are going to also have a very shallow understanding of what women are it usually works right because when you're 14 and some like 20 year old tells you that he can teach you how to pick up women like this it's attractive to you but it should be a it should be a wake-up call for the guy because he's on the same intellectual level as a 14 year old because usually the communities of these people are either children teenagers or bitter men like themselves and this is what i want you to do
• 06:30 - 07:00 when you take advice from people it's for everything in life but especially for women if you're going to listen to a man's advice about how to get girls etc look at their station in life and what they have and what they want and then recess if that's something that you want to most pickup artists again are without wife without children and our life surrounding and the entire dating thing and the pickup thing is
• 07:00 - 07:30 quite sad do you want that is that the type of life that you want you want the life of a bachelor i can tell you and i will go get back to it because it's going to be the main theme of the video that the life of promiscuity and of casual sex is not a life that is going to lead you to happiness if you are a teenager it's not going to be something you want to hear because right now you're obsessed with sex but i can tell you that if your development was never poisoned by these types you would have realized that at some
• 07:30 - 08:00 point and i hope i can be the voice that allows you to swerve around all of that misinformation and actually pursue your actual calling in life which is making so that your masculinity eventually is paired with femininity that you can actually create a whole we'll get back to the topic of these two notions later on as well now since i just told you that this also means that you must know where i'm coming from before i discuss it so i'm
• 08:00 - 08:30 going to be fully transparent and tell you exactly what i am not who i am because it's not going to be needed i'm not going to disclose much of my life in this video but you just need to understand what i do and what i'm about to get where i'm coming from and what my advice is going to be so i'm someone personally who had a very tough time with girls growing up mainly because i wasn't sure whether i liked them or not i wasn't sexually
• 08:30 - 09:00 oriented at all when i was younger i had other focuses and i started to realize my attraction to women when i was maybe 15 or 16. when my puberty started actually but it it took still a few years for me to then biologically hormonally feel attracted to women so i really started getting interested when i was 1920 which is very old and by that time most of my friends were already way past their virginity they had multiple girlfriends
• 09:00 - 09:30 and i had zero so i started with a lot of luggage and the problem is that that type of luggage made me to rush and my approach to women wasn't the correct one i was too direct i made many mistakes but these mistakes helped me learn because at no point did i think it was women's fault i perfectly understood that in this case it was my fault it was my approach that was wrong so i want to teach you also how to get a girlfriend the proper way how to approach women the
• 09:30 - 10:00 proper way which is not shared openly on this platform or others after that it led to a certain phase of my life where i was what some would call a slayer where i had many women i was seeing many women at the same time and i was using these women for sexual relationships it's the only thing i was really doing with them i wasn't dating any of them but i wasn't putting up firm boundaries so a lot of them thought that they could eventually secure me if
• 10:00 - 10:30 they gave me sex which never happened which also damaged the lives of these women which which is entirely entirely my fault and this phase lasted me for i think two or three years where i couldn't understand why i wasn't happy because i was getting everything i ever wanted right women loved me i could have as much sex as i wanted again i was seeing three four beautiful women in the same week but it was never fulfilling
• 10:30 - 11:00 that that deeply rooted need that i felt should have been fulfilled by this and the reason why i felt like this is because culture in general had told me that it was the way to go right you're young you're a man you should go out should see as many women as possible you should be a you should seduce them etc to me it doesn't work like that and i think that for you it doesn't look like that either because i have had many friends who are like this i also know all the men who are like this who are still bashers in their
• 11:00 - 11:30 40s or 50s all of these men are miserable that's the one thing they have in common and yet they have had hundreds of sexual partners but it has never made them truly happy it made them happy in the instant and it's something i realized as well and why i want to warn you against the pursuit of a woman just for the sake of sex it always of course is going to feel good and there's going to be a part of you that is going to feel like you're on top of the wood because you concur concurred you managed to seduce a beautiful woman and convince her to have
• 11:30 - 12:00 sex with you great you had a good time but after that what comes well what comes most time is devoid it's emptiness is nothing you're going to be in bed near someone who you feel nothing for and it's it breaks something in you the more you do that the more you repeat that cycle the more you are starting to trap and trap yourself into a lifestyle that is just going to make you more and more miserable and hollow inside so even though i personally wouldn't be
• 12:00 - 12:30 able to tell you not to do it because i did it myself i firmly believe that if you were to avoid the mistakes i made you would be better off so that's what this is what this advice is going to be about today it's coming from a guy who [ __ ] up and eventually was redeemed because now i am redeemed the information i'm going to give you comes from a man who is now in a committed relationship for life and by for life i mean until the day i am dead
• 12:30 - 13:00 and this is to me the station in my life where i've been the most happy and where i can i can see the most happiness in the future because i am building something a real thing right with a strong foundation and i want you to build that thing as well so this is advice coming from a guy who's mostly a monk in a comedy monogamous relationship where i'm deeply faithful and i believe that this person is the person that is going to be with me for
• 13:00 - 13:30 the rest of my life i hope i deeply hope that you can find that person as well i know for a fact that that person exists for you somewhere there is no way around that but the question is are you going to are you going to be able to find them and are you going to be able to be the correct person when you find them that it works out statistically if you look at the world there are billions of people so there's tens of thousands of people on this earth that could be your soul mate i don't buy into the notion that you have
• 13:30 - 14:00 only one soul mate that's nonsense there's no such thing as a twin flame there are tons of people who would fit your criteria and be very good for you tons of them so don't start off by thinking oh there's no one for me i did the same mistake when i was young i couldn't relate to women i couldn't create any connections be it emotional or intellectual with women and that created resentment and i thought that it was my fault in my case i saw this as my fault i was weird i was
• 14:00 - 14:30 i was a freak and therefore i couldn't ever find a woman to build a life with i was of course deeply wrong but it took time for me to understand it what needed to change was the way i saw myself and the way i projected what was inside to the public because i can tell you and this is again the inner inner knowledge i have that i have met women who could have been good partners for me but i wasn't a good partner for them in the instant so it
• 14:30 - 15:00 never worked many men are like this many of the pickup artists the insult in cells are like this the issue is not what they are it's not who they are it's not that they're born cursed it's that they never actually managed to become the person they should be and that is the person that would have been able to find a girl and build something so today i'm not going to spend too much time pointing the finger at women i'm going to be pointing the finger at you because the problems come from you
• 15:00 - 15:30 but even though i say that you will still be able to see that this video is going to share some fairly sexist chauvinist and sometimes even feminist mindsets into your face because i don't like labels i have my own beliefs i make no apologize for them to me there are certain realities that need to be said and if they are sexist then so be it they are in my opinion the reality so i want to be able to share them with you but as i said i'm going to
• 15:30 - 16:00 be sexist towards both men and women i don't discriminate because i do see that's the that's the entire solution of the entire question i discriminate between men and women because men and women are not the same if you're going to discuss the two genders coming together to create a bond then you have to be sexist because you cannot look at the two sides from the same length or the same angle it simply doesn't work i know that this modern wood is now hell-bent on presenting men
• 16:00 - 16:30 and women as interchangeable it is not true and saying that is actually cruelty and it's the reason why men and women don't really get along together anymore is because of that we are trying to just uh make everything flat we're trying to equalize everything and since we are simply not equal by both it doesn't function a relationship between a man and a woman is based off of inequality it doesn't mean that one dominates or don't do one other one doesn't but there
• 16:30 - 17:00 are power relations to take into account and they are directly linked to gender so it's what we're going to get into today with the discussion about how to get a girlfriend healthy relationships and how to have self-control in said relationships as i just said the approach is going to be focused on the biological but not just that because to me if you're going to discuss women you need to look at them
• 17:00 - 17:30 as creations of science so of evolution what they were at the beginning and what they have become through time but you cannot stop there see many in cells many and men going their own way pick up parties whatever they want to reduce women to their meanest and simplest expression which is the biological because it makes it easier to understand and also right rightfully say that the cultural approach to seducing women doesn't work because too much of culture
• 17:30 - 18:00 has been poisoned by people who either want to separate men and women or who have absolutely no idea what they're talking about it's the reason why i told you to be very careful when you take advice from people look at their life make sure that they actually know what they're talking about since getting girls is a very important marker of success as a man many men lie about getting women it's the reason why again you've heard that old saying if you ask a guy how many girls he banged
• 18:00 - 18:30 you can divide the number by four and if you ask a girl how many men she [ __ ] you can multiply the number by four it's because for men it's seen as a good thing to have many partners and for women it's the opposite this is a distinction that is linked in the biological but it also means that many men are going to lie about the number of conquests they're going to lie about their prowess and if you have no experience with women well you have no way to actually know if what they're saying is correct or not so you're going
• 18:30 - 19:00 to fall for it and you're going to follow them in their footsteps and since they're losers like most pickup artists are you're going to end up a loser yourself so you need to have a certain degree of logic and of reasoning and it's also applying to what i'm going to say listen to my words and question them i might not be correct but i'm going to try and give you as close to the truth as i can potentially get to and that to me is a balanced approach a
• 19:00 - 19:30 balanced approach between the biological and the cultural because women are yes creatures biological creatures but there are also cultural beings just like men just like you cannot reduce masculinity to just hormones there's also a cultural part and this leads to the mistake that many men make as i said too many of these people on the internet the in-cells etc only look at women for their biology
• 19:30 - 20:00 but the opposite side of the spectrum is just as bad which is the same scent the men feminists whatever who only look at women for the cultural aspects of them the two are wrong of course because the two are extremes and are not balanced if you end up just looking at women as those perfect angels from creation you're going to put them on a pedestal and if you look at them just for their biological purpose you're going to reduce them you're going to vilify them and on both sides
• 20:00 - 20:30 it's bad if you vilify women you're going to end up in a situation where you are developing an intellectual relationship with women that is negative because you see them as beneath you but at the same time you lust after them and you want them so it's going to make you hate and detest something that at the same time you desire which is very dangerous and on the other hand if you put women on the pedestal and you refuse to see them for the vile creatures that they can be sometimes you're going to
• 20:30 - 21:00 just glorify them to the point that are going to be inaccessible so we're going to look at women for what they are and what they are is a mix of scientific and poetry to me the man who looks at women just via the lens of the scientific is an idiot and the person who looks at them via the lens of poetry and poesy alone is a four they are both but you'll see that since i'm more of a four that i'm an idiot my approach is more lyrical i have a more
• 21:00 - 21:30 literature-based understanding of femininity in women so maybe you're going to vibe with that maybe not but we'll get to that still the key approach i'm going to apply is based on evolution it's an evolutionary approach to dating to women etc because evolution is not just biological it's also cultural so the two work hand in hand i'm going to use that for the most part so for the typos if you're the type of
• 21:30 - 22:00 person the type of man who is going to think that because we now live in big cities with iphones then the path doesn't matter this video is not really for you just like if you're the type of man that just wants to [ __ ] chicks it's not for you either i think you're deeply mistaken in both cases i respect your mistakes to me it is just not the proper approach you need to find a woman to build something with her not just [ __ ] her and to do that you need to understand what women
• 22:00 - 22:30 are not who they are who they are doesn't matter there's too many women on this planet you can't know what they you can't know who they are individually but you can know what they are and i know that that statement makes some people scream because they think it's sexist and generalizing or women well all women are cut from the same clothes they're all women just like all men have similar traits it's important to know these traits because if you want to understand women globally you cannot take the time to learn them one by one you need to
• 22:30 - 23:00 know what they are before you start to learn who they are and since you're going to want to discover who your lover is it's going to be first step knowing what what animal they are deep down because that's mostly what creates relationships by the way it's that difference that is found in the biological that then that then gives birth to the culture it's what attracts these opposites together it's also the
• 23:00 - 23:30 reason why this modern era that is trying to turn men into women and men into men is so dangerous and the reason why people have less and less relationships and less and less children is because we are becoming less attractive for one another women like masculinity men like femininity if if men start to lack in mastermind then women start to lack in femininity we're not going to be as attractive to one another and that is terrifying because it could lead to the destruction and
• 23:30 - 24:00 death of the species or not there yet but was slowly moving towards that even though there are more and more people on this planet you will see that we will reach at some point the breaking point for now it's just really in the west but the problem is that that type of poisonous cultural corruption spreads i'm not going to spend too much time on it but that's where i'm coming from so the drive to reproduce is going to be taken into account because it's the main reason why men and women get together and the cultural layers will be slapped
• 24:00 - 24:30 on top of it afterwards with the discussion of the masculine and the feminine which are notions that are also very contentious many people don't agree with what they are i'm going to give you my plain understanding of what both of these things are to me again keep in mind that you can be a woman and have some masculine traits and you can be a man and have some feminine traits it's not necessarily bad but i think that saying that there is no such thing as a masculine or feminine trait is extremely
• 24:30 - 25:00 dangerous because that's not true we have social standards and we arbitrarily assigned characteristics to men and women that are just linked to their character but these come from biology so at the end of the day they are deeply linked with biological gender it is impossible to argue against that people who think that gender is a social construct need to go back to third grade to learn some basic biology okay so we're going to discuss women as
• 25:00 - 25:30 creatures i am going to use terms that are going to be a little bit upsetting for some i don't really care because you need to understand the beast that they are so that you can understand the beast that you are you have a deeper understanding of what you are as a creature as a man i hope but i'm still going to teach you some things today because some men are not a hundred percent certain or even aware of what they are not who they are but i have noticed that many people who don't know what they are also don't know who they
• 25:30 - 26:00 are because biological identity is linked to cultural identity so it's going to be an effective school as we say in french it's going to be killing two birds with one stone you're going to learn about women and by learning about women you're going to learn about yourself which is also why if you're a chick and you're watching this for some reason maybe you're a lesbian it's also going to help you because you're going to understand men what men are and if you understand men you're going to have an easier time getting a boyfriend so it also works in a sense
• 26:00 - 26:30 all right let's get into the topic how to get a girlfriend we're going to start with that it's the title of the video it's why you clicked first off i want you to think about why you want a girlfriend in the first place it might sound stupid but it's very important that you actually take the time to understand why because your intent is everything intent in life is everything when you do something you need to know why you're
• 26:30 - 27:00 doing it if you don't know why you are most likely going to mess up at some point you need to have the end goal in mind and the thing with getting a girlfriend is that it is a cultural thing now meaning that it's in shows you discuss that with your friend all the time you discuss women all the time so some of you are going to be peer pressured into caring about girls when deep down you don't and i know that i was like that where i was maybe like first second year of high school and my friends were saying like oh look at diaz on that one look at her boobs and i was
• 27:00 - 27:30 like oh yeah amazing and in my head i was thinking about like playing pokemon and swimming or stuff like this i knew i should have cared but i didn't at the time that's fine okay take your time be at your own pace and don't get a girlfriend just because everyone else does you're not less of a man because you don't have a girlfriend you're not less of a man because you're a virgin not less of a man because you have never kissed a girl it's fine i know that many men obsess over that and it makes them
• 27:30 - 28:00 miserable you go on forearms and you have people saying oh i'm a kissless virgin and i never held a woman's hand that's fine i'm here to tell you it's fine i think my first kiss a real like sexually charged kiss was when i was maybe 20 in my 20s and then i lost my virginity when i was 21 and now i'm 27 and i am committed with a woman and i'm going to have children with her so don't worry about all of that stuff don't think that just because you have a slow
• 28:00 - 28:30 start it's the end for you it's not but that frustration and that hatred you've developed towards your own self because of it might be the death of you because it's going to prevent you from actually moving forward so move forward always and keep your intent in mind after that you need to think about the type of companionship that you are seeking once you have said okay yes i do want a girlfriend all right well we all want a girlfriend a woman for the same reason it's for companionship but there
• 28:30 - 29:00 are many categories and many different types of companionship the first one and the most obvious being lost many teenagers want a girlfriend because they want to [ __ ] her there's nothing wrong with that okay i'm not the type of guy who is going to tell you that sex is bad sex is beautiful sex is sacred sex is a human need and with sex comes a plethora of other things touch intimacy the ability to trust someone with your body all of that is
• 29:00 - 29:30 incredibly important men a lot of men don't realize it but what they call lost and really encapsulates those three aspects the most important one being touch many men don't realize that what they want is not some dick to swallow some dick it's not some shake to swallow their dick hole what they want is a girl to touch him to actually put their hands on them to hug them and it's something that is fairly you know feminist in a sense to even say because
• 29:30 - 30:00 it's not considered to be a masculine trait it's even supposed to make you feel in a sense a bit like a [ __ ] if you express the fact that you would want people to touch you that you would want hugs that you need people to actually be in contact with you but it's not it truly isn't and if you start detesting that aspect of you and you think it makes you weak and soft you're going to start to demonize the very approach that would
• 30:00 - 30:30 lead you to actually receiving that and it's going to make you miserable you're a man okay you're tough you're whatever you want but at the end of the day you are still a social creature and you need warmth you need contact women get that all the time they touch each other all the time men don't so that might be what you think is lost what is pushing you towards women is not just the want to empty your balls it's the need for intimacy and that is perfectly normal i will not shun you for
• 30:30 - 31:00 that you're not a bad person for wanting that but you need to be able to know it because it's going to help you distinguish in your head between that or just primal lust that is sexual drive some men are like that some men just want women to [ __ ] them in that case the question i have for you is isn't your hand enough if you're just going to use a woman as a fleshlight why don't you just jerk off because at the end of the day you wouldn't get from sex what you should be getting from it which
• 31:00 - 31:30 is intimacy if that's the case you need to reassess you need to take some some some steps back and think about it because if you start doing that you're going to end up in the situation hours in my case that i said like many men i thought i wanted sex for sex sake what i wanted instead was a connection with someone but because i was never able to see beyond the sex i would just
• 31:30 - 32:00 have sex with random women and then for nothing and then do it again hoping okay next time next time it'll work well it never did because i was always keeping it physical a relationship with a woman cannot just be physical they are incapable of that we can pull it off but it's not good for us so go beyond that re really talk to yourself and try to see where you're coming from it also is in a sense as i said a feminist stance to say that when you say
• 32:00 - 32:30 that men are not just baboons that want to empty their balls it actually also means that what we seek in women is not reduced to sex many people say that men are pigs or men are dogs well i mean in a sense we are we are dogs but what do dogs want they want affection they want love from their owner it's also what we want we have been reduced to our sexual drive but it's truly not a fair representation of what men are it isn't
• 32:30 - 33:00 and by doing that by allowing yourself to accept that fact you're also going to be able to access what women are because if you approach women from a sexual and physical standpoint alone you're going to spend the rest of your life never able to access what they have inside and the true treasure of a woman is our heart i know it's cheesy to say but yes fat houses are great and boobs and whatever it's good it looks good of
• 33:00 - 33:30 course it's attractive but it's not what makes a relationship last it truly isn't the physical is important but if it's just that it goes nowhere so allow yourself to go beyond allow yourself to actually access the feminine beauty that could be yours if you didn't let yourself fall for it i hope that makes sense i want you to be able to understand that the physical appearance of a woman that attracts you towards her
• 33:30 - 34:00 is in a sense just the start it's just the beginning that's like it's it's step number one okay you that that is it's verified it's okay now the physical attraction is there it allows you to then access the spiritual the mentor and deepen the connection and in a perfect world sex would only happen at that point when the connection is already deep modernity has completely ravaged that that's over even for my generation that was over i
• 34:00 - 34:30 most women i see i saw dated for a brief period of time we had sex the first day like the first day i met them we had sex so i hope that your generation the people younger than me my old brothers will be able to go back to a healthier approach or you wait for sex and you make sex what it is which is an emotional connection i don't know if it's going to be possible because again the teenager in you just wants to [ __ ] and since women are extremely easy nowadays
• 34:30 - 35:00 well it's going to be at your disposal so if you are able in your teenage hood to resist that urge then i salute you because you are a better man than i was at that age so that was for lost if you want to girlfriend for lost these are the questions you need to ask yourself after that we can talk about loneliness many men are extremely lonely most people actually who express feelings of extreme loneliness are men most people who kill themselves because of extreme loneliness
• 35:00 - 35:30 are men this is also not something to be ashamed of you are lonely because you're a social creature you have been sold the idea that men are like these wolves and that we shouldn't need love and we can just survive in the jungle by ourselves for 15 years that's not true it's the reason why by the way solitary confinement is a form of torture it's because it makes you go insane to not have the ability to have social interactions with others and even men who are outliers in terms
• 35:30 - 36:00 of that suffer from it i am personally an extreme loner and a monk and yet i can remember and think back to peers of my life when i spent maybe five six days without talking or touching another human and i was starting to go insane the person without me was receding and the animal was taking more and more space and i saw that it wasn't good i was slowly losing my mind so you might be in that situation as well and the worst thing is that you are
• 36:00 - 36:30 being told by society as a whole that because you can't get a girl you are a failure as a man and it makes you feel even worse it's a it's a very vicious cycle that is just making you dig your own grave and you will never see the light again accepting that is the first step okay you want a mate because you feel lonely my solution to you is not going to be something you want to hear but you need to hear it here a woman will not be able to fix your problems even if by miracle
• 36:30 - 37:00 you managed to actually grab a woman and she wanted to date you in your sorry state you would just make her miserable because women don't like needy men women don't want needy men it's based off of evolution if you are needy it means that you don't have any other options so you're not a good mate so most women are going to avoid you completely and the few that will take you in are going to eventually hate your guts because you're not the proper person for them yet doesn't mean that you can't be but you need to fix
• 37:00 - 37:30 yourself so what you need to do is you need to accept yourself as your own best friend you need to spend time with yourself you are alone but you are never truly spending time with yourself and there is a problem your mind is constantly wishing and fantasizing about other people about other women you will stay in that state of dream like existence until you spend the rough and tough time to actually talk to your own self and discover who you are and at
• 37:30 - 38:00 that point you can seek social interactions but trying to find a girlfriend to complete who you are and make you feel happy is not going to work i can tell you that it has never ever worked and even if it did what happens when the girl leaves what happens when the relationship breaks down you're going to go right back down to that deep dark hole so it's not sustainable and the thing too and it's something i
• 38:00 - 38:30 shared on the channel already one time is that if you're going to go find a girlfriend you will want a person that completes you but if there's nothing to complete what happens right if i put two blocks together while the two blocks have pre-existing substances that allow the two together to create a structure but for you there's nothing there's not even a block so what she has to do all the work she has to make all of the blocks herself it's going to exhaust her and it's not going to function so make yourself build
• 38:30 - 39:00 yourself up before you actually seek something else outside of yourself you don't need to be complete you don't need to be perfect to get a girl that's also a problem that i see many people have where they wait to be ready well you'll never be ready right i have progressed and made character evolutions out of place now with my girl that i've never made in the past and that's also what makes women so gorgeous and beautiful is that they are designed to push men forward
• 39:00 - 39:30 if you find a good woman she will make you progress that also means that you need to make sure that you don't find a woman that stabilizes you or makes you regress many women are also like that they are poisonous they're not good women for you and in this case this means that you will get to grow with someone but before you grow someone you need to have some growth of your own just to be able to know what you like because if not you're going to be the type of dude that dates
• 39:30 - 40:00 just about anyone because he's so desperate that any amount of attention he gets is a revolution in his brain like i know guys when a girl just smiles to them they fall in love you know why because they have such a low self-esteem that they think it's the best they can do like the best thing they can get from a woman is a smile and therefore that person becomes their new love i can tell you one thing i know that men like to say that women are too subtle and they send signs and we don't get it
• 40:00 - 40:30 it's part of that that comes from the mindset that women are completely different foreign creatures and we can never hope to understand them and we they send us signals from mars that are impossible to interpret that's not true women are not sorrow at all when they want you a girl that wants you is going to constantly look at you in the eyes she's going to touch you any chance she gets she's going to i mean i was the type of guy who couldn't see signs to a point where
• 40:30 - 41:00 it was ridiculous but with hindsight i realized that a lot of the women that wanted me made it super super obvious and i was just completely blind but it wasn't because i was stupid it was because i had no confidence and my lack of confidence made it impossible for me to actually accept the fact that some women would be into me that is something that you need to fix first and foremost before you start to get a girlfriend and this also is going to lead to your
• 41:00 - 41:30 ability to know your own love language now the love language thing a lot of people think is some stupider like stupidity just for women it doesn't make any sense it's a deep it's a psychological truth we all have certain ways we express our love and we have certain ways we like to receive love how are you supposed to create the tree of love with a woman if you don't even know what you love it's not going to function again develop yourself first i think for me
• 41:30 - 42:00 the years where i spent the most time working on myself was from the time i was 14 to the time i was 21 that was most of the time i spent that seven years where i had almost no relationships with women because i needed to invest that in myself for men who had difficult childhoods or difficult relationships with your peers etc that's the time that you're going to have to put in because you should have been doing that in your early teens but you didn't for a reason x or y that's that
• 42:00 - 42:30 might be not your fault but it's not your responsibility to take the time to actually recreate yourself and then go out there and find a mate and this is why by the way games are entirely stupid all of these pickup artists that you see are like that they're men who never develop the true identity they don't have much to show for and therefore they have to resort to tricks i can tell you for a fact that all of the women i ever seduced i never had to trick any of them i never had to tell a lie why well
• 42:30 - 43:00 because just being myself is enough there's no need to invent like millions of dollars in the bank or a ferrari or i don't know some the lies that men come up with to get women when you are actually yourself when you have developed something attractive and by attractive i don't just mean physically i mean in terms of energy that's mostly what is going to matter here because if you want to hear about the physical you can check the description i put the video on luke's
• 43:00 - 43:30 maxing there but it's limited like the amount of change you can make about the way you look is limited it's important super important but it's most important because it changes the way you feel about yourself and the way the word feels about you as you expand as you actually try to become yourself and it's what's going to be so important games are just in a sense band-aids that you slap on that like you're a deeply wounded individual and male but you think that if you put
• 43:30 - 44:00 enough golden band-aids on women are not going to notice well one they will because they're not dumb and two at some point the band-aids fall off then what what happens well what happens is nothing because these guys who game women tend to see women as just entities to grab for a night and [ __ ] it's the reason why they don't care if the band-aids come off but if you want to build something for the long term you absolutely need to pay attention to that because it's
• 44:00 - 44:30 impossible to keep up the front forever you will eventually lie and also it's a torture is the reason why myself i have a strict policy about lies i simply don't do it i don't lie it's not because i'm a pure anger of moral it's because it's too tiring i don't want to have to remember my lies i just want to be who i am and if people don't like it they can go [ __ ] off be like that it's the best gift i can give you be like that okay
• 44:30 - 45:00 stop trying to invent who you are reinvent it instead put in the work i know that it's tempting to just lie because i used to be like that i used to be the guy who felt bad about himself and had nothing to say so i invented stories but the thing is that these stories just they pile up on top of one another and then you carry them on your shoulders i was lucky enough that at some point i was able to shrug them off but some men never do and they just it waits on them and you see the return
• 45:00 - 45:30 with the insole and the forums about women are evil and they are i i got married one time and it ruined my life all of these men are the same there are guys who at some point or the other had a bad encounter with a woman one woman and then they try to make this the entire experience of the planet like like every woman is like that and it's because they have they have confused who women are individually and what they are
• 45:30 - 46:00 they're confusing cultural and biological as a whole women are not witchers that are going to go after your money and suck you dry and then leave you for dead that's not what they are it's actually the complete opposite of what they are what i just described right now is toxic femininity it's the exact opposite of femininity which is the nurture the ability to create life we'll get back to that later i'm going i'm getting a bit ahead of myself but it's important that you keep that in
• 46:00 - 46:30 mind the games don't function the people who put the game push the games have to push the games because it's the one thing that they have because the identity is incomplete you need to be able to have a complete identity identity and the complete identity is going to be important especially if you want to avoid bad relationships as i said all of these men's and that's especially prevalent in the men going their own way movement were men with weak identities who were
• 46:30 - 47:00 vampirized by a woman that actually prayed off of that weak identity and then after they got [ __ ] over instead of thinking okay the problem was me i'm the one who attracted that that creature into my life that creature that damaged me instead they think oh no it's women like womankind is the worst and it's not my fault no it's your fault it's like women who date a bad boy and they get beaten up or whatever it's the woman's fault
• 47:00 - 47:30 she's the one who selected that mate she's the one who didn't have the proper filter put in place now can we say that she deserves it no but hopefully she will learn and hopefully men that have bad relationships with certain women will learn as well that the problem came from them it's their identity that's the problem and it's something i want to insist on because when we're discussing how to kill your girlfriend your identity is key to be able to find a good mate but also to preserve yourself a relationship
• 47:30 - 48:00 is supposed to be something that it enriches your life if it makes it worse what even is the point many people don't get that like i said it sounds obvious many people do not get that especially women women are especially bad about it and it's the reason why i say also and i said that you need to take your time and think about why you want a girlfriend and not rush into it because if you're going to actually build something of the person you're going to spend time with them and that's time you're not spending
• 48:00 - 48:30 with yourself so if you don't have a strong identity to start with get what guess what happens your identity starts to develop alongside the other you are like a vine that is growing intertwined with another vine what happens when you try to separate the two you can't you break something and i have seen that as i said especially in women i know several women who dated too young when they were 14 or 15 stayed with a guy for like three years and when the guy broke up they were shattered and
• 48:30 - 49:00 what i mean shattered i mean that these women now today are in their 30s and they haven't recovered yet they still hate men or distrust men and by default it means they distrust themselves because they deeply desire a relationship with the other gender but they can't bring themselves to it because they were betrayed once the reason why they were betrayed is because their identity was too weak and when your identity is weak and you develop it with someone else if the person at some point shoves you away
• 49:00 - 49:30 what they do is they also shatter the common identity a couple is not an entity okay a couple is two people it's two individuals when it stops being two individuals it's when it becomes toxic it's when you become codependent and you will see that there is a fine line to it because it's important to be able to of course relate to your partner and you feel like you're almost melting together with them
• 49:30 - 50:00 but never to the point where your individuality disappears i can tell you that sometimes i'm with my partner and it feels like we're one person because we're so connected and by the way if you look at sex in terms of symbols it's also what it is sex with someone you love at some point or the other during the act it's going to sound like for one person that's the beauty of it it's it's masculinely and family coming together to create something supreme what i described now many people will never access because to be able to have
• 50:00 - 50:30 that you need to come in the relationship a man and she needs to come and worship a woman so you are both going to progress progress progress like vines and at some point you meet some point but not when you just start growing because let's say you meet here at some point there's a breakup okay fine you still have all of that base and structure down there that's your identity if our identity started entertwine with the other person you are screwed especially if they are older than you and that's
• 50:30 - 51:00 why women who date older men take a big risk the guy can be with you a few years and then ditch you and take a younger girl he has all of the identity built up beforehand and you don't i'm getting ahead of myself that's not even the topic of the video really so let's recenter as i said a dependent identity is dangerous and toxic on top of that women do not like dependence so it's for your best benefit to have a strong
• 51:00 - 51:30 individuality before you start chasing girls and as i said previously also if you're just getting a girlfriend to follow social norms you are going to find that it's going to push you towards getting one too early i don't have a specific arbitrary age to give you but i would say that you should start dating lightly when you're around 16 17. before that
• 51:30 - 52:00 i don't really see the point i mean i know and it's something that you see especially a ton on in seoul forums where they regret not having sex in their teenage years and they think oh i'll never know teenage romance well i have something to say to you guys you don't miss anything teenage romance sucks it's boring because it's just two people who have not developed yet and therefore they have nothing to offer to one another it's still something that can happen but you'll be better off just spending the time working on yourself it truly is
• 52:00 - 52:30 what it means and i'm sure and certain that most people who date young end up damaging themselves because these relationships are never positive it never makes a positive influence on their life ever it's always something that they come to regret because it's wasted time it's something that across the board i've always seen so that's my advice to you if it happens it happens but don't be obsessed with to the point that you forget to live right enjoy your childhood enjoy your
• 52:30 - 53:00 teenage dread be free and then at the point where you have built who you are move forth into the wood and so this concludes the the question about yourself and what motivates you to actually get a girlfriend so now that we have actually answered that we can get into the how-to right because you're used to it now the videos are long as [ __ ] so in raleigh this was an introduction following the introduction
• 53:00 - 53:30 getting a girlfriend first off what is a girlfriend a lot of people don't think about things like this because most people don't know how to relationship so they are going to try and get with someone to build something that they know nothing about and they know nothing about the person that they are seeking to try to fulfill something they don't understand so it leads to nothing the discussion about what a girlfriend is is very simple a girlfriend is a potential lifelong mate that's what it
• 53:30 - 54:00 is it's a potential wife if you want to use the institutionalized nomination of what we call a lifelong maze nowadays it's your spouse this is true across the board but it doesn't mean that it's going to be an absolute truth for every single woman you date because every woman you date will not become your spouse that would be ridiculous it's a mistake that many men make who then marry their high school sweetheart you don't know [ __ ] about the word this is the first woman
• 54:00 - 54:30 you ever met it's a terrible idea to just settle for her i say that because it also leads to me telling you that i am personally not not against the idea of having multiple sexual partners as long as it takes place within committed relationships that is the key of it if you have sex with like 10 women in your life but you dated the 10 women and you were trying to build something with them and it just ended up not working i'm fine with it but don't me
• 54:30 - 55:00 don't be like me don't be like me i've had sex with many so many women i can count but only one of them i bought something with all of the others were just for sex and they just damaged me i truly think that you know we there's the meme about the body count like how many people you [ __ ] i think it's very appropriate to call it a body count because these are skeletons in your closet these are things that are going to weight you down if the sex happens in committed relationship instead it's a net positive
• 55:00 - 55:30 because it's healthier right it's it's an emotional connection that creates something for me i've always found that casual sex destroys i've always felt more empty after and also the constant chase of casual sex made me a worse person it truly did i was developing certain mean streaks i was starting to even look down on love because of course i was constantly making fun of love because
• 55:30 - 56:00 sex is the ultimate expression of it but i was having sex with people i didn't love so i was degrading my own ability to love and that's the truth a lot of the bachelors that have random sex with tons of women in their 30s or 40s they might be to a point where they will never be able to actually find a lifelong mate because they're too damaged and it's the same with women by the way women who have tons of partners and then think like oh i can't find a good man well it's because you're not a good woman you
• 56:00 - 56:30 ruined yourself so now you can't find someone that would see you as gold because you're not and it's awful to say things like this but i think that if we were to say it most people and more people realize it and not make the same mistakes you need to preserve yourself if it means no sex before marriage you do you i don't think it's the best because sexual sexual sexual capability sexual compability is very important because as i said it's an
• 56:30 - 57:00 expression of love so dating people having sex with them etc is all part of that selection process and you're going to wheel out the ones that don't make it and women do the same thing women a woman can have sex with 10 men in like five years as long as she actually vetted them all and thought okay this one doesn't work and this one doesn't work it's fine the sex is going to happen at the point at some point of the relationship or the other when you guys fall close enough together so it's
• 57:00 - 57:30 natural right again i will not tell you to not fall for sex or to shame your own sexual drive it's not the point i expressed that in the no fab video it's perfectly normal to attract it to women who are built for that now you need to understand why you're attracted and make good use of it understand it and not all women pan out of course or also all have 15 women but if you are
• 57:30 - 58:00 being serious about the selection process you will find that you will not have so many of them who end up being duds all of my relationships were duds and i was lying to myself saying oh well she's not good for me now she could have been good for me i wasn't good to her or for her because i was using these women so i never gave myself the chance to actually find what could have connected us because i stopped that's just sex and i was lucky to be in a sense dragged
• 58:00 - 58:30 out of that by a very courageous woman who understood what i could be she saw my potential and she was willing to dig all of the [ __ ] that i had piled on top of me to access the gold but she could have she could have well not done it right i owe her a lot because she saved my ass in reality i was heading a very dangerous down a dangerous path you might not encounter such a gorgeous and wonderful woman in your life it might you might not be as lucky as i was
• 58:30 - 59:00 so you're going to have to save yourself and to do that you need to just not make the same mistakes i made and that is part of it be serious okay life is more than just getting [ __ ] okay don't i know that women have started doing that i do not understand why actually no i do understand it's because of feminism but two way too many women reduce themselves to their [ __ ] like they say oh i have that good [ __ ] and i'm good in bed like okay is that all you are because that's biological that's you
• 59:00 - 59:30 were born with this it's not interesting it's not important it's the reason why sex workers are pathetic they're using something that takes no effort to make money there's no there's no respectability in that there's no respectability in being a woman and being attractive just because you have big boobs and a fat ass like nature gave you that what can you put on the table beyond that because the thing too is that we will get to a point where these will these traits will be replicable via artificial intelligence
• 59:30 - 60:00 it's already almost the case meaning that a lot of men are getting that all of the gorgeous women via porn but does it fulfill them does it make them happy no does it make the women happy no because they're not getting the men either or the men they're getting are just using them and that's also part of the discussion right you will meet women who have been brainwashed the same way you have been brainwashed into huge responding sex and then just constantly using the attributes to attract men and then they
• 60:00 - 60:30 are going to be sad because the only thing they get is sex you are going to be sad because you never get more than just sex and the two genders are fully [ __ ] miserable so that's that's the way to swerve around that okay you be serious when you get a girl when you are chasing a girl ask yourself why am i chasing her and what do i want to build with that person in the future that is very important don't get a girl just because she has a [ __ ] every single girl on earth has one okay there's
• 60:30 - 61:00 there's a literal four billion [ __ ] on this planet there's two men there's too many of them okay the market is the market is just it's just overwhelmed by the amount of [ __ ] and again you might not believe me when i tell you that but we live in the day and age where getting laid is the easiest it's ever been for some men so people say the top ten percent some people say the top five percent who cares it's true that the hyper
• 61:00 - 61:30 sexualization of society and hypergamy is being pushed to the point that it's all of like money in a sense the top five percent of men get more and more girls and the rest the the bottom 95 get almost none the thing is that this makes no one happy right because even the top five percent of men are not happy because of that because just sex doesn't make you happy the only way to fix this situation is to see beyond that to see beyond just the sex
• 61:30 - 62:00 and that is going to be tough because the advice i give you is not what most people tell you to do especially when talking to teenagers i understand right now that what i'm doing is the equivalent of pissing in a violin as we say in my language i'm telling teenage boys to not focus so much on sex and to see beyond the boobs and yes it's it's it's an impossibility right it's like trying to teach a cat how to play the piano good luck right that cat is not going to
• 62:00 - 62:30 hel a concert anytime soon but it's still worth trying because i know that deep down it's what works it's what's functioning so women are more than just their bodies even if they objectify themselves with which are doing more and more while at the same time being empowered which is of course total [ __ ] [ __ ] it's your responsibility as a man to try and find a good one avoid avoid the ones that function like this usually the ones that are reducing their
• 62:30 - 63:00 own self to only their body are not girlfriend or wife material so that's already dues that you can push away now how to find a girlfriend well the most obvious is school school is where you're going to meet most girls it's we're going to have the easier time having social interactions with girls this means that there are really primordial years of your life where you're going to have a chance to have a girlfriend if you go to college it means
• 63:00 - 63:30 that between the age of 14 around that time when you start getting interested in girls and the age of 20 to 23 that's where you will meet the most women in real life and that is where most of the dating potential resides most of your potential is there now it doesn't mean that you have to feel bad if you never dated in middle school or high school because at the end of the day these types of relationships don't pan out they don't really go anywhere and as i said they don't really help you out so
• 63:30 - 64:00 understand that your life doesn't necessarily end after you're out of school but that when it comes to being around women score is the most important time now just because you don't date these women doesn't mean that you cannot talk to them you can practice because it's a little bit funky or funny to say but i firmly believe that if in school we learn german and spanish and french we should also learn women because women
• 64:00 - 64:30 speak a different language from our own it's not entirely foreign it's like a dialect in a sense and learning that language learning how to hear it interpret it and then speak it is incredibly important a man that can speak woman is going to have a very easy time in life and that is a skill that just like any language acquisition is easier to learn while you're young so instead of focusing so intently on dating these chicks when you're young
• 64:30 - 65:00 try to talk to them try to develop the ability to connect with them and to see them for what they are which is humans girls are not different to the point where we cannot get them or talk to them many men are petrified of women they're all afraid of women even because they think they're so different and they think oh i can i will never be able to relate that's not true that's what you told yourself but it is certainly not true and it's going to lead to either hatred
• 65:00 - 65:30 like with the incels or blind love like the sims and guess what these two don't work these two don't function because they're not aligned with what women truly are get to know get to know them get to discover women when you get a girlfriend is going to be a big part of the relationship is you discovering who she is it's it's also a lot of the fun in those relationships if you have actually a proper committed dating situation
• 65:30 - 66:00 so that's what school is going to be like now hobbies hobbies is what's going to take the second biggest spot in your life when it comes to actually meeting women the good thing with hobbies is that the girls that you meet have things in common with you most people i know that are my age in committed relationships while married with kids met their partner at some sort of hobby or the other because it's where you have the highest uh capability i'm sure that this is not a word i've been
• 66:00 - 66:30 using that word but it's not a word like like okay if someone remembers the name i hate it when i can't find a word like this capability i don't know okay never mind so those hobbies is where your chances are going to reside which also means that it's going to encourage you to have social interactions many men who are stuck at oh i can't forget about getting a girlfriend i can't even meet a girl
• 66:30 - 67:00 well it's because you're most likely a complete shot in and you never go outside meet people doesn't necessarily mean that you want to go out just to date but you you love things right you're not just a guy in your bedroom that's just looking at the wall like this don't lie to yourself you love things you have passions you might be ashamed of these passions but there are people who won't be so find your people find the people who love what you love they might not be the reminder of you a ton of them they might not even be women but just being
• 67:00 - 67:30 able to discuss with them building social bonds is going to make it easier for you to get a girl eventually and then you have the social settings i already described but to me the place you want to avoid a low cost is the social settings sorry the dating websites dating websites are the pits it's the worst of the worst to get women many men result to them because they cannot meet women outside or at least they think that and therefore they just go where women are
• 67:30 - 68:00 which is those websites like tinder etc now if you observe these websites for a second you will realize that they are deeply skewed towards women they are completely created and structured around the ability of women to pick and choose because just like marriage and it's something i'm going to get to afterwards institutions that either permit or allow the selection of mates tend to be skewed towards the ability of
• 68:00 - 68:30 women to make the most of them and that is something that i've always found it is therefore very dangerous for males to enter these environments because there is an imbalance of power an ignorant imbalance of power and the thing is that this imbalance is already there in real life women have a much easier time finding a mate it's easier for a woman to go through a selection process because they have a ton of choice even ugly women get guys they get they they have the ability to
• 68:30 - 69:00 have a family and this is not true for you for men it's tougher than that we have in a sense that desperation in us of thinking that you'll never get a girlfriend because there's a voice in you that says that it's a possibility maybe you will never get a girlfriend but you will certainly never get a girlfriend if you use dating websites because you already can't cut it in real life with the selection process tuned in at 20 percent now you enter dating websites where the selection
• 69:00 - 69:30 process is 95 what did you think was going to happen of course it's even worse there and i see so many young men who say oh i'm on tinder and no one swipes on me well of course no one swipes on you no one swipes on you in real life already what did you think was going to be the difference in on the platform that is basically hypersexualized and where hypergamy is the name of the game it's just not working so vacate these websites as fast as possible i know
• 69:30 - 70:00 that they have women the women on these websites you don't want i'll be honest with you girls that use tinder tend to not be girlfriend or wife material because they tend to be girls who are deeply addicted to uh to attention they need their fix of attention and they have started to integrate the idea that they're like queen bees because they have better orbiters all around their hips and their waist and so their brain is completely mush it's they've been brainwashed by this amount of tension these are the women that are going to
• 70:00 - 70:30 eventually wake up one day and realize that they have damaged themselves beyond repair and are not a suitable mate anymore it's their problem if they can't see it before it happens too bad for them but for you don't participate in that system don't feed it it's just simply doesn't function and i'm sure some people will tell me that they met their significant other online website good for you you are what is known as an exception but these websites are truly terrible
• 70:30 - 71:00 photo dating wood as a whole there's a lot of there's a lot of things to say about these websites i don't want to spend too much time on it but i highly discourage you from going on them favor real favor the real world and the connection with others also because it's going to actually fulfill that need for connection that you are need that cannot be fulfilled by the internet again many of these in cells end up on these forearms because it's the only consolation that they have but this only makes it worse because it
• 71:00 - 71:30 never makes them feel better therefore they are surrounded by people who are just as toxic as a negative and down on their luck so it's a cycle that repeats itself where it's like a dark hole of negativity and the only escape from that is real life internet can be a blessing right now you hear me through the internet but it can also be a curse and it has truly damaged the relationship between men and women to a great extent because these relationships only happen in real life they cannot happen online and so
• 71:30 - 72:00 since so much of it is now concentrated online it also means that so much of it has actually disappeared you don't really see people on the street having discussions anymore back in the days keep in mind that your grandparents and your parents when they met at some point your dad went up to your mom and shouted her up he didn't just send a text on twitter or whatever the [ __ ] it's the reason why it worked back then and why it's not working now so
• 72:00 - 72:30 push it away it's a tour of modernity and it's not something that is going to lead to your happiness now we are going to switch settings and i am going to start discussing with you the traits that women find attractive how to behave as a man to actually get girls and more importantly to keep them in the second part i'm mostly going to be talking about the psychology
• 72:30 - 73:00 surrounding women what you need to know about them and really what you need to think about to understand them and be more attractive in their eyes because it's a game of understanding if you don't get what women are you're going to have problems and many men are like this where they know what they like but they are not sure what women like and so they just make do with whatever they have which is their own preferences and they project and you see that mostly
• 73:00 - 73:30 on incel or red pill forearms who think that they have obtained the truth about what women are but really what they're discussing is what they themselves are they never we talk about women they discuss men projection onto women and that is simply not the way to actually be attractive in their eyes so there are a few things to keep in mind when you're going to try and attract a girl or you have a girl that you like and you want to make her
• 73:30 - 74:00 your girlfriend and these are the following the first stuff the first one is going to be that approaching a woman is something that needs to be done with sovereignty okay women are fragile creatures you cannot approach them you will you would want to be approached many men would see no problem with a girl just walking up to them and grabbing their arms and saying hey do you want to go out with me many men actually would love that it would be a fantasy of yours for women it doesn't
• 74:00 - 74:30 look like that for one simple reason as i've explained they have their pick of the leader they can get whatever man they want so because they have an overabundance of options they have a ton of direct attempts done at them on a daily basis a pretty girl receives dozens of compliments every day she gets approaches on the street all the time so it's not going to be the right method to get at her but
• 74:30 - 75:00 if you are not upfront enough you're going to get in a situation where the girl is going to start to believe that you're just a friend so it's a very fragile balance between making it known that you're interested while at the same time not being too rash and it's a balance that many men cannot strike as i've said for me when i finally exited my cocoon and i started to actually try and date girls i was way too upfront because i spent too many
• 75:00 - 75:30 years being too shy and therefore i was compensating and you see that with pickup artists with their cold approaches which in reality only work one time out of 100 and don't really lead to anything sustainable so your goal is going to try and create a connection with a woman and play on the ambiguity of the situation that's how every single relationship starts it's ambiguous you don't know if you're really friends if there's something more and that's
• 75:30 - 76:00 what is making it work because that tension is something that women crave women like that and it's not always sexual tension it can just be uncertainty the girl doesn't know and when a girl doesn't know where you stand it's very attractive now at some point or the other you're going to have to make your intention clear but if you do it too early and not enough pressure has built up nothing is going to happen you need to light the fuse just at the right
• 76:00 - 76:30 moment but if you wait for too long the explosion is not going to actually take place because the dynamite is going to be completely moist and therefore it won't work either this is something that cannot be taught it's a social skill you have to develop it for me i think i got shut down maybe 15 times in a row before i started to understand it and what i mean in a row i mean that i got batched again and again and again by women that i found attractive who i wanted to date and who told me that it would never happen
• 76:30 - 77:00 and it's something you're going to have to go through okay women don't have to go through that but rejection is a normal part of dating for males so get used to it you are going to get rejected times and times again and it's okay because it's making you more resilient and it's teaching you valuable skills for example the skill of toughness mental emotional toughness when it comes to women not wanting you the vast majority of women don't want
• 77:00 - 77:30 you that is perfectly normal because even the top most attractive men are not guaranteed to strike i mean no man is guaranteed to get away with a girl women don't function like this a very attractive woman could get every single guy she tries her hand at that's possible i'm sure that if you sent a gorgeous woman at a bar she could get a hundred of the men that she actually flirted with you can send the most gorgeous man on earth to the same bar out of 100 women he might get 10 maybe
• 77:30 - 78:00 because as i said women are much more standoffish and selective when it comes to actually accepting a mate there is an entire ritual that they make you go through and that ritual if you want a serious relationship with a woman you cannot bypass you have to go through it it's something that women get to impose it's their power the power of the man starts when the relationship is on the way women have most of the power beforehand it's
• 78:00 - 78:30 something we're going to discuss as well now this implies taking risks because when you actually shoot your shot with a girl you're taking a risk you're opening yourself up because you're vulnerable okay when you not necessarily when you even admit to your feelings but when you say hey i like you do you like me back you give her an opportunity to hurt you now for the men who are afraid of that understand one thing women are very
• 78:30 - 79:00 sensitive but also very kind creatures a woman will never use what you gave her that that that tiny opening in your armor to hurt you for me it's never happened in my life every time a woman shut me down she was more embarrassed than i was and she always made sure i felt okay women unless you're just talking to them directly on the streets will rarely shut you down aggressively because it's just not who they are if you have a relationship with the woman
• 79:00 - 79:30 she's going to let you down easy so it's up to you to not be so scared and actually try it and you absolutely have to try it because if you don't you're going to get friend-zoned now the friend zone is one of these concepts that was made up by men who are not popular with women so they invent reasons and they made it something negative like it's women's fault that you get friend-zoned and you see the way men discuss the friend zone as a punishment like oh she friends on me
• 79:30 - 80:00 well yes she does because you're not boyfriend material that's why if you get friend-zoned it's your own thought again personal responsibility in dating is extremely important the woman has assessed that you cannot be a mate this should be a wake-up call to go back and think to what you did and what you can do better if you never do that you're going to have the very comfortable excuse of always saying always saying oh those women friends with me because i'm too nice instead of realizing that maybe
• 80:00 - 80:30 what you call being nice is actually you being a wimp and being a coward and not actually taking any risks which lead to you never getting any gains because the friend zone is something that happens to every single male if you if you wait long enough if you are with a girl and there is that ambiguity and it eventually dies out and she thinks okay that guy is my friend you're out of luck because now she sees you as a friend and to go from friend to boyfriend is much tougher than to go
• 80:30 - 81:00 from completely unknown stranger or acquaintance to boyfriend the two are very different so be careful with that i'm going to take a quick break and come back
• 81:00 - 81:30 yeah so that's very important that you don't actually let yourself be put in the friend zone it's better to be in no zone at all than to be in that and this also leads to a tendency that women have of trying to keep you as a friend and that is a frustration that i hear
• 81:30 - 82:00 many men voice as well where they say well she doesn't want me as a boyfriend but she'll keep me around as a friend to complain about all of the bad boys she dates that's also your own thought she said that she doesn't want you and even if she lets it be known that maybe one day there won't be a one day so just cuddle us and leave if what you want from that woman is romance don't lie to yourself okay and don't be the type of guy that tries to sneak his way into a relationship it never works you're just
• 82:00 - 82:30 going to end up hurting the woman because as i said women don't take their friends so be upfront and be honest with the people who want to date and be honest with yourself because if you don't you're going to end up in the friend zone and in the problem when you're in the friend zone is that you are pathetic and women hate that you know many men think that masculinity is is particularly allergic to weakness and that is true but i can
• 82:30 - 83:00 tell you that femininity is even more so allergic to any signs of failure of patheticness or of weakness they are just allergic it's women can smell that they can smell desperations frustrations all of that and it just throws them off completely they detest it and the best way for you to be lonely and single for the rest of your life is to be pathetic in
• 83:00 - 83:30 the eyes of women because they will never give you a chance because you are just not suitable um i don't know if it's ever happened to you it did for me when i was a teen when a woman looks at you with those like those pity-filled eyes and she makes that noise like oh like you can pack your bags and leave it's over you will never get anything done with that woman ever she has she sees you as like a puppy she sees you as like this helpless thing and
• 83:30 - 84:00 it's not attractive at all and she regards you as like a baby dog but women don't date baby dogs they date lions wolves so it's never something that you want keep in mind that the reason why women tend to love having a gay best friend is because the gay best friend is a non-threat they know that he's not attracted to them don't attract him to him and on top of that and that's all a bit uh politically incorrect to
• 84:00 - 84:30 say nowadays but it's something i've always remarked a lot of gay dudes tend to be very feminine and because they're very feminine they're very aligned and in tune with women so they get along because they're very similar but the problem is that as i explained what attracts women and men is that we're different than them so if you become pathetic enough that the woman sees you as a best friend she's seeing you basically as a woman with a dick like nothing is going to get done you are basically your penis has disappeared in the other
• 84:30 - 85:00 to her you are a non-sexual being your sexuality is gone and as i said this means that the ambiguity and pressure is also gone and therefore there will be no relationships so resist the temptation of trying to win women over with pd it simply doesn't function and that also means that if you are not pathetic per se you have to have
• 85:00 - 85:30 something else to replace that uh usually being pathetic means that the woman knows everything about you and she knows how you all react to certain things and on top of that she also knows that she has you under her grip because you won't go anywhere that's something that is very dangerous a lot of men give themselves entirely to the women that they want to date thinking that by giving up their that are going to eventually be rewarded that never happens when you give up your power to a woman she punishes you
• 85:30 - 86:00 instead because you are not worthy of respect in our eyes so a good thing that you can do and it's something i described with the ambiguity is to be mysterious and by that i don't mean to wear a black trench coat and to smoke cigarettes in the corner while looking at her like a creep i mean that you don't want to reveal all of your cards at once and you certainly don't want to let the woman think or believe that she understands you 100
• 86:00 - 86:30 because if that's the case you will think she can control you 100 so when you actually discuss with the woman when you get to know her better don't say everything at once leave some spots of your personality in the dark make her come to you to discover them and also make it known without even saying it that you are not to be controlled that you cannot be tamed a large portion of the attraction that men thought was with that woman for
• 86:30 - 87:00 towards men is that they see us again as foreign entities just like we see them as that but for them it goes beyond that because there is an instinct in women to change men and to change men they need to understand us first and the problem is that if you let a woman fulfill that fantasy she will lose interest in you it's the reason why as i said again women loved our gay best friends because there's nothing to discover the guy is just like them you need to be constantly
• 87:00 - 87:30 rediscoverable by the woman she needs to always be on her toes she cannot grasp you a hundred percent because if she does the relationship is dead this takes of course you knowing yourself because if you don't know yourself you have really nothing to offer and there is no game involved and that also leads to the ability to have enough of an identical uh i don't think that's possible to even use
• 87:30 - 88:00 that as an objective but to have enough of an identity that you have a spine that you exist as a whole being and that is going to allow you also to move on and not insist if a woman rejects you many men who just hold on to the women that rejected them do so because they think that it's the one woman that is available and if they don't have this one it's over that is earn fruit or plenty of women out there but if you think like this every single
• 88:00 - 88:30 one you encounter with a woman is going to end the same way and you're being rejected because you are desperate and i discussed that in the nofap video women can smell weakness women can smell desperation and they stay away from it they stay away from weakness because women want strong partners they can count on they stay away from desperation for a much more deeply wounded eventually reason that if you don't have the ability to get another girl and you are just all in
• 88:30 - 89:00 for her you think it's romantic because she's your only one and she's your onesies she thinks you're pathetic because you can't get another girl there is this weird balance that you have to entertain to be able to be attractive in women's eye that you need to at the same time be faithful to them and remain attractive enough that other women want you it's something that is perfectly explicable because it means that you are
• 89:00 - 89:30 high value you are very have you have a very high value on the sexual market and that is also something that is going to lead you to not waste your time with women who don't want you just move on because it's going to prepare you for success and on top of that unlike what a lot of men think it's the best way to get a girl that projected you a lot of guys think that if they just keep on insisting and keep on asking a girl out eventually she will say yes it almost never happens she will
• 89:30 - 90:00 start to detest you and maybe even fear you but if you just accept the woman that rejected you and go do your own thing she might come back it has happened to me several times where one a woman shut me down and i just took it positively without being aggressive and first off it surprised her because many women are not used to that are used to men being very angry when they get rejected because they're not used to it it hurts their ego
• 90:00 - 90:30 and second uh secondly a lot of these women reached out to me afterwards like two two weeks later because they thought okay you know what him taking it lightly and him not being angry is a sign that he has options and he's not bummed about losing me so let me see if maybe i can give him another try and that usually tends to lead to a chance at a relationship so it both conserves your honor and your pride as a man and it is much more
• 90:30 - 91:00 effective you also want to be funny now when i say being funny many men underestimate that characteristics in themselves because they overestimate all the characteristics and that is part of the projection projection aspect they described if you look at attraction through the lens of evolution men and women are completely different entirely different creatures men are mostly visual
• 91:00 - 91:30 creatures meaning that we look for markers of fertility in women and who are deeply attracted to that and only that men don't really care about status when it comes to money about social standing that is completely useless in our eyes and it's been proven times and times again it has been shown that women with very high status careers who make millions of dollars don't really have an advantage on the daily market compared to some czech who
• 91:30 - 92:00 is just i don't know in college or about a bar mate it doesn't make any difference all that matters for women to attract a mate at first is to be attractive physically that's it but funnily enough you see many men who project down to women and say that oh women only care about looks that's not true men only care about looks we do that women care about status it's entirely different look is one stratus of status
• 92:00 - 92:30 the only one that men care about women care about a whole lot they care about height facial features they care about health markers they care about social status when it comes to the community they care about wealth which is another type of of social status all of that all of these count and they are not all equal but they are more very interconnected with one another and it's hard to say that one is more important than the rest
• 92:30 - 93:00 it really depends on the woman there are certain women who will put a lot of weight and a lot of power in one of these categories so some women are only going to be attracted to tall men because even though they don't realize it themselves they have decided that the most important trait that they wish their partner to possess is height some women are like that with money some with facial aesthetics some are attracted to things that are not really even visible like for example stability
• 93:00 - 93:30 maybe the guy is pudgy and he has a face of a troll but he has a good stable job and he has a character a personality that itself is dependable and a woman can be very attracted to that because in her matrix in her evolutionary matrix it is the characteristics that she's seeking in a mate so develop these characteristics as much as possible look max
• 93:30 - 94:00 train get a good job accumulate wealth for the sake of building a family not for greed and develop your personality as i said being funny is a marker of social hierarchy it shows that within the community you have a weight and it's interesting too because as i said many men underestimate it and yet if you have paid attention you should know how important it truly is when you
• 94:00 - 94:30 have the ability to make a woman laugh because it taps deep down into again don't entire metrics it's something that is like a superpower in a sense where because you are able to make her and other people laugh in a sense you are able to make the community and the people around you in your social settings to regard you in a positive light because you're constantly able to have an influence on their mood and that is extremely attractive for women the
• 94:30 - 95:00 opposite is not true meaning that for a lot of men having a girlfriend that's funny or not doesn't matter it's a plus but i've never met a guy who told me that what he's looking for in a mate is that she's funny it's also the reason why by the way meant to be more funny than women is because it's a skill that we have to develop it's not necessarily biological but it's something we need to survive if you're not funny as a man you would have a tough time growing up because you could get bullied you wouldn't have the
• 95:00 - 95:30 upper hand in certain situations so it's something that was needed and it's something to keep in mind too because evolutionary preferences and the differences between men and women are such that it can be a little bit tough for men to wrap their heads around it and afford to actually adapt properly too many men are going to look max to the top of their capacities and they'll look very pretty but they'll still have no success with women because they
• 95:30 - 96:00 completely ignore the other aspects that matters might be more important many men hate when you tell them that but it's the truth that confidence and being yourself are some of the most important traits a man can have you can be a gorgeous babe if you're completely incapable of talking to a woman and you have the personality of a clan you're not going to be very successful with women so develop that it's cliche to say but the men that i know that are the most
• 96:00 - 96:30 successful with women that have the most beautiful girlfriends are not good looking but are very funny and they are very charismatic and these were always things that drew women to them and then kept women around them so develop that as much as possible and that's the social status aspect i was talking about social status is important as well because
• 96:30 - 97:00 if you have a girlfriend or wife you will have realized that they are community oriented men are much more individual in their way of thinking and therefore the way you are going to integrate within the community where wherever you are is very important when you're in a social setting girls look at the way you interact not just with them but with others and they pay attention right women are astute observers of that type of stuff if they perceive you to be ostracized they're not going to want you
• 97:00 - 97:30 because if they were to pick you as a mate and then you start with family and you need help one day but no one likes you well it's not going to be good for the sake of the family so you are going to be avoided like the plague and to have to get people to like you is a different story altogether but it starts with confidence the confidence that you are worthy of something you are worthy of finding someone and that is going to open up options that are going to
• 97:30 - 98:00 reinforce your confidence all of which is going to make you a more comfortable a more charismatic person and that also will make you fun women like fun and by fun it doesn't necessarily mean going out all the time for me for example i'm a monk i never go out but i i still retain some aspects of my personality who are fun you need to entertain your woman some men you plug them in relationship and if everything stays the same until
• 98:00 - 98:30 the end of time they'll be good with that because men are stabilizers we stabilize we like everything's old and stable women bring chaos into that chaos which helps us restructure that order and make something better out of it if you never allow that or if you yourself are so orderly that there's nothing anything fun that erupts well women are not going to be very interested in dating you and as i said again it doesn't mean that you have to be an
• 98:30 - 99:00 extrovert or be extremely flashy or flamboyant but it means that some aspects of your personality are going to need to entice the girl and if you have zero aspects like this well guess what you will get zero girls and when it comes to being enticing you also have to be sexual and that is key and misinterpret at the same time because what i mean by this is that you
• 99:00 - 99:30 have to be aware of your sexuality and you have to not be afraid of letting it show while keeping it under control a lot of men end up being labeled as creepy because they are extremely sexual in their demeanor and their actions but it's not under control and therefore it just appears dangerous in the the eyes of women non-controlled sex drive is very dangerous for the survival of women because they end up being the one
• 99:30 - 100:00 victimized by the men who cannot control themselves so they also have a very strong instinct when it comes to that is the reason why if you're interested look up studies where women deem certain men as creepy and then listen to the reasons they give it usually is not re-tangible it's a vibe it's a certain energy that they feel in you well they think okay you're a menace that is when you take it to the extreme but if you take it to the other extreme and you're not sexual at all she's going
• 100:00 - 100:30 to see you as her gay best friend and you also have no chance so you need to be in the middle you need to be somewhat of a threat but nothing dangerous it needs to be exciting she needs to think that something could happen who knows maybe you're going to kiss her she won't she doesn't have the ability to guess what you're going to do next and that is what is keeping her interested and in this day and age even talking about sexual relationships or uh
• 100:30 - 101:00 or attraction in these terms is seen as a bit taboo because we live in the age of consent consent is a great thing but you will find that consent is rarely verbal it tends to be a form of body language meaning that for me for example i have never in my entire life asked a woman if i could kiss her if i could grab her ass if i could have sex with her if i could do anything in bed with her i mean i just do it and i never had any problems because i pay
• 101:00 - 101:30 attention to the gesture and the way the woman is right unless you treat women like objects and you don't care in which case you're going to get in trouble because you will violate their consent if you just pay attention you can tell when a woman wants you to kiss her you can tell if a woman is okay with what's happening in bed all of that is is seamless in a sense we've always done it without talking to each other but this new age of hypoconstant in a sense is killing romans because it's killing the
• 101:30 - 102:00 tension and danger that women like and they don't even realize it themselves but they are destroying their own sex drive because they are they are in a sense trading their sexual freedom for security and the problem is that once they give up that freedom well they don't have sexualities anymore because what they used to like is gun so it's your job to just make sure it doesn't happen because i can tell you that the best way to kill the vibe if there's a kiss that is going
• 102:00 - 102:30 to happen between you and a woman is to ask if you can kiss her like all of the desire all of the lust in our eyes are going to disappear because you just went in our eyes through potential sexual mate potential predator that was going to ravish her to a little boy that has to ask mommy for a kiss on the cheek it's it's a it's a ladybug killer it's it will completely destroy her mood is there's a chance she will say no but she
• 102:30 - 103:00 would have said yes if you just went in for the kiss this is not violent consent it's actually giving women the ability to retract consent if they wish if you ask you're not giving her a choice it's a bit paradoxical but by asking you are forcing her to say no it's another part of women that is rolling his curse but as i said men are seen as slayers if they have many conquests and women are the opposite so there is a social stigma around women accepting
• 103:00 - 103:30 their sexuality especially when it comes to choices if you ask a woman hey do you want to kiss me now you're putting the honors and the responsibility of the kiss on her and if she says yes it means that she wanted it so she in a sense instigated a lot of women are never never going to want to do that they always want the man to take full responsibility this puts us in a lot of danger nowadays but sadly it's never going to go away it's either you accept that danger and
• 103:30 - 104:00 you take the risk or you don't take the risk and nothing happens it's up to you to decide and this might contradict what i just said but i would also want you to take your time before sex because many women nowadays see sex as something that they give to the man as a reward which is incredibly insulting and damaging for sexual relationships between the genders because it means
• 104:00 - 104:30 that it's a power that women hold over men's heads like a like a chew toy and was supposed to like make do tricks to get it and you see that especially with the younger generations of sims and all of that subculturality of men who are so desperate to have an actual attempt at getting women that they're willing to do whatever and it leads to a gener generation of women who are incredibly spoiled and for we
• 104:30 - 105:00 for whose power has become so important in their life and the ability they have to control men has taken so much space in their lives that it's the only way they know how to function like the one personality is that they are attractive and they can control men and that's it and both side of the spectrum is pathetic the men that are always controlled by women and the women that just control men all day long are both ridiculously sad individuals you don't want to become like that
• 105:00 - 105:30 so to do that you need to take away that power and the only way to do that is self-control because of course women are in a sense the guardians of sex she's the one who decides if you have sex or not if it was up to men to decide when we have sex we will have sex 15 times a day every day of the year the balance between masculine sex drive and feminine sex drive is incredibly important for the survivor of the species one but also for balanced
• 105:30 - 106:00 relationships you need to be met in the middle here all right if you only had sex whatever the woman wants it wouldn't work and if you only had sex whenever the men want it wouldn't work there is an in-between to be met and you will find that this in between is extremely easy to strike once you are in a relationship but outside of the relationship once you're getting started with the person it's not as easy so my advice to you as a man is that since you're going to want sex much more than your partner most likely or future
• 106:00 - 106:30 girlfriend it's going to take some work on your hand to regulate that so as to not become a complete slave to the [ __ ] in a sense and the best way to do that is to slow down sex and by that i mean that you don't want to rush it you're going to have sex with that person eventually so take your time you will find that this tends to drive some women insane because they have sort of accepted that their only value is sex is their ability to be [ __ ]
• 106:30 - 107:00 and so when you take that away from her it might make them a little bit upset at first but you will also in a sense resent to them they're going to be able to approach relationship with a healthier approach they will start to de-objectify themselves which will also allow them to be proper women for you because as i said the type of women that think that they are only wolf so much as their asses tend to be nightmares to date a woman is much more than just that so take your time before the first sexual
• 107:00 - 107:30 intercourse with the person knowing also as i said previously that sex is an emotional bond that is being created it is not just physical sex is not just an exchange of fluids that is true for animals but not for us we sacralized sex and that is a good thing the modern age is slowly starting to de-sacralize it and it's leading to all of the problems we see nowadays with men's masculine sexuality for example
• 107:30 - 108:00 and that also will mean that you're going to connect emotionally with your woman now as i said masculine feminine sex drives are not the same way and the same thing we are attracted by different things and we have sex for different reasons the reasons for why we have sex are both valid meaning that it's more primal and it's more biological for men and it's more psychological and cultural for women you will find that
• 108:00 - 108:30 if you discuss with a woman your girlfriend or your wife what she thoughts with sex and what excites her you will see that it's completely different than from us for us who are as i said visual creatures so visual stimulus is enough to get us going most dudes uh their girlfriend can just grab their dick and that's it they're ready to go you don't need to work if you have ever had sex with a girl you know that it's not that easy they need to be put in the mood with different methods and these methods show one thing
• 108:30 - 109:00 is that they have a much more emotional connection to sex which is also the reason why a lot of the new feminist movements are trying to remove that from sexuality because it's what is making female sexuality balanced it's the fact that it mostly is conveyed through emotion and trying to have women to have sex the way men have sex is cruel but it's what's happening nowadays where you have a push for more
• 109:00 - 109:30 open sexualities for women for more partners for less actual connections and in a sense it's turning women into men but the problem is that even for men that moral doesn't work so it especially doesn't work for women if you want a balanced relationship you're going to have to shove all of that nonsense away and follow her lead if she is herself balanced meaning that if she has if she has a more calculated approach to sex a more emotional approach to sex
• 109:30 - 110:00 follow her lead because it's going to allow you to balance how you feel biologically you will always be super attracted to her always that's always going to be a thing but try to convey that attraction and make it appear on the other side when it metabolizes into sex into a shape that is closer to what she desires it doesn't mean that you need to completely you know give up your own sexuality but understand that female sexuality at least the way it used to be is more
• 110:00 - 110:30 sustainable and is the reason why families and the nuclear family tends to shape itself around it it's the reason why we are not following the model of men just going from women to women and having sex to have as many offspring as possible it's the entirety of marriage and of heterosexual relationships at least in the west is uh is a geocentric it's centered around sexual sexuality sexual sexuality no
• 110:30 - 111:00 female sexuality and that is a good thing but i will get back to that because now i give you enough pointers to understand if you're ready to find a girl and to remedy it if not where to find a girl and then how to approach her the traits that you want to actually exude etc etc that is the easy part actually getting a girlfriend is the easy part of the equation because after that you have to keep her you have
• 111:00 - 111:30 to have the ability to keep your girl and that is easier said than done because many men have the ability to find your friends but they don't have the ability to retain them and as i said since the goal is to actually create a strong relationship that is going to lead to something that is going to lead to creation creating a family you better be able to keep your girl so now we're going to start about how to keep your relationship healthy
• 111:30 - 112:00 since both the masculine the feminine attract each other it also means that deep down they reject each other or like opposite magnets right there is some problems in that meaning that it's going to mean that the person you date because they're the opposite gender is going to be a bit of an enigma and as i said women like that in men and men like that in women but there are also portions of that mystery that we
• 112:00 - 112:30 hate that annoy us and it always it is always interesting to look from the viewpoint of people who hate women because you quickly find out that what they hate is not a specific woman in particular it's their characteristics as a whole which is why women haters tend to really be haters of the entire gender and vice versa men haters tend to hate men like
• 112:30 - 113:00 across the board with no distinctions it's the reason why the not all men think is nonsense because it is all men in their eyes in the eyes of man haters it is all men and in the eyes of insults it is all women because there is a certain truth in it that there are certain traits about women that are very aggravating when you are male because they are just in direct opposite opposition with who you are
• 113:00 - 113:30 a good way to go above that and to not be too too worried or bothered about it is to think and project yourself and put yourself in those shoes and understand that if it's true for us it's true for them there are things that we do and we say and we are that women detest but these need to be maintained paradoxically again just like you don't want to make men and women similar you don't want to let go of everything the
• 113:30 - 114:00 other gender doesn't like because by doing so you're also going to get rid of what they do like and we're seeing that more and more with men becoming more feminized and women having less and less of an interest in men is because even though we're getting rid of what they didn't like we're also getting rid of what they like and i have a video on the topic that is going to come out next week about toxic masculinity but it really is the reason why this concept is so stupid is because
• 114:00 - 114:30 women love toxic masculinity and the best example i can give you of that is if you have a girlfriend one day if you have one right now or your wife or whatever if you're on the streets together and some guy i don't know grabs their ass or calls her a [ __ ] and you and you just dog the guy in the face after you punch the guy turn and look at your girl and look at her eyes you will see something in her eyes that is going to closely resemble lust but it's not quite lost it's biological
• 114:30 - 115:00 desire because you just proved that you have the ability to protect her and that is incredibly attractive for women for this video actually i quizzed some friends of mine and i told him what could be the hardest thing a guy could do in front of you to make him immediately attractive and a lot of them told me to fight right if they see a guy fight that immediately hyphens thus his status in their eyes and makes them much more attractive
• 115:00 - 115:30 some women refuse to admit that but this is in a sense a form of toxic masculinity it's violence it's violence put at their services as long as it's for their benefit they love it and i have my own personal experience on the matter because i've dated many women in the past who would be described as feminists and socialists or whatever you want to call them who also paradoxically only liked very macho and very masculine
• 115:30 - 116:00 men it's the only only type of men they liked but at the same time they were constantly criticizing toxic masculinity and there is a schizophrenia in that in reality they come after what they like most and these were women who like to be dominated who wanted to be submissive but at the same time they pushed for an ideology that was the exact opposite of that and the problem is that they are creating their own misery in a sense they don't see that but you should be able to see that so because that is the case you want to
• 116:00 - 116:30 embody the masculine traits that you have and just be yourself because understand that these are the traits that are going to make you attractive heterosexual women like men what is a man it's someone with masculine traits be it biological or cultural and behavioral so be a man that's the first step to actually keeping a woman understand that since masculinity and femininity both attract and reject each other when they are put together in
• 116:30 - 117:00 close quarters for a long time they have an influence on one another it's like a chemical reaction so your masculinity is going to infect your femininity and vice versa the issue is that i have found that nowadays because the society is becoming more and more skewed towards women well femininity has a stronger and stronger ability to infect masculinity so unlike what many people say and maybe something that i've said in your misinterpreted when i say that men are
• 117:00 - 117:30 more like women and women are more like men it's true but it's mostly skewed towards men meaning that it's not really women that are being more masculine women are just as feminine as they always were it's men that are less masculine and becoming more feminine so the balance of masculinity and femininity in the world is starting to be skewed and the problem is that every time there is an imbalance it tends to be bad i think that some men would disagree and say that it's good to have a ton of masculinity
• 117:30 - 118:00 and no femininity i would personally disagree this is the point when when i out myself as a feminist i personally like the fact that women get to choose their career they get to choose their partner to me it's actually good even from an ever sharing standpoint because it is leading us towards a deeper degree of development as a species but what the society has made of it is the problem because all of these were good
• 118:00 - 118:30 things for example women being able to find their mate and pick their mate themselves but because it's taking place in a hypersexualized society it led to hypergamy likewise the ability of women to walk and not depend on the men were a good thing until it led to inflation and the destruction of the family because nowadays there is no incentive for a woman to get a man that is the true problem the true problem is not in the evolution of the biological it's what the culture has done to it afterwards
• 118:30 - 119:00 this discussion on cultural and biological could go on forever because in reality the more you dig the more you realize that it's just really interactions between the two that go back thousands and thousands of years so i'm not going to spend too much time on that but as i said there is a lack of masculinity in the world and therefore masculine men are going to be in very high demand it's something i'm already noticing when i go out in public i look at dudes who don't really look like men
• 119:00 - 119:30 then i look at the women and i look at the way the women look at me and i'm like okay for me i'm taken so it doesn't matter to me but for any dude that wonders what it takes to get a girl and then to keep her it's simple be a man just by being a man and being muscular and being confident you're already above 90 of guys you're better than them so you're going to have a much stronger chance of scoring and this is going to lead to the main metaphor i'm going to share with you
• 119:30 - 120:00 guys today and it's a metaphor that i've refined in my brains and that i like to use because it really helps me grasp concepts such as masculinity and femininity that can be a little bit vague and tough to neurons but for me the second i picture them in my head with these concepts and with these allegorical representations it makes it clearer and so because this
• 120:00 - 120:30 video really hinges on the difference between the masculine and the feminine i want to share that metaphor with you so the way i want you to think about men and women is in these terms women are like the sea men are like mountains think of the characteristics of both of these elements what is the c the c is unstable to sea is unpredictable but the sea is also in a sense
• 120:30 - 121:00 predictable in its tendency to constantly repeat what it seeks which is the creation of waves and just the development and the sprawling of its own energy what is a mountain the mountain is more stoic it is much more stable therefore also in a sense predictable and it is in direct opposition with the sea so if we're going to take those two energies and we put them together in the
• 121:00 - 121:30 same vacuum you have the c and you have the mountains and the c constantly crushes against the mountains that is the relationship between femininity and masculinity it has always been like this unlike what you might think the energy that is the most proactive within the relationship is always the feminine one it doesn't mean that it's the one driving the relationship or that it's the one that outside of it is making the most difference in the world but when you talk about men and women it
• 121:30 - 122:00 is the case and so if we think like this we can also understand women to a much deeper level because many men are going to have problems with their girl or their wife because they just don't get what they are they don't understand where this energy or these behaviors come from and therefore they start to resend them because it's tough to throw love or acceptance towards something that you don't understand so
• 122:00 - 122:30 let me explain to you why women are like to see the sea is relentless and the goal of the sea is to ship away at the mountain it constantly comes and the wave crashing into the mountain taking away pebbles here or pebble there until the mountain is completely crumbled and destroyed the energy of chaos can be found in femininity in that aspect and it can be difficult to deal with if you're the mountain because you're just there
• 122:30 - 123:00 minding your own business and you have that energy that constantly crushes into you it's what lead many men to consider their wives or girlfriends as nag and they start to resent it resend them for it because they don't understand what it is what it is is simple women want with movement women women cannot tolerate stagnation it's the reason why a large portion of evolution was driven by women they are the ones who are constantly trying to refine and
• 123:00 - 123:30 they dislike immobility they just simply don't like it for a more practical example some guys are going to say well i don't understand when i watch like a basketball match my wife gets upset why does she get upset is she upset because you're watching a football match or basketball match for two hours no it's because you're not doing anything productive that's why pieces are off and she might be in the wrong maybe you're just resting but it's not what she understands on a biological level what
• 123:30 - 124:00 she sees on that biological level is that you are not moving and because you're not moving you're going to stagnate and for her it's dangerous because if you go back to the essence of what a woman is and what she will actually seek in a mate what they seek inmates is the ability to provide to provide with what resources to do what to create a family and sustain it so if you're not doing anything it looks to her as if you are not willing to provide and that is a bad sign
• 124:00 - 124:30 and therefore she's trying to kill that in the egg and she's going to be annoying on purpose to get you to move it's not an attack towards who you are again the waves crashing against the mountain are not trying to kill the mountain it's just what they do and this is very sexist right many people would say that this is incredibly sexist because it's it's basically in a sense presenting women as creatures who don't control themselves and that is exactly what i'm saying just like i'm saying that men don't control many of
• 124:30 - 125:00 their biological drives because these are so deeply rooted in our dnas that most of us don't even get it but they always make it into cultural standards it's the reason why you have the stereotype of the nagging woman and you never hear the opposite men rarely nag people or if they do it tends to be seen as a feminine trait because it is that's what women do women are like to see but also means that what is going to matter the most for you as the mountain is your ability
• 125:00 - 125:30 to remain a mountain many men when they get nagged like this they have one or two reactions they either give up so they just do whatever their wife said or they resist aggressively but that is not the nature of the mountain the mountain is not aggressive the mountain doesn't get pissed off at the seat of montana just stays a mountain it stays stoic and that is exactly what your woman wants and i know it's tough to grasp and for a lot of guys i'm not going to get it
• 125:30 - 126:00 but it's a challenge in a sense it's a it's a uh it's your girl trying to see how resistant you are to her thoughts and if you're going to actually snap and if you're actually going to give her a reaction that she wants which is the worst worst thing that you could do the two options i gave you are the worst that you can do because women are looking for stability and stability includes the ability to control your emotions it's the reason
• 126:00 - 126:30 why emotional instability is mostly linked to women women are seen as more emotionally unstable because they simply are it doesn't mean that they are weaker it just means that the way they deal with their emotions is different than us if you start getting swept into into the way your woman deals with your emotions you're both going to be unstable and it's not going to work the relationship needs someone stable and unstable and this also means that if we look at it in terms of energies and not genders
• 126:30 - 127:00 it could be that in your relationship you are a woman and you are the stable one and your man is the unstable one it is sorry possible maybe you're even gay and you are the stable one and your boyfriend is the unstable one that's possible it's because femininity and masculinity are not interestingly linked to gender they are mostly linked to it but not all the way i say that to make you understand that the metaphor is just that it's a metaphor as i said if you want to
• 127:00 - 127:30 understand women you need to understand women in terms of poetry because if you don't you're going to start resenting what they are if you cannot see the beauty in women's behaviors you're going to start to regret it and the only way to understand it and to actually see it through a proper length is through the length of art it's the reason why i think that a good method to actually save men who have started to develop a hatred for women would be to expose them
• 127:30 - 128:00 to pieces of art that depict feminine like paintings for example or like even classical music all of that can give you a deeper understanding of what women are and unlike what you might think when you understand what a woman is you start understanding why she does certain things and since they make sense you're going to accept them with more ease as the mountain as i said your only way to face the sea is going to set up
• 128:00 - 128:30 boundaries that's what the mountain does it creates a strong boundary that boundary is everything in a relationship you are going to set boundaries that cannot be broken and i insist on this they cannot be broken if the mountain allows the boundaries to break what happens it crumbles into the sea crumbling into the c means that the relationship is going to die i'm going to explain to you exactly why but in this sense
• 128:30 - 129:00 you cannot allow your boundaries to be negotiated with because as i said what women do is they change men for better or for worse as i said the best relationship is a woman that allows you to better yourself but the woman will just change you it's it's a neutral energy some women are able and are very rare to only change a man positively but they are they are almost non-existent most women just will
• 129:00 - 129:30 change men and then wherever the guy goes good or bad doesn't really matter he'll just be changed it means that it's up to you to control the chain so she will be the vector of it and you will be the conveyor she will be the energy that pushes and promotes change and you will take just enough of that energy to guide yourself in the direction you want to go and what you want to do is you want to go up you want to better yourself so your boundaries are not wars okay just like the mountain
• 129:30 - 130:00 is not completely impermeable to the sea water it lets through just enough so that it can seep into itself then get collected and then feed the plants on the mountains you will have to honest the feminine energy of your partner just like they will have to harness the masculine energy it's a relationship that in reality is like crisscross like this and then goes up it's like a pillar of energy that then leaves the tree of
• 130:00 - 130:30 life when you eventually have children but if you refuse that all together and you either fail to put up boundaries or they are too strict you're going to miss the point entirely you cannot you cannot put such strict boundaries in place that your women stop to challenge them it's not possible and it's not even healthy because it's in their nature to try to constantly change things i've expressed that they have the responsibility
• 130:30 - 131:00 to push men to be their best self and men who don't realize that as we are going to become worse as a response because they think that they're just being attacked you're not being attacked you're being tested women constantly test men and that is proven by the fact that many reptile websites have a certain name that they give to that type of nagging and they call it a [ __ ] test what is a [ __ ] test a [ __ ] test is a moment in your life in your day where for some reason or another your girl is
• 131:00 - 131:30 going to start a fact or she's going to start an argument or she's going to say something that bothers you or annoys you and it truly is a good demonstration of how these men think about women when you see the semantics they use a [ __ ] test it's something negative right it's something that is associated with fecal matters it cannot be positive and yet they are [ __ ] tests are extremely positive because they are a challenge a challenge is never negative it only is
• 131:30 - 132:00 if you're not prepared or if you fail in which case both ways show that you are at fault it's not your fault she just challenged you you weren't able to actually fulfill the challenge because you weren't actually prepared so see those sheet tests as what they are it's like evolution knocking on your door and saying hey or just making sure that you're a good mate that's essentially what it is all [ __ ] tests can be linked to that women don't start
• 132:00 - 132:30 arguments with our men just for the sake of it because they're bored they don't realize it themselves but there's a little voice in them that says hey it's been a while since we actually shook the dude let's see what he's made of let's see if the mountain is still a mountain and it's not turning into cardboard so the waves are going to heat the mountain again again and again and if you're malleable it's going to eventually be the end of you because as i said the energy of the
• 132:30 - 133:00 sea the energy of women is boundless it is actually impressive how how easy it can just go on forever and ever if you ever try to argue with a woman they do what i call spiral arguing meaning that it's like you're going in circles you go nowhere you know why you go nowhere because there's no reason for the argument she's not starting the argument to get an answer or response she's starting an argument to test you any man that has a steady relationship will tell you that
• 133:00 - 133:30 women don't really like answers and they don't really like solutions if your girl comes home upset from work and she says oh i have to talk to you about something and she talks about her problems the worst thing you can do is give her solutions she doesn't want solutions she's a grown woman she can handle down them herself what she wants is youtube for you to listen that's all she wants just like when the sea and the waves crash on the mountains the sea is not waiting for the mountain to do anything is you just have to stand
• 133:30 - 134:00 there literally to be a man a large portion of it is just stand and some people will tell you well that's you're a cook because you're just letting her do whatever i'm not saying to let her run all over you i'm saying to not give her the reaction that you think is going to save you because it won't again it's like men who try to be logical with women when you argue women don't argue logically it doesn't mean that women are not capable of logic but when they argue it's purely emotional and it's purely based on what they are as creatures so
• 134:00 - 134:30 there is absolutely no point in getting rather by the [ __ ] tests because it means that you failed the test but the worst thing you can do much wasn't getting upset that a woman in rowdy is to give in because men who get upset are men who don't understand what i just shared they don't understand that a [ __ ] test is a good thing it's just a prove that your woman is invested it's a proof that she is still in the relationship and willing to build
• 134:30 - 135:00 something because she's testing it right it's like she's testing the foundations of the building the day she stopped testing means that she doesn't really give a [ __ ] about the building anymore it can fall apart it's not her problem so she tests you and you resist you never give in because if you give in it's the end of the relationship i told you before that women hate weakness women hate pathetic men and women also don't like men who give up so if the first two are going to be
• 135:00 - 135:30 obstacles to you getting a girl the third is going to be an obstacle to you keeping a girl because if you give in you have failed as a mountain you are not a rock anymore you are something else you are your sand and the problem is that is that because you are now sand you offer no resistance women love movement and movement also includes the idea of resistance if you cannot provide one or the other it's over and uh to continue the metaphor for example if you look at the sea when it
• 135:30 - 136:00 crash crashes on the beach what are the waves while the explosions of water where is the expression of life when there are rocks when there is something for the waves to actually hit what happens if the wave just hits the beach it just covers it and that is the perfect allegorical representation of what happens to a man when he starts to give in to [ __ ] tests and to nagging and to women's demands when you start giving up you're going to be submerged
• 136:00 - 136:30 actually bill burr has a very good uh metaphor about that that is also linked to the scene where he describes it also as like waves hitting the beach and one day you just wake up and you're the in the middle of a lagoon like the tiny rock that is somehow managed to make it and the seas all over you and your life is over because you got taken over by the feminine energy and therefore you have failed as a male as a rock as the mountain you have felt
• 136:30 - 137:00 just like the sea is supposed to be where life is teeming or life was created you are supposed to be the place that allows life to anchor itself and that means stupid if you just fall apart when the sea hits you once or twice guess what there's not going to be much life here right the sediments that you would have given to the sea to then give birth to life are never going to actually be able to materialize because you just got completely melted by the sea and that needs to be avoided you are
• 137:00 - 137:30 supposed to be a rock not an iceberg you're not supposed to melt you're supposed to be there forever and the reason why you want to do that is not just for yourself and for your own self-respect and not even for the relationship but also for your woman because unlike what you might think a woman whose men gives up to her [ __ ] test is a woman who is miserable completely paradoxical again you might tell me well that makes no sense she's
• 137:30 - 138:00 the one bothering me all the time and i finally give up and now she hates me what the [ __ ] well it's because you don't get women you don't understand women just because you gave her what she wanted doesn't mean that it's going to make her happy because women just like men don't know what they want it's the reason why you never take advice on how to actually talk or approach or interact with women from women because they don't know at all and even if there were to know they would never be honest with you so instead listen to wisdom the wisdom of
• 138:00 - 138:30 nature i think there is a reason why masculinity has always been depicted as earth and femininity has always been depicted as water is because it makes sense the two together make sense so what happens to the sea when it meets no resistance with the rock well nothing happens because the confrontation of the two was the relationship now there's no confrontation you are the beach both literally and figuratively b-i-t-c-h and you're now being covered
• 138:30 - 139:00 by the sea it has complete grain over you you're sent so you're smooth and soft and you offer no resistance and now she's bored and not only is she bored she hates your [ __ ] guts and i know women like this usually they tend to be in their 40s and 50s and there was a guy that gave up at some point he couldn't take it anymore and now they they just hate him like with everything in them they they detach the
• 139:00 - 139:30 guy and you can see it in the way they interact well the guy is completely ah and she's just val towards him it's a relationship between a [ __ ] and a witch and that of course doesn't function because the resistance is not there anymore therefore you are not really a partner for the woman anymore she's stuck with like a weird overgrown child and no woman desires that
• 139:30 - 140:00 because it means that you gave up and if you gave up it is that you don't really care about the relationship anymore so you don't really care about her what i'm saying right now if you're a woman take note because i might be saving your marriage in 15 or 20 years many women don't realize that they create their own misery they don't realize it because they don't even understand where their biological urge for movement comes from men certainly don't get it either so it's two people who don't get what's going on and then the relationship just
• 140:00 - 140:30 goes to [ __ ] and they think oh it's because marriage sucks no it's because you suck it's because you never actually took the time to sit down and think about these things from an adversary standpoint but the second you understand it the way i just told you it makes total sense so to not kill your relationship and not kill the respect that your woman has for you you need to resist this doesn't mean that it must be a constant fight between you and your lady but there must be
• 140:30 - 141:00 something there must be some resistance an example from my relationship my girl often tells me that i drive her crazy because i'm very stubborn meaning that i put up a fight i argue with her but i argue in the sense that i refuse to budge i don't engage with her in the spiral argument i just say no and that's it it's a strict boundary it means also that again i'm interesting because i'm not easily completely
• 141:00 - 141:30 invaded in a sentence or surpassed and i can tell you that when she tells me that and she says oh you drive me crazy she says that with a smile on her face because it's a good thing and this is my advice to you when your girl wants something or says something and she wants you to do something and she wants movement don't shut down that that's great it means that you have a top-notch woman she's fulfilling her evolutionary purpose on this planet she's getting you
• 141:30 - 142:00 to move okay what you want to do however is that to use your best judgment and say yes to certain things and know to other things and when you say no she will get upset just like the sea hitting the rocks is going to scream and explode in fuses because it wants to get its way but it's not always getting its way and that is a good thing i can tell you and you will notice yourself if you apply my advice that when you say no to your girl she's going to be pissed for maybe five minutes and then she's going to start to
• 142:00 - 142:30 have a smile on her face because deep down unconsciously you passed the test you passed the [ __ ] test you resisted and even though she was upset at first she will eventually be more happy than she was before the test every single test is like a new step that you climb and that step is basically the mental representation she has of you in her head if you fail the test you're going down the stairs to the point where you're going to eventually be at the bottom in
• 142:30 - 143:00 the cave and she hates you now every test you pass is the opposite you you shine in our eyes you have more value in our eyes because you're fulfilling your role as the mountain and why do women do that what exactly is the point of testing all the time is it for their own selfish satisfaction no it's for the family it's for the nuclear entity you're going to create she's testing your solidity she's making sure you can take it you can take challenges because the [ __ ] tests that
• 143:00 - 143:30 you get from your women are like one tenth of what real life is going to throw your way so if you cannot pass them and resist them guess what she knows you're not going to be up to snuff when real life hits when challenges hit and therefore you're not going to be a good mate so and raise those tests and pass them they're actually very easy you don't want to give him you want to be a rock or she's going to be miserable and therefore being a doormat is the worst thing you can do in your
• 143:30 - 144:00 relationship something that should be evident to any man that respects themselves and respects their women too many people see that as machismo of saying oh you say no and like you put up boundaries and uh it's sexist it's not sexy what is sexist actually and very misogynistic is to allow a woman to run all over you because then it's making her sad it's killing the relationship because she's not getting what she wants because she gets what she wants i hope
• 144:00 - 144:30 that you understand that point so as i was saying not being a doormat is incredibly important to keep the relationship going because if you look at the sea as something that constantly wants movement what provides stability to that sea is the rock but more importantly what guides the energy of the sea is also the rock the rock divides the waves and it pushes the current one way or the other if there is no rock
• 144:30 - 145:00 yes the c is free to do whatever it wants but it was never what women intended they don't want that they want to have a partner a partner is someone who opposes their energy with yours and this goes and leads down a path of enroll the sociological development that escapes many people and that maybe are going to make some of you mad but it needs to be said a lot of the time
• 145:00 - 145:30 when women misbehave when women don't do the things they're supposed to do when they stop being proper and usually that leads them to being miserable it's men's thought right it started as men not capable of fulfilling their end of the bargain and women also saying [ __ ] it at some point and just giving up a large portion of feminism can be linked and traced to that too many men like to blame feminism for women not being proper women anymore and there are
• 145:30 - 146:00 not being any good girls the reason why they started is because men also were starting to stop being men they started to just not want to fulfill any personal responsibilities they relinquished their paternal duties and that led to a reaction we exist in an environment where masculine and feminine energy cohabit one another meaning that it's foolish to think that one can go astray and the
• 146:00 - 146:30 other can have no influence if the sea is polluted there's a chance that it's because there was some problem with the mountain at some point there is some pollutants that sipped within the rock of the mountain and contaminated the sea and vice versa and playing the blame game and trying to find whose fault is it serves no one by the way it's what feminists it's what men going their own way do all they spend our energy on is pointing the finger and saying oh it's women's fault
• 146:30 - 147:00 for this and it's men's fault for that because they have a segregated view of what it what it means to be a man and a woman in the sense that they don't see these two energies as complementary they absolutely are and because they complement each other by default it means also that they are different in nature so you want to resist you want to keep a very strong identity the identity your woman found
• 147:00 - 147:30 you with keep in mind she selected you for a reason even though it feels like she wants you to change it is true but not in absolute terms because if she wanted you to change who you are completely she wouldn't have picked you in the first place so be very confident in her ability to make a choice and stay who you are be in a sense stable you can change some aspects of your personality but if you change them or guess what is going to
• 147:30 - 148:00 happen she's going to start hating you because you're not the person that she picked when you first got started it's something you hear a lot with people who say oh they changed well sometimes they did change but it's because they thought it was to the benefit of the relationship like for example if you give up and you let those [ __ ] tests get to you and you let your woman slowly erode your personality even though it will make her miserable she will never
• 148:00 - 148:30 get to the point where she will be able to realize that before it's too late so it is your role as the male and as the rock to do that to prevent that from doing it but also to not develop resentment because at the end of the day the sea is going to do what the sea does and the rock is going to do what it does if your woman starts to hate you because you're inflexible that is going to be a problem as well so the two sides need to work on it but you only have an impact on your own self
• 148:30 - 149:00 and when it comes to not letting yourself go it's true for identity it's also true for principles for many men a challenge they are going to be facing in this modern age is that most likely your woman will not only be different from you from a personality standpoint she will also be different from you from a sociological and political standpoint and many men see that as an impossibility they think oh i can never be with a woman who's not conservative well you're sort of out of luck because
• 149:00 - 149:30 within themselves deep down the nature of women is more liberal it is more progressive and men are more conservative by nature and i really insist on it by nature this is biological it would be too long to explain why maybe i'll find an excuse one day to make a video about the topic but it's the reason why you see so many women who are liberal and so many men who are right-wing it's not a fluke it's because it aligns with we are inside as creatures as beasts
• 149:30 - 150:00 and therefore if you think that you can only be with someone who is exactly the same as you one you have been fed the propaganda that the only type of people you can build a life with are people who are exactly like you which is a lie and two you also are in a sense sabotaging yourself and also you don't trust yourself because you should be confident enough that you can find a woman that if she has intent bianca a head well-made as we say in
• 150:00 - 150:30 french she will see the light if you truly believe that your opinions are the correct ones well at some point surely she will also see that right if you're not capable of doing that enough therefore helping her because you would make her see the truth then just don't even start in the first place it's important to be able to understand that because as you will go into it it will be tougher and tougher and tougher to not let yourself go it's the
• 150:30 - 151:00 challenge of marriage and committed relationships as a man as i said the movement and the constant need and desire for resistance comes from the woman you provide the resistance if you are not resistant enough and you don't have the entrance you're going to snap she's not going to get what she wants and you're going to be miserable as well so it's something that needs to be maintained that rigidity is both ideological in terms of mental endurance
• 151:00 - 151:30 and stamina but it's also in terms of who you are as a person meaning also that all of the hobbies all of the things that made you who you are before you were with her you need to maintain and conserve if you have kids you're going to have to sacrifice and cut down on some of it but before that and that's especially true for lifters for example if your girl says oh you spend too much time at the gym and you should stop lifting so much and you're already big that's a [ __ ] test she's seeing if you are willing to give up a
• 151:30 - 152:00 portion of who you are a portion of your personality for her it's just a way for her to test her powers anyone who refuses to see the power relations within men and women relationships is an idiot because they don't understand what life is everything is a challenge of power everyone tries to expand their power their will to power even kids a kid if you have if you have children
• 152:00 - 152:30 one day or if you ever have been around kids even they do that they don't know anything like that they haven't been formed culturally and yet you will see that they constantly prob and they push to see what the limit is and to see if they can go beyond because they want more power and guess what if you let a kid have power he will take more and more and more he will keep pushing because there's no resistance women are the same and i'm not saying that women are like children it's not
• 152:30 - 153:00 the case but they're like humans we are humans men are the same way i know that for me it's something that i'm really bad with meaning that if i'm with people and they don't put up boundaries i am going to eat them alive i will devour them everything i can take i will take i will sprout i will make the space my own the only thing that keeps me in check is people who use strong boundaries and say hey that's not okay you don't do that and once that is set i'm good i've been
• 153:00 - 153:30 catalyzed it's the same thing for women but the promise that you're going to be in an intimate relationship with an entity that feels like it is a never-ending devourer of just everything around you of your environment your hobbies everything and some men it makes them go insane because they think wow what have i signed up for it's never ending well yeah it's never ending it's the beauty of women it's it's the it's this relentless drive for
• 153:30 - 154:00 progression and evolution that they have that if you see it for what it is it's beautiful but if you don't you're just going to think that she's a witch and you're going to start to hate her so see it for what it is and actually make sure that you conserve who you are your identity is not up for negotiation that goes for the gym she wants you to stop going to the gym say no keep going to the gym she likes you because you go to the gym it makes you more masculine so refuse it's
• 154:00 - 154:30 just again a test just like a kid who asks for two cookies instead of one if you say no the kid is not just going to leave and then take a jog on the highway he'll just take one cookie and that's it he gave it a shot he might be upset for five minutes but then the boundaries that were set will echo with them strong enough that they will be behaving properly afterwards women are the same way and a woman will check you the same way with her boundaries and that is very healthy it's the
• 154:30 - 155:00 confrontation that leads to your evolution together as a couple and it brings you together but with women there is a specific aspect of the [ __ ] test that i don't see developed or discussed enough and that is the abandonment issue which is also coded into adult dna because for a woman back in the days for thousands of years tens of thousands of years if the man abandoned them abandoned her and the kids life was over you couldn't survive
• 155:00 - 155:30 without a male in the household so women are extremely afraid of that and if you have a girl you will see that all the the problems you have all the insecurities that you sense in your woman come from that she's afraid you're gonna leave because there's a voice in her that says hey if he leaves we're in danger and you will therefore also encounter women sometimes that are going to try and push you away with their behavior and what they're doing is they're self-sabotaging they're
• 155:30 - 156:00 trying to push you away before you leave of your own volition because it's it's less painful they don't realize that all that i'm saying they have no idea but if you know that you can prevent it and you can reassure her and say hey i will be your rock you are the sea raging at the rock and you think that the rock is going to leave one day well no as i explained the rock the only way the rock could leave is if the rock gives up and becomes submerged but you will not let that happen to your relationship you
• 156:00 - 156:30 will fight that job you will oppose your own masculine energy to the feminine energy and that creates life that's great beauty that was for the abandonment issue and the fact that women like resistance every single relationship that lasts in time is one of resistance if one or the other party gives up and checks out the relationship is going to die and if the woman checks out well the mountain stops being challenged and it
• 156:30 - 157:00 stop even having an existence as a mountain and if the mountain gives up the sea has nothing to fight against and therefore it is for nothing and that is when the masculine the feminine becomes separated and are loose they lose their very purpose i know that it's not popular to say that many men don't like to hear that dawn masculinity is deeply linked with the femininity and that it might even only exist to serve it or to protect it i get
• 157:00 - 157:30 why is because right now since the feminine is not fulfilling its purpose why should we fulfill the purpose the problem is that it's a very childish approach and that if we give up as the rock might as well close up sharp because humanity is going to be destroyed we have to be more mature than the enemy okay i see too many men who try to fight feminists with their own methods and it doesn't work because their methods are poisonous to start with and they come from their own mental imbalances don't
• 157:30 - 158:00 do that don't allow yourself to do that be stoic be the rock that you are always meant to be now if we're going to talk more about men and women in those method-free metaphorical terms there's another one that i like because it offers a more balanced approach and painting of this entire thing i know some people might be a bit peeved by the sea and the rocker because it's too antagonistic
• 158:00 - 158:30 if you understood the ratio between rock formations and you see you would know that actually it's not those two things are very symbiotic in nature but to just to to appease you a bit i want to give you another type of metaphor that i think is even better because it really offers the entire spectrum of masculine feminine tendency as a whole as a continuum and that is to think of femininity as dusk and masculinity as twilight
• 158:30 - 159:00 both both energies possess solar and dark energies in a sense toxic energies if you want to be manikin and link dark with negative things but it does not mean that one has the monopoly on them it's just that on the spectrum one is more straight towards one side and the other towards the other side most women are going to fall closer to feminine traits and most men are going to put for
• 159:00 - 159:30 foreclosure towards masculine traits i like to liken masculinity as twilight because to me it possesses similar characteristics and females and the female energy in a sense is more like dusk twilight is a little bit more oppressive a little bit more threatening there is more in a sense the sense of doom in twilight there's a closer understanding of impending violence in a sense with dust i always find dust more conforting more fresh
• 159:30 - 160:00 more nurturing in a sense and it's the promise of a new day it's a promise of life but thus cannot happen without twilight because they're part of the same cycle and are both part of the day and night cycle so it's not like femininities the dark or masculine leaves the sun it doesn't work like that but funnily enough if you were to look at most religions and especially most animist religions every single time the moon is seen as a feminine entity and the sun is seen as a masculine
• 160:00 - 160:30 entity that's that says something nature in itself even though it's not human possesses masculine and feminine traits and one of these feminine traits that i want to discuss is again the discussion on status because i think it's very important once you have your woman locked and you want to keep her happy it's going to be very important to understand why she picked you because now you can then work on reinforcing these traits and she can work on reinforcing the traits that you picked her for which are
• 160:30 - 161:00 going to be for the most part physical at the start but then what is going to stabilize the relationship is who she is as a person i want you really to give yourself the chance to discover women and i really want i want you to take it too hard and to think because too many young men sims or in-cells that are the same in reality see women only for their physical envelope and yes the physical envelope is very nice but women are truly lovely lovely creatures in world
• 161:00 - 161:30 and it might be taken as something very simply to say but women are kinder than men and it's not a good or a bad thing they balance us out but the amount of love the amount of nurture and of true faithful stability that you can find in a woman is unmatched and if you allow yourself to tap into that and you discover women you will be finally in tune with with this entity
• 161:30 - 162:00 that you desire so much and i found that the more you understand women the more you love them which is funny because the red pearl tells you otherwise all of these rapper morons tell you that oh once you know what women are deep down you can only hate them that's [ __ ] and you know what pisses me off is that the feminists say the same thing they say oh if you come down to what men are with the biological they're just they're just pigs and they are despicable that's not true we are amazing creatures as well but if we're only seen through the
• 162:00 - 162:30 biological lens of course everything is mean through the biological lens look at sex if it's just biological it's what it's an exchange of fluids yeah who wants that well if you look at it from a more artistic standpoint it's the consecration of love it's the creation of life i would advise you to always always look at it from both sides and it's what i try to offer with my analogy with twilight and dusk but for the stylus thing understand that
• 162:30 - 163:00 just like women are going to try to change you but don't really want that women also cannot go back on status and we're going back to the sea the sea constantly advances it retreats sometime but it's only to advance again look at the tsunami but tsunami just sucks the the water out for miles and miles but it's only to come back stronger women are like this too it's a constant back and forth which means that they also have a very tough time going back on status which also means
• 163:00 - 163:30 that you cannot let yourself go you really as a token of respect for your woman or her to be a strong individual because if you start lowering yourself and you start being ranked lower in terms of social hierarchies she's going to start resenting you but what i explained before the kindness in women means that she's never going to express it to give you an example from my life i was at a point four years ago i think where i was borderline obese i was 240
• 163:30 - 164:00 pounds i was very fat and the funny thing is that my body dysmorphia was preventing me from seeing that but my partner never said anything she never told me hey you're getting a little bit chubby and i don't like it she never said that and the reason why is she's kind she's nice she saw i was getting fat but she loved me for who i am and that is an ability that only women possess which is the reason why it also makes me laugh when people try to project male qualities on women and say oh
• 164:00 - 164:30 she'll leave you the second that you you don't have abs that's [ __ ] you can become a fat [ __ ] she will stay with you but it's not a good thing because she's allowing you to lower yourself and it's not making her happy because you are losing what used to make you so masculine and great in her eyes if she picked you and you're already chubby then she likes that it's what she likes in terms of social status so it's okay but you must must preserve who you are and your strength and identity as a male as the token of
• 164:30 - 165:00 respect again for your woman it's absolutely essential because even though women can love unconditionally it only goes so far and the problem is that men can't do that i have found if you want to contradict me it's fine men have an easier time giving up on their partner if they perceive a change that is not their liking and they see that it's
• 165:00 - 165:30 going to skyrocket or is going to snowball out of control which is also a good thing both sides bring to the table what is needed but you see that with men nowadays this over-indulgence that women offer their men lead to demand not being men anymore and the women then being frustrated and resentful so it's a cycle that is very dangerous and as a byproduct i see many men nowadays who also refuse to express their biological drive and all requirements for women and therefore
• 165:30 - 166:00 they don't hold women to the same standards and women also go to [ __ ] and both sexes are regressing it is your duty to make sure it doesn't happen because as i said girls aren't like us and that's what makes them attractive the uh equalization of genders as i said just makes the opposite gender less attractive because they become less and less often opposite you need to embrace that
• 166:00 - 166:30 like all of the weird stuff that your woman does all of the quirky stuff that sometimes annoys you that's why you like her deep down you might not realize it it's like it's why you like her if so many guy i see i hear guys say that and say oh i wish my girlfriend was like my best friend like my bro no you don't right because it looks like some dudes think that the perfect woman is the body of a woman and the spirit and soul of a male but that's not true what you want is not a brawl with tits that gives you
• 166:30 - 167:00 [ __ ] you wouldn't like that you think you would but you wouldn't what you like is that femininity so let her preserve that because by preserving her feminine drive you preserve your masculine drive and that's what i spoke about with the twilight the dusk and that interconnection between the genders if you start allowing the other gender to just degrade you're going to degrade as well it's the reason why this entire feminist and masculinist thing is nonsense we need to work hand in hand
• 167:00 - 167:30 for the preservation of the species and of our love life it is very important which means that you don't want to become a woman you want to preserve your own abilities and your own identity identical i keep trying to use that adjective even though it doesn't exist you want to maintain a strong masculine identity the way your woman found you take that and reinforce that and shape that that's what she wants all right she doesn't want the mountain to crumble
• 167:30 - 168:00 she wants it to just keep expanding into the sky because that allows the sea to also keep raising and then you race together this however does not mean that you're going to fall for some of the most dependent pensions that you see within certain males nowadays like for example depending on your woman to make food or depending on your woman to clean your shoes or to clean your laundry that is i don't know why it has been seen as masculine it's not it used to be when
• 168:00 - 168:30 the man was the provider and the woman was the home the home caretaker in a sense because then both genders had a role but nowadays women work so you can't put that weight on a woman's shoulder it's not biologically her role to do the laundry it used to culturally be because it made sense but nowadays it doesn't anymore so i know that some men want to go back to that problem is the economy doesn't allow it so your good old days are suddenly dead and gone but the good news is that it
• 168:30 - 169:00 doesn't matter many people think that because this is gone culturally then the biological is gone and men and women can't have that type of relationship anymore it's not true but the relationship of dominance and submissiveness is going to take place on a different level and you're going to see that this doesn't include chores do your [ __ ] chores don't be a baby when i meet men who are 28 and they say oh i can't cook i want to slap you across the face
• 169:00 - 169:30 because you're pathetic you're a mind child it's not attractive and it certainly is not something that women like uh unless you're looking for a replacement for your mom and you have mom issues you don't want to put that responsibility in a woman's hands because it's going to degrade the image she has of you women like dependable men who are individuals and who are able to be independent if you don't have that well again as i said the woman might not leave you because they're too nice but
• 169:30 - 170:00 the relationship is going to devolve it's something that i think now i can explain in better terms it's why i said that men being more decisive in their in their ability to just cut a woman off if she misbehaves is a good thing is because since women don't have that someone has to do it but the problem is that if you're a man and you like that and you don't have the ability to be self-aware your woman will not provide that for you so she will allow you to just destroy
• 170:00 - 170:30 yourself and herself many relationships and i've said that while the man wakes up one day and says i want to understand she hates me she's been hating you for 15 years because you constantly make it so that you put responsibilities on her and she crumbles under that weight and she hates you because deep down she thinks well it's not my way to carry but feminism in the modern world has told her that she should be happy about carrying all that weight so it's that weird cognitive dissonance within her
• 170:30 - 171:00 and it's crumbling her inside it's like a dark hole forming here and that dark hole is going to swallow up your relationship so clean cook do your own laundry okay you can separate the chores if based off of personal timing and allowances but never be dependent on someone else for basic stuff like this it is simply not good as a man you need to be useful okay you need to be a rock a rock is stable or rock is useful
• 171:00 - 171:30 because women also love depending on men i've already explained that and you see that because of the tests okay the tests keep reoccurring because she keeps testing you to see if you're still as reliable as you once were it's the only way she has you can't hate her for that the only way she has of knowing if you're still up to par is to is to test it right how do you test the car you start it you don't look at it you're not asking hey car are you still a car no you try you try to see if it's going
• 171:30 - 172:00 to start your woman is going to do the same but guess what if she if she starts the car it means that she still wants to drive i could have said she still wants to ride but too easy of a pun so try to actually appreciate her for it appreciate the efforts that she's putting into trying to keep you in shape and everything she goes overboard you check her just like she will check you that's perfectly fine it's not sexist
• 172:00 - 172:30 because all of these stats really boil down to seeing if you're going to be a good mate which really means if you're going to be a good dad because the amount of [ __ ] a woman gives you is like one tenth of what children will put you through in reality it's again linked on evolution i'm certain that it's a way that women have put in place culturally to make sure that you're not just going to grab your baby by the neck and smash his head into the wall when he starts crying she's testing your resilience to see if you have the backbone necessary
• 172:30 - 173:00 to carry your children because that poor woman will carry your seat for nine months she better be sure you're going to be there afterwards and you know what i would even go as far as to say that because women have stopped being exigent enough with down men there's the reason why so many kids grow without a dad because the women don't go into the proper phases of testing for a mate to make sure he's going to stay around we want women to do that i know it's insane
• 173:00 - 173:30 because a lot of you well might tell me well an age i mean even with the current requirements i can't even score a girl or i have a girl and she bothers me she's a knowing well it has nothing to do with dark standards it's you you're too weak you're not attractive enough you're not strong as a mate enough so stop whining like a baby get better improve okay you're you're a rock you're always meant to be that so so strive strive to be that for a woman so that one day a woman can be happy with you and before that you need
• 173:30 - 174:00 to be happy with yourself but that just circles back to what i already described so you will be tested to see if you are a proper dad and the the i think is the reason why i like the twilight and dusk uh allegory core representation so much is because it's it's it's more sickly than the sea and the mountain it's easier to see the repetition and how one strengthens the other in royalty because since men have stopped being men women
• 174:00 - 174:30 are not women anymore and are not checking their men hard enough meaning that men are less of men which means women are less of women etc etc it's a cycle of destruction that we need to stop and the only way to stop it is to be the archetypal proficient dad to be someone that a woman wants to make children with which by the way is what they want in terms of evolution and what we want as well when you look at a woman and you see a fat ass in large hips and big tits what you're
• 174:30 - 175:00 looking at is markers of fertility you're seeing if that woman will be able to carry your children you might not know that you might just think you like big asses but you like big asses for a reason and it's not culture it's biological it's a portion of culture but mostly biological women are going to look into men and think okay does he have the ability and the characteristics to be a proper diet if you look at it height strength muscles all of that serves what purpose to be good looking
• 175:00 - 175:30 when you [ __ ] her i don't think so it means that you're going to be a strong dad that can protect the children that's what it means wealth what is she going to do grab a bill and then rub her [ __ ] with it no she has resources to take care of the baby that's what that's why it matters that's what it means you're charismatic it means that people are going to like you and potentially also like your kids so they have a safeguard if something happens to them another time all of that all boils down to evolution and if you want to even go crazier it's even more than that because
• 175:30 - 176:00 what we like in a partner is also what we know other people will like so when you look at a woman and say oh i like her if you have kids with her your kids have a chance to look like her meaning that men were also like her you see how deep it goes we are looking for a mate to produce children that will attract a mate same for women if you ever wondered and i will make a full video about the topic because it's important if you ever wondered why women love tall men it's
• 176:00 - 176:30 not just because they like someone that can grab the apples on the top shelf it's also because they know that they have a stronger chance of making tall children and deep down biologically they understand that this makes a male more appealing so her kid kid will have kids that will have kids it all boils down to this the preservation of your genes passing down your genes understand that then go back from it and it's going to lead you to the true essence of women and it
• 176:30 - 177:00 makes them so much easier to understand once you grasp that you can't detest that because if you hate it you hate evolution you hate biology many people hate biology many people do nowadays but who cares nature doesn't care if you hate it it's still going to do its thing understand its process and you're going to be able to actually work with it this means that women are the guardians of evolution they have their standards they have the things that they want and
• 177:00 - 177:30 it's not up for negotiation and it never should be because we want that we want them to be as hard as possible all of the [ __ ] we see nowadays is a perversion of that drive hypogamy all of that stuff it's women who pursue men but they don't have a reason it's not to make children and that is what is making them go crazy also it is also the reason why these standards are out of work nowadays but the existence of the standards and the status of guardian of evolution for women that they get to
• 177:30 - 178:00 select their mate that is there to stay that is an excellent thing because they have been biologically engineered to be good at that they only stopped being good at that recently because of a certain degree of cultural perversion that has poisoned their mind as a male it is your role to help your woman re-center and you will be able to do that if you are the figure of the good dad because you're going to provide her with
• 178:00 - 178:30 what she wants what she wants is someone to make children with so be that be that for a woman and if you can't and if you're faced with [ __ ] tests all the time and it's overwhelming and you're going to go crazy reassess ask yourself is that the woman for me i've told you before evolutionary preferences are gendered yes but there are case by case some women prefer certain things others prefer certain things so you might be with a woman that has a very strict
• 178:30 - 179:00 preference on one thing and that one thing you cannot provide for her so it's making you miserable and her miserable at that moment just leave like for me for example i am not money oriented at all i don't care about money it has no drive or grasp on me i don't the last time i checked my bank account was three or three years ago i don't even know what's in there i don't even know what i get paid because i don't care i don't look at prices money doesn't exist in my wood this means that if i were to go out with a woman that is very money oriented and
• 179:00 - 179:30 she sees that as a marker of evolution that is important in a mate i would be miserable because the girl would constantly try to force me to make more and more money against my will i would resist that she would be frustrated and it would never end that is the moment when the entire you see a mountain thing doesn't work the two are not compatible in that scenario and in that case it's fine to just pull out it's fine to just leave you are not compatible it's okay as i said not every girl you goes out to
• 179:30 - 180:00 will be compatible to give you a more extreme example and also another in a sense painting of how certain women really don't like weakness i had a boy who was seeing a girl and he he's like a 6-4 blue-eyed blond-haired viking okay he's a very good-looking dude and very masculine very tough but one day he broke down and he cried in front of the girl because of some childhood thing etc
• 180:00 - 180:30 and wouldn't you know it two days after that the girl left the girl left him she broke up with him even though he was like the perfect alpha male whatever you want seeing him cry one time was enough for her to decide okay he will not make a good dad so she left it's insane of course but it's what she was she had just a detestation for weakness it was her one thing she loved him because he was tough and stoic the second he broke that down it was over
• 180:30 - 181:00 she couldn't love him anymore that's an extreme example but it's one that you will see in your own life your woman loves you for certain things she will push your buttons to see if you're going to budge on these things as an attempt to see if it's your real personality if it's not an act because too many people too many men use games and women know that women know that men lie so they try to make sure that you're not a fraud because once she has kids with you it's over she can't live anymore or else she's going to destroy
• 181:00 - 181:30 the kid's life and her life so before that the entire process is going to take place you're going to go through it don't resent it and if you can't take it just leave because you never want to get into a point of the relationship where your woman starts to disrespect you that is the death of love and not just the death of love women are incapable of loving men they don't respect that that is also a truth i've told you about what happens with you if you beat up a guy in front of your girl
• 181:30 - 182:00 now let's talk about what happens if you get beat up in front of your girl most of the time this means that the relationship is over because you just got your ass handed to you in front of your woman you know what that means it means that in in the case of an emergency or a fight or whatever you will not be able to protect her because you can't even protect yourself so you can't protect kids so she will leave a hundred percent she will leave because you got your eyes beat it's insane and some people say well that's
• 182:00 - 182:30 cool you just told me that women are so kind and nice to an extent all women have not breaking points and certain things that they are just not willing to negotiate with other things they're more lenient right my girl she's lucky because she has a guy who looks like a greek god but even if i let myself go she doesn't really care but on other aspects i can tell you for a fact if i did certain things like for example if i showed weakness when a man threatened her she would be gone because she'd be like hey you can't protect me so i'm going to find a protector
• 182:30 - 183:00 feminism tells you that women can protect themselves there is [ __ ] for the most part women it's not just that they can't fight or don't have fights biologically they don't want to and you can see that when there's an actual street fight what do women do they scream they just scream and they say stop why because they don't they don't want that they don't want to get involved and they don't also like it the existence of a risk around them if they don't have a
• 183:00 - 183:30 protector they don't like it but a girl that has a man to protect her she's not screaming she has a guy right there to protect her so that's something to keep in mind because if you want to conserve the respect of your woman you have to understand why she respected you in the first place to keep that going and if that dies love dies right the respect is gone she will be gone and this also can lead to a form of more damaging nagging because
• 183:30 - 184:00 if men tend to be more physically violent or at least more potent in our physical violence mean that we can actually kill people with office women tend to be more psychological in their approach and you see that even with kids young boys tend to physically bully only most of the psychological bullying and the online bullying is done by women and many people don't know that but this also means that you might be faced you might be put in a situation where you're constantly psychologically bombarded by
• 184:00 - 184:30 a woman and you don't have a response to that because i don't know how you function for me when someone berates me verbally my first instinct is to break down neck and the thing is that it's not something you want to do because it's not very nice to start with and on top of that it's just not a sustainable way to approach problem solving but many men are like this and the problem is that domestic violence cases tend to focus on men being building up women because it's visual and it's also immediately evident
• 184:30 - 185:00 that there was something going on but mental and psychological damage doesn't leave marks on your body and yet it can truly destroy a man i truly believe that nagging can be a form of psychological violence if the man is not prepared so since in this situation you can't nag her back and you can't beat her up i especially don't want you to do that just leave take yourself out of the situation again [ __ ] tests are supposed to make you better if they make you worse something is not working there you
• 185:00 - 185:30 need to pull back and reassess and just to go on that because maybe some men are going to ask me yes i do think that men should never hate women the entire thing about equal left equal rights is a result of the destruction of both genders men are stronger than females we also are more balanced emotionally you should never raise your hand on your woman or any woman for that matter unless it's to protect your own life or the life of someone else that's it if you're just annoyed and you slap a
• 185:30 - 186:00 girl you're a piece of [ __ ] you have no self-control it is your role to be the rock it sucks because yes you're going to be slapped around by the waves and the waves sometimes behave as if they could take you when they can't you're the rock nothing is gonna happen to you okay just steady yourself steady your mind and don't let yourself get sucked into that type of foolishness sometimes it's going to mean also setting up strong boundaries and you're going to have to teach a woman what is
• 186:00 - 186:30 and isn't acceptable this sounds again incredibly chauvinistic and misogyny misogynistic misogynistic but i think that it's the best way to actually handle a relationship with a woman sometimes they need to be told hey this is not acceptable and sometimes they will even thank you not all the time they won't like you all the time but it's needed the strong boundaries are needed and the only way to put them in place is to be just direct if you try to be subtle about them your girl won't get it
• 186:30 - 187:00 because in a sense she wants you to affirm yourself so if you're subtle well you set up nothing so nothing has been set up so she will just continue don't be afraid of being direct of being actually confrontational in that it's a very important aspect of feminine masculine relationships and then the other side of that is that as in a sense the the payback for it you also should give her what she wants
• 187:00 - 187:30 what you get from a woman is the companionship she gets the same thing but what i described previously about you know the touch and the lust and the ability to grow with someone women get the same things from us but in different shapes and in different shades and the big thing that women want is attention women really crave attention women crave attention the same way that men crave intimacy sexual intimacy
• 187:30 - 188:00 and they can get attention from sexual intimacy by the way for them for women sex can just be a way to connect with the partner for us men have a tendency to always think of sex and everything in life in in quantifiable measures like oh we got this this much pleasure she got these many orgasms women like orgasms but not the way we do like well we engineer everything in our heads and we calculate more about the experience about the moment about the connection
• 188:00 - 188:30 and it shows when you discuss sex with men and women men focus on the quantity they say oh i have i i've had sex with 46 women or oh we had sex two times or three times in a row when you talk to women they don't speak like this they talk about moments oh we he kissed me at an instant and i felt protected and embraced like for them it's more emotional but it's more do it's more the quality that matters than the quantity and this going is also going to mean
• 188:30 - 189:00 that this attention that you give her is going to be a very important part of the relationship a part that cannot be taken away because it's cool to deprive a woman of attention is cruel i firmly believe that just like not watering a plant is the surest way to see it die you want to give your woman attention when she wants it it's a way for you to show that you love her because go back again to evolution what is attention it's a sign that you will be
• 189:00 - 189:30 there for her you can be there for her in that instant for an hour it's a commitment it's a sign that in the future she can count on you and that's incredibly important to go back to the food thing what i the reason why i want you to cook as well is because you don't understand what it means when a man gives food to a woman you don't because we have this stereotypical idea of the woman feeding the man and cooking but it makes more sense the other way around because what the providers we give resources and even if
• 189:30 - 190:00 your girl works and she paid for these groceries cook it and bring it to her it will be building a level of appreciation within her that she won't even be able to explain to you but it's deep down it's rooted in her it's a way to pay attention to her you're making sure that she's doing okay all of these small intentions that look stupid like putting your jacket around a woman what is that what is that sign you're literally sacrificing your coat to keep her warm
• 190:00 - 190:30 it's a sign will show that you will sacrifice yourself if need be women love that they absolutely love it and it's funny because women are seen as the romantic gender they're not most of what women consider romantic is linked to wealth like buying her a a ring or taking her to a fancy restaurant all of that are just markers of success you're just showing off that you have tons of resources that you can give her that's romantic to a woman and
• 190:30 - 191:00 it's funny because every romantic gesture is the same again the code thing or like putting your coat on on the poodle of rain on the floor what the [ __ ] is that well it's a it's chivalry and it's a sign that you put her first but do you truly put her first not really you're not really putting her first you're just giving her attention you never want to put her first in all things because then you fall into the trap i've already described a trap that many men perceive many men are going to
• 191:00 - 191:30 say that my view of masculinity is toxic because it presents it as only existing to serve women i do believe that but only when masculinity serves itself first right you fill your own glass first before filling everyone else's that's what being a man is you are so strong you are so resourceful that you are over abundant and you can then give to people around you okay that's when the
• 191:30 - 192:00 protection comes into play you want to be such a vibrant male that you have those resources available you don't want to be the petty guy that has just enough oh i just have one coat i won't give you my coat no you want to have plenty of coats to cover plenty of people that's the masculine that's who we are inside it's what we've been designed to do and that's why women love the type of attention so much so give that to her but don't spoil her just like with the
• 192:00 - 192:30 [ __ ] test the boundaries to be put you give the attention that you think she needs or deserves and that's it no more because you can spoil her just like you can spoil a man if you give him everything he wants or spoil a kid if you give him everything his heart desires this is how you keep the relationship stable because if you do everything i just described you're going to keep your woman engaged so she's going to move she's going to feel resistant so she's going to think it's fun women love that they think it's fun why do women
• 192:30 - 193:00 start arguments tell it's fun for them it's a way to keep some dynamics going she's bored she's starting an argument next time make sure she's not bored she's not one that you must entertain at all times but your you're you are supposed to be her man you are supposed to be with her do things with her give her attention it's very important and you will find that a woman that has that type of environment the type of male and who is safe stays
• 193:00 - 193:30 people who tell you that women are these evil witches that just go from men to men and the second they see a better man they leave that's nonsense it's actually the exact opposite of what women are what these people describe is men men are like that men are the type to ditch their wife when they're 50 to go for a 30 year old that's what men do women don't do that [ __ ] a woman will stay with you until the day you die if you actually treat her correctly and you're a proper
• 193:30 - 194:00 man to her and a good future dad she will be with you through thick and thin i've seen fames my friends that brought tears to my eyes women who stuck with men through chaos through illnesses through death always it's the reason why by the way if you look at who remarries the most men remarry after their wife dies women don't lim it's the reason why you have this image of the widow it's because it's based off
• 194:00 - 194:30 of biology and evolution they don't move on i know a woman who whose husband died 15 years ago she still is mourning him she still wears black she refuses to go out and party you know why because he was a good man and a good dad she will not move on from that she will not move on from the ghost of a man who treated her correctly anyone who says that women are heartless are just you're just purely [ __ ] you cannot access her heart so you think
• 194:30 - 195:00 that she's a monster well it's like frankenstein creature was from frankenstein's creature a monster no frankenstein was he created that monster and then he couldn't access its feelings so he thought he was a monster he wasn't you don't understand women if you think that they are like that so take care of them because if you do take care of them and you do accept what i said as truth you will also realize one thing
• 195:00 - 195:30 something that is heartbreaking something that many people don't want to face but something that is true regardless and that thing is that everything i just described with women being faithful if you treat them properly with them actually being incredibly lovely and just wonderful people if they are given the proper environment to actually thrive all of that is not true for men because if you look at the sea and if you look at the mountain again the sea is constantly in need of the mountain
• 195:30 - 196:00 it's constantly crashing onto the mountain but the mountain the mountain doesn't necessarily mean just need to see only that's in particular men have the ability to stand alone and it's a good thing but it's also a bad thing because it means that if you are in this game for a committed relationship with a woman it's going to be a lot of work on you and not because it's going to be anything to do with you handling her that's the easy part what i just described handling yourself is going to be really tough and i have a lot of
• 196:00 - 196:30 experience with that so i'm going to be able to share it with you but since men aren't like women we've already established that and women are this stable faithful creature then that means that you're not you're by defaulted by nature unfaithful so how are you going to be able to stay how are you going to stick around with the woman how are you going to make it work how are you going to make sure you don't become like one of these people who have kids and then bounce and leave because there's many of these people and you could say they're not men you're
• 196:30 - 197:00 right in the cultural terms are not fulfilling the world as a man but there are males that are doing exactly what males have been designed to do for thousands and thousands and thousands of years so how do we do better how do we stay well it's our next part where i'm going to be discussing how not to succumb to lust so the challenge of the rock trying to remain a rock i discussed how to actually get to the point where you'll be able to actually find a girlfriend and how to find one and then how to actually
• 197:00 - 197:30 interact with her as a foreign being as an entity that you don't understand and how to come to love her for who she is and use that energy to become better but what if you don't even want to be better what if all of that energy goes to waste because you eventually either go away or you're unfaithful all of that leads to the death of the relationship and if you've been watching the videos for so long it's because you want a good relationship so you're going to want to hear this
• 197:30 - 198:00 because the message i'm going to share right now is one that you don't really hear a lot and usually you even hear the exact opposite meaning that many times when people discuss masculine energy and especially the masculine sex drive and or sexuality they approach it from a purely biological perspective and it's a perspective that eventually leads to you just giving up and letting your instincts take over
• 198:00 - 198:30 a lot of the mainstream media is putting our efforts into doing that into making sure that men reboot that we just completely get rid of all of the the social work we put in to canonize masculine energy and just let it go rampant which is a little bit strange in a sense because at the same time they seem to hate toxic masculinity so on one hand they have no problems with toxic expressions of masculinity that destroy men but they
• 198:30 - 199:00 have an issue with some of these expressions that apparently are potentially hurting women well to me this screen shows that there is an agenda at play and that the focus is not to make men happy it's not to keep men healthy it's again to prioritize what they believe to be female happiness which in reality is their own demise and destruction so when it comes to promiscuity and actually being able to stay faithful to
• 199:00 - 199:30 a partner you need to understand that just the fact that you have accepted that this is the rightful path and that says what you need to be doing is good because many men don't many men actually would tell you that the goal and the purpose of life as a male is to [ __ ] as many chicks as possible and this is seen all throughout the media in reality like look at how many role models are seen as alpha males
• 199:30 - 200:00 when their life is just an endless succession of escort girl that they [ __ ] it's all they do it's get money get [ __ ] i just summed up a large portion of role models for young men and this is the reason why nationality is in trouble and why people don't have good relationships anymore and why the nuclear family is dying is because this is not the proper way to lead your life as a man even though biologically it is because if you were to just look at men from an evolutionary step
• 200:00 - 200:30 standpoint it is the best thing to do for a male to just go from one partner to the other and have as many offspring as possible it truly is because it's in reality what the species is supposed to be right go forth and multiply it's what we're born to do but that would only be true if we're animals and since we've ascended the rank of animals and were something much more supreme it's not true anymore meaning that it's
• 200:30 - 201:00 not just enough to have a kid you have to take care of the kid you have to raise the kid it's funny because um i know a guy that died of one of my friends who did what i just described he went all around the world and he had sex with as many women as possible and he never took care of the kids and he has like 22 sons i think something like this that guy is not a good dad and he's not a good man he's a good male he spread his seed but he didn't care of take care of the kids so he didn't fulfill that
• 201:00 - 201:30 rule it is going to be up to you to decide whether or not that's what you want to do because as i said it's very easy to be a promiscuous male it's not hard i mean if you're a little bit good looking and you put into work and you know how to talk to women everything i taught you today you could use for evil you could go out and just manipulate women women are very easy to manipulate and i say that again from a knowledge standpoint because i manipulated a lot of women and for me it
• 201:30 - 202:00 was never pernicious i never really tugged on our strains on purpose but i still in a sense did and the problem is that i did a lot of damage see the problem from this treaty especially when it's wielded by men is that it damages the men and the women it's the reason why i said previously that i don't like hearing guys who complain about feminism because we created feminism to a great extent and
• 202:00 - 202:30 you still see that to this day where for me for example i know for a fact because i've seen it through my own twice that i've created feminists i've created bitter women that hate men and will never actually have kids you know why me me because i lied to them because i went out with them and i made them think that oh maybe one day i'll be your man and will have a family and it never happened i just used them for sex what do you think it does to a woman it makes them go insane a lot of feminists
• 202:30 - 203:00 are created by shitty males so i don't want to hear guys complain maybe you never did that but if you have dreams or aspirations of [ __ ] a lot of women you will become that at some point you will do that so the degeneration of masculinity leads to degeneration of femininity the two are linked together and if you choose to resist if you choose the path of monogamy or failfulness well you are going to resist your biological drive of course which
• 203:00 - 203:30 means that you're going to be a man and not just a male you're going to be able to transcend that you're going to be able to actually embody the marriage of the biological and the cultural and for that i salute you because it's hard it's hard it's also the reason why i embraced it for me because having sex and character encounters with women is not hard it truly is not hard and i speak as someone who i don't think is
• 203:30 - 204:00 particularly good looking i know i'm not ugly by all means but i'm not like a babe or anything and yet i've had an incredibly easy time getting women and it's getting easier and easier meaning that i'm now committed so nothing happens but if you want an anecdote that blew my mind recently i was on the beach just minding my own business and i was approached by two girls who offered me a three zone now i don't know if they were going to drag me into the bathroom and stab me and then stole my heart but they looked like they just were
• 204:00 - 204:30 looking for a guy to [ __ ] and they picked me it shouldn't be that easy that's abnormal but it's because it's that easy that i always get the sense that there's something wrong with it there is an issue with this it is something that should take work it used to be that a woman would make you work for it nowadays they give it up it's because the worst women that they used to be their value as women is degrading so they're just willing to give up what enrolled is very valuable but society
• 204:30 - 205:00 has told them it's not society has told them that sex is just sex and it's empowering to [ __ ] around the men so they do it but we are the first victims in this because it started with us this idea again that men ancient men used to [ __ ] like 26 women that's not true men back in the days were also committed you see that in the ancient greeks look at the way the stories wrote about their wives most people would say they are sims
• 205:00 - 205:30 because they say stuff oh she's the son of my days and i would die for her. that's being a man they got they understood it back then this entire wave of promiscuity was brought forth by the the sexual liberation of women because men are always willing to [ __ ] we're always willing to [ __ ] the one thing that was holding us in place was women because women were the ones saying no they were the guardians of sex and therefore the guardians of evolution morals even morals but because they gave up now we have access to that and it's
• 205:30 - 206:00 killing us so because women are not going to do the job and because i can tell you that even if you think you're going to be girlfriendless forever and a kissless virgin if you keep lifting you're being employed and you stay clean you're going to be very attractive one day and when that day comes you might just snap and be like me and just rejoice in the pleasures of hedonism to realize too late that it's not good so make the right choice now because it's
• 206:00 - 206:30 so hard it's the reason why it shows that it's good a good thing to do trying to stay as faithful as possible and in the sense of never actually strain from the path is what you need to impose as a standard to your own self because your biological demon will not let you do that so you need to fight it twice as hard if you want to actually build something with a woman and i say that as someone who fights that demon every single day that demon is very strong in me but i will kick its [ __ ] ass because i'm not going to let it ruin my
• 206:30 - 207:00 life your sex drive and your libido and promiscuity can ruin your life if you let it you are the only thing standing between you and your own destruction you cannot you cannot let me stress that you cannot expect women to do it just like i couldn't expect those two college chicks on the beach to leave when they saw i was married they still came to me they didn't give a [ __ ] why because they wanted what they wanted and the only thing that could save me was myself was me saying no and leaving actually i didn't even say no i just autistically
• 207:00 - 207:30 walked away and i hid behind like a dumpster that's a different story but um it's up to you okay all of these social constructs that are tying men and that that look like chains do not chains they are what can i use do not change the ropes they are the ropes that prevent you from actually falling you think there are chains because you're not looking at them the right way and also because also maybe someone imposed those chains on you but i have found that chains of
• 207:30 - 208:00 self-inflicted disciplines are much easier to bear you need to put these chains on yourself if you want to be able to resist lust and resist promiscuity because casual sex truly is meaningless i've said it a million times in the video i i went through it like all of the things that you guys dream about and all of the your wet dreams about oh i'll have sex with a woman at 4pm and at 5pm i'll have sex with another woman yeah i did that
• 208:00 - 208:30 it's just it sucks yeah i had sex with two women back to back great what did it bring to my life nothing nothing all of the threesomes in the woods are not going to bring anything to your life it's it's not helping you build something in the long run it's some instantaneous pleasure you feed your biological ego by saying oh i have all of these women you don't make kids with them you don't build something with them so what's the point of you having them on top of that you hurt them i wish i could go back in time and not
• 208:30 - 209:00 do the things i've done i wish i could apologize to the women that i [ __ ] over but some of them i can't even because their life is is is just dead it's over that's also the reason why men and women are not equal what we can do to women they can't do to us if you're a solid strong male a woman cannot destroy you the way we can destroy a woman you can i know women who had a bad encounter as i said in the start of the video with a man like 25 years ago they're still broken they will never recover
• 209:00 - 209:30 women are fragile it's our responsibility to not abuse them it's so easy to get and that's the reason why also the the men going their own way who say oh i was married and my wife took everything and she broke me what do you want me to say you're weak you were broken by a being that doesn't have the ability to break you you made yourself available to be broken that's why she got your ass that's why it's the reason why people who complain that the relationships are in balance they're in balance right now i'm not
• 209:30 - 210:00 going to say anything but biologically they're not like biologically we are so advantage on women it's not even funny so we have to have some of the culture not the poisoned portion of the culture but the ones that we used to have in the past that tied us together with women with the woman that we want to build a life with it's very important because that drive of perversion is not bad in itself wanting to have sex is not bad it's what you make with it that's bad
• 210:00 - 210:30 it's when you have sex with random women that it's bad and it's an equation and a comparison i hear a lot where people say well what is the difference between me having sex 50 times with the same person or with 50 different people it's still having sex 50 times well the difference is that on one hand you build something and on the other hand you're just it's the equivalent of someone making a castle with cards with 50 cards and someone just putting one card in one card and one card and one card you're not building [ __ ] there's no emotion there's no relationship being
• 210:30 - 211:00 built you want to build something right or do you just want to have sex for pleasure's sake because if that's the case you're going to be disappointed sex is overrated it really is not that amazing experience that you're going to think it is so you're going to go into it looking for something that won't be there you want to be building you want that connection on top of that if you're really in it for pleasure the more you have sex with one person the better it is because you start knowing the person and they know you
• 211:00 - 211:30 they know everything you like so you're the type of guy who say oh i just want to come harder for some reason well stick with one girl teach her what you like you're going to see that she's going to get you to hide that no other girl can get you because casual sex is often very disappointing in the instant and then afterwards and again for the virgins on the channel just so i can pop your bubble when you don't do many mistakes the feeling of emptiness you feel in your chest when you wake up from your horny dream
• 211:30 - 212:00 next to a woman you don't give a [ __ ] about impossible to describe it's a stress it's distressed deep within well most of the time the first thing i want to do is just stand up and leave because it felt so terrible don't let yourself do that the love and the care that you think the tenderness the warmth that you have when you wait when you when you finish and you're near the person you just had sex with and you
• 212:00 - 212:30 love them do you know how good it is it's better than sex like the cuddles and the affectionate intimacy afterwards knowing that you can trust that person with everything and you just gave yourself to them and you were one for an instant it's insane how beautiful it is but the problem is that we are vowel creatures as men and many men will never get to that there's a reason why i told you that we need to learn from women when it comes to emotional connections and sex they got it the ones that are still
• 212:30 - 213:00 sane in the head got it strive for that that is what will make you happy and uh have already said that the men going the wrong their own way are wrong and they are wrong also because their name is stupid you ever thought about that men going their own way you're going your own way towards what because all of these guys say oh just focus on making money don't care about girls what is the point of making money to accumulate resources to do what to get a house to get a car no to attract a
• 213:00 - 213:30 woman these guys are so lost it's it saddens me in reality where they still are chasing after the rabbit but they don't know why they forgot why because they stopped looking at evolutionary standpoints they are still in a sense chasing women they've never went their own way men who go their own way attract women they end up with very good relationships with women and they build things men going their own way are chasing the ghosts of women but at the same time hating them and telling themselves that it's not
• 213:30 - 214:00 worth it and you see that you just take one look at them look at pickup artists they're losers they're all losers look at men going their own way it's the same thing look at these dudes do you want to be like them 45 year olds like grey skin no dreams and like an expensive car is that what you want your life to be i'm going my own way this also shows that these men think that you cannot go your own way when you're married but marriage opens paths
• 214:00 - 214:30 relationships with women opens paths because you have access to a an encyclopedia that you never opened before of a different gender it seems and women drive men i've said it in the past if you have a good woman and she checks you and you know how to utilize that she will drive you she will actively make you better year after year there is a certain level of progression that is not possible without a woman i said it men and masculinity reach reaches a
• 214:30 - 215:00 threshold at some point at some point you need women to unlock the next level you need femininity you need your masculine energy to clash against their feminine energy to go above to go beyond of course you need to build enough masculine energy to be able to do that first so masculinity is not just about femininity but a large portion of it is it's like the end game you play video game after level 70 you have the end game that's the most interesting part if
• 215:00 - 215:30 you refuse to actually interact with women because you think that they're demons you're going to be like these guys stuck that's what describes them stuck they're not going their own way it's men going nowhere they should remain themselves that mg and men going nowhere because it's truly what they are so to quickly go back on the misconceptions that these people are spread and the misconceptions that women themselves believe in and something that you will have noticed as well women don't do sex the way we do sex
• 215:30 - 216:00 meaning that the concept of friends with benefits and even sexual liberation is a concept created by males it's not a feminist ideal at all because women don't function like this these are purely masculine ideas driven by the biological the idea of being able to have sex all the time thankfully women resist that to an extent but if they didn't the situation would be even worse even though you would think that it would be the opposite right wouldn't it be grand if women wanted to have sex as much as we do no
• 216:00 - 216:30 it would destroy the species it would actually destroy the species it's been tested by the way they did that with mice if you want to check it out the uh the mice utopia experiment where when the female sex drive when went into overdrive it created death well the society just collapsed because masculinity had to actually make up for it and the males started to refuse to mate all the females started to refuse to make it created mayhem and we start to see that
• 216:30 - 217:00 nowadays because women are being told that it's cool to have sex with random people it's been glorified and at the same time stable relationships and especially pregnancy has been demonized in women and therefore since they are as i said much more of a cultural creature than we are that are much more affected by cultural shifts and cultural manipulations but the thing is that in their case their promiscuity female promiscuity is
• 217:00 - 217:30 being engineered by the cultural for us it's not the case you don't need to culturally engineer men into [ __ ] random women we do that by ourselves very well for us it's biological we are being driven by the biological which is why for women it is important that they summon the biological back that they go back to their roots of what it means to be a woman and for men it's important that we summon the standards of masculinity that were lost the cultural that is going to shackle the biological
• 217:30 - 218:00 to keep us going both genders i've said that in the nofap video is dealing with its own challenges us is that it's to tame that biological beast and everyone that is trying to just say oh no let it lose just be free man that's what freedom is that's not freedom is found in the restriction if you just let yourself follow your urges how are you free exactly you're like an animal animals aren't free because they don't have free will we do so exercise that
• 218:00 - 218:30 make the choice it's the it's the hardest choice but it's the best choice you can make because the pursuit of pleasure is of course never going to lead to anything positive in life that is a role that you can apply across the board pleasure is good right biologically we feel pleasure in certain activities that are going to be especially important for the perpetration of the species but too much of that is never good ever so you need balance you need restriction and that can only come from the cultural and your
• 218:30 - 219:00 own understanding of it because promiscuity truly destroys the link between men and women which is fascinating because you might think well sex is a connection we have more sex with one another and with more frequency so wouldn't it bring us closer well no look at the state of dating and relationships nowadays it's ravaged it's in ruins many people will tell you that the dating market is all out of work but if you ask a woman and a man they will both tell you that it's the opposite gender's fault no one wants
• 219:00 - 219:30 to look at their own shoes no no one wants to sweep in front of their own door you need to start sweeping and if women start sweeping too great but we can't influence that all of the meninists and the men activists that say oh it's feminists that did this even if they did it doesn't matter because the only thing you do by attacking them is you're making them attack you in return fix yourself and then hope that they do it too i can tell you that they will women are not stupid
• 219:30 - 220:00 there is a resurgence of women who are starting to understand that they've been duped that the entire movement of feminism was an entire force and that the only thing that is left for them right now is misery some women are seeing that they are waking up are you going to be there when they wake up why are you going to be one of these men that is too far gone because again the link between men and women is one of into gender but it's also one within you
• 220:00 - 220:30 because you have that within you as well the connection between those two energies before you can experiment that experience that in real life it has to start somewhere within you and as i said promiscuity damages that the more promiscuous you are the more you separate yourself from the ability to have a stable relationship it's especially true with women every guy a girl [ __ ] outside of a community relationship is like a knife in her back it's another arrow added to a wound that is going to make it harder
• 220:30 - 221:00 and harder to actually hold a man down and have kids one day it's it's a baggage it's again it's the it's the body count it's not a good thing but it's also not a good thing for men and for many men it's mind-blowing to hear that because for a lot of dudes their teenage years and their early twenties it's just a game of [ __ ] as many women as possible but what is it doing for you again i ask beyond just bragging rights with other idiots that are wasting their lives as
• 221:00 - 221:30 well or instantaneous pleasure what is it doing for you the answer is nothing it's not see i don't even have to use puritan or religious moral more standards to convince you that promiscuity is bad i don't it's not needed i can just use logic i can show you mathematically that it's not leading to anything because it is just not that's what sex with no purpose to build something does it just end when it starts that's it
• 221:30 - 222:00 so just don't do that and so because my goal my job and enrolled in the job of every single person on earth should be to restore the link and the love between men and women is the reason why i made this video and is the reason why i am warning you against promiscuity because promiscuity devises it does it devises yourself within yourself you lose the ability to actually connect with women because you start looking at them as just
• 222:00 - 222:30 sexual objects to empty your balls and it's damaging your ability in the future to love one and you see that with a lot of guys who call women [ __ ] and [ __ ] and whatever those names have a meaning they only regard themselves as their biological self which is something i want you against already they don't understand the poisy and the beautiful literature that exists within a woman's heart and at the same time it damages them because how exactly are you supposed to get in a committed relationship based on respect and
• 222:30 - 223:00 communication with someone that you dislike or that you think is like some lowly beast that only exists to suck your dick it's not possible it's entirely impossible it's the reason why our understanding of the opposing gender opposite gender needs to be refined we need to push away all that meanness all the vowel appellations that women are being filled with and regard them through light through what they truly shine for this
• 223:00 - 223:30 is what matters so reject division reflect reject anyone who is trying to tell you that women are the enemy it's not true the enemy is the person who's trying to separate men and women that is the enemy that is the enemy of humanity it has many names but i'm not going to recite any of them because i'm going to get into trouble so some water and then we're going to finish off i said that the link between men and women is impossibly important because it leads to
• 223:30 - 224:00 children children which by the way are the goal of this entire thing you get a girlfriend to eventually get kids many people recite of it but it's the reason why also meaningless sex is stupid is because you're doing something that is supposed to produce offspring that produces nothing it doesn't even produce love or anything at least you think but the problem is that when you actually have sex with someone that's especially true with women you get attached a portion of you gets attached because
• 224:00 - 224:30 sex is sacred it's not just in and out in and out it's a connection of souls it even if you don't realize it or you don't enjoy it as is it's a connection of souls and it breaks women i've seen that myself where i had sex with women and i felt nothing for them and i could tell that they were falling for me because it's like collective dissonance the female instinct is like okay we're having sex with that guy all the time and sex is the best is one of the most important thing we can give to someone so we trust him right we we
• 224:30 - 225:00 must even love him right and so slowly they fell for me and then i let them down and they went insane because i'm a [ __ ] [ __ ] don't be that just don't be that don't do that as much as possible don't and strive towards the the actual salvation of the nuclear family because it's essential and at the art of masculine feminine there is that children that's what unites us it's life children our life lose sight of that you lose sight of everything you can just you can just
• 225:00 - 225:30 sign off because your life is not going to be good and i'm not saying that the only goal of life is children or even dating but it's a big portion of it just like a big portion of masculinity is devoted to the feminine and funny again a counter argument for people will say that it's not true wouldn't you say that a big portion of the feminine is actually devoted to the masculine that a lot of it is there to serve us so if they can serve us why can't we protect them it's it's a give-and-take relationship
• 225:30 - 226:00 it's what makes it work and it then gives birth to kids it gives birth to life and the continuation of that energy energy cannot die right now it's just that masculinity and femininity are avoiding one another so we're not actually uniting our efforts one day we show again because here is where men can find happiness i'm only 28 so maybe you can tell me i don't know what i'm talking about but i think i i think i got it down i think i know what happiness is happiness is a woman
• 226:00 - 226:30 and i know that woman because she i live with her and she makes me happy every day and i make her happy every day do you understand what that means it's insane most people don't have that right most people don't have that and i hope that hearing my words create a craving in you i hope that this is stirring something up and you think oh i want that too because i know that you do everyone does everyone does it's just that we we just cover that we and we shove all parts and parts of dirt on top of it with sex and i want this and that but at
• 226:30 - 227:00 the heart of it we all want one thing a companion we can trust we can love that loves us back to build something with that's that's the truth and that to me is what i'm going to do with the rest of my life and i hope that's what you do as well starting from scratch again it took me years and years to even get connected to a girl enough to even have a shot at being the potential boyfriend so don't panic you have plenty of time you're lucky also in that as a man you can start a family in your
• 227:00 - 227:30 40s 50s well not limited like women are it's also the reason why it's so tragic that so many women are wasting their 20s and 30s because when they wake up one day and they realize that this is what their life should be about it'll be too late you you my friend are lucky that you don't have that epidural class above your head so rejoice you can make a change and we're going to return quickly on the topic of marriage because i hinted at that
• 227:30 - 228:00 when i told you that marriage was really a feminine institution and it's true and the the red pill would also tell you that they will tell you that getting marriage is married as a scam it's skewed towards women it only protects women that is true you know why because the biological is so skewed towards men that we didn't have a choice we had to have extremely rigid rules in place to make sure that men would actually stand by their kids it was
• 228:00 - 228:30 needed you can't point it out and say it's unfair it's unfair now because women are not actually fulfilling their part that's the reason why it's unfair women get to have their cake and eat it they need they get to be shitty women and on top of that they get to strong-arm us into alimony payments and all of that nonsense but it's only because the modern age has made it so keep in mind that even in the 13th and 1400s there were lowest put in place to make sure that men wouldn't leave their women because it's unfair you make a
• 228:30 - 229:00 woman pregnant you give her kids and then you bounce so you just fulfill the biological and then she's she's just supposed to take care of that that's what destroys societies by the way because the kids that are created from these unions are unbalanced they are unable to harness their masculine or feminine energy and because of that they are certainly completely unable to interact with the other gender so there are broken adults and they can't have kids themselves it's the same thing in the mouse utopia experiment again i encourage you to
• 229:00 - 229:30 check it out it's insane how similar it is you want to destroy your society you mess with masculinity and femininity it is the easiest way because you mess with the two energies that create life so once that is done it's done so yes marriage is a cultural alliance that is designed after women's biology it is it ties a man down to one woman so that he takes care of the kids if we don't have marriage you could just go from woman to woman and have a
• 229:30 - 230:00 gazillion children but would that build societies can we build a good civil society and advance the species like that no ants do that animals do that are they going anywhere you never ask yourself that how come we are the species that makes the least amount of children almost there are some that make even less than us and yet for the most advanced did you ever think about the fact that maybe it was a part of evolution and
• 230:00 - 230:30 that this reduction of offspring and the fearfulness of the male had a role to play with it i think that it does i think that it was an important part so we cannot turn our back on that and we cannot be mad or afraid many men are afraid of getting married because they think that they're heading into the trap it's only a trap if you don't actually pay attention or select the mate you're going to get married with if the person is good they're not going to wake up one day and be a monster that's not true
• 230:30 - 231:00 they might become a monster if you let them become a monster by your own inability to interact and if you check out that is possible but in this case it would mean that it's your fault always claim responsibility for your own actions you are a man after all and that's what we do this fear of commitment is a sign that masculinity is regressing commitment responsibility and duties are masculine words it is something that men should strive for we should want to have more
• 231:00 - 231:30 and more of that we shouldn't want to shrug them off because it's what makes us important it's our duty on this earth we were gifted with broader shoulders than women because we can carry more load that is the truth it's both in terms of nature in terms of philosophy so embrace that marriage is the bones that yes can be extremely strenuous but if you enter it in your own good faith and you understand what it's supposed to be doing you're going to have a good time
• 231:30 - 232:00 in again i'm married i'm having a very good time understand that all of these bitter men that tell you that marriage is awful [ __ ] up at some point but they'll never admit that to you they'll say oh it's i was perfect and the woman was a horrible how likely is it how likely is it that all of these boomers all of these stupid man going their own way actually were just unlucky and one day the girl woke up and [ __ ] the postman zero percent women don't function like this
• 232:00 - 232:30 so the best thing to understand from that is that you shouldn't be afraid of commitment commitment is an important part of creating relationships with women because it's a marker of their own survival you cannot expect a woman to not want you to commit it's their only safeguard if they don't have that they're [ __ ] at least give them that at least give them the privilege and the benefit of that
• 232:30 - 233:00 but i understand your doubts and i also understand why people utilize your doubts because there are many many individuals that are making bank and making a lot of money and getting views and getting traction off of these fears well they see the state of femininity and masculinity but instead of fixing it or telling you what it is instead they accentuate the damage and then they say oh look it's not going right you should be very afraid listen to me i'm going to tell you what it's all about that's the red pill 101 the
• 233:00 - 233:30 red pill is supposed to be a pearl you swallow to see the truth what most people feed you is a black pill painted as a red pill well they say oh the situation is it's over right you you haven't heard that sentence it's over it's always in relation to women these people are obsessed with women and at the same time they want to convince themselves that it's doomed that the situation cannot be better not true i think i've shown to you that it's incorrect but our mindset is very damaging because it taps into your fear
• 233:30 - 234:00 the easier way to manipulate people is through fear we're seeing that nowadays so resist there is no place in your heart for fear be stable be a rock that is what is needed of you if you want to get out of that slump because i know you can fill the swamp but are you going to be willing to actually expect yourself from it that's a different question it's up to you i can't do it for you and that if you actually are willing and
• 234:00 - 234:30 you grab the sword and you take up the fight will mean that you are going to be combating feminism masculine agents of whatever protection of my ass i don't know what names they give themselves all of the people who stand between you and the feminine all of the people who are going to tell you that you don't need to have a wife just like the feminists tell the women that oh you don't need a man you don't need no man [ __ ] we need each other desperately because whatever we can build a value in this life we do it together
• 234:30 - 235:00 hello i'll have a company and i'll make a lot of money great super that's cool if that's what you want to do but most people would be better off actually just doing the easy thing and the easy thing is the hard thing nowadays which is starting a family that's that's the best way to be productive it's to create people who are going to be productive it's out of topic but you get where i'm coming from really be careful with that type of messages the type that try to look at the biological drive and
• 235:00 - 235:30 they try to manipulate it to fit their needs because they they're selfish you see that a lot of people who don't want kids they'll rarely admit that it's a selfish impulse but it is it's incredibly selfish and it's again utilized because people are selfish and if you can give moral reasons for people to be they will embrace them because it makes them feel better the shame portion of it is important because it reminds people what is right and what is wrong so as a man understand that marriage isn't death
• 235:30 - 236:00 marriage is just another iteration of the commitment you don't need to actually give institutions power and get married in front of the mayor but you need in your heart to have that discussion of yourself and commit i know that for me i had it before getting married where i was in bed and i thought to myself okay i'm going to be with that woman for the rest of my life and i'm only going to have sex with that one woman am i okay with that if i cannot say yes i shouldn't get married i should
• 236:00 - 236:30 just not get married and i thought and the answer was an evidence it was yes it wasn't an easy answer but it was evident and to me it's what to this day i carry in my heart that makes me very happy is that i made that choice i'm proud of myself for making that choice because the easy way out would have been to just keep having sex with random women that was very easy for me instead i chose commitment i chose to select one woman and say okay it's you
• 236:30 - 237:00 out of the billions of women i selected you does it mean that she's the one or the soul mate or the twin flame no but i don't want her to be that i want to be the one that decides that she's that nature won't decide that for me i will culturally decide that i will make her that because you make your soul mate they're not born you create them with your own efforts and the effort coming from the mail is commitment so commit commitment is life commitment is the
• 237:00 - 237:30 masculine it's what we're always meant to be doing and if you want to elevate yourself from the simple rake rank of male into man and then be able to have a family one day with children and great children and build an empire a biological empire you know the way now you know the way and i'm going to end with that um this was a long video it's longer than no fab video i'm not going to make a gazelle videos about women because as i said many channels do that and it's just a trap
• 237:30 - 238:00 because they understand that you guys are really interested in that type of topic because you sense that there is a problem with women and men nowadays so i put everything in one video i will make more videos about femininity about women etc on different topics that i want to discuss more if there's a certain topic that you heard on the video that you want to hear more about you let me know but for today we are going to end on that note thank you for watching