Why Trans Women Are Being Banned From Everywhere

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Summary

In a recent video, Amir Odom discusses the contentious issue of trans women being barred from spaces traditionally reserved for biological women. Odom highlights the rising trend of biological women feeling uncomfortable and excluded in spaces such as gyms, sports, and spas, as trans women enter these environments. He delves into policy changes and societal perceptions, questioning the balance between inclusivity and maintaining exclusive spaces for biological women. The video touches on political figures like Donald Trump and Gavin Newsome, who have voiced opinions on the matter, and provides a commentary on the broader implications of this debate in modern society.

Highlights

Donald Trump signed an executive order to keep men out of women's sports. 🏀
Biological women are feeling uncomfortable in spaces shared with trans women. 😬
There is a backlash against trans women taking part in women's sports and gyms. 🚫
Gavin Newsome agrees it's unfair for trans athletes to compete in women's sports. 🤔
A gym in London changes its policy to exclude trans women after initial inclusivity. 🏋️
The video calls for respectful discussion and understanding in the ongoing debate. 🗣️

Key Takeaways

Trans women entering traditional women's spaces creates discomfort and controversy, leading to them being banned in some areas. 🤷‍♀️
Political figures are weighing in, with both support and opposition to trans inclusion in these spaces. 🗳️
The conversation is complex, involving issues of gender identity, safety, and social acceptance. 🌍
The video encourages open, respectful dialogue while acknowledging different perspectives. 🌈
The debate reflects broader societal shifts regarding gender and identity politics. 🔄

Overview

Amir Odom's video sheds light on the increasing bans of trans women from traditional women's spaces due to the discomfort and controversy it causes. This issue stretches across various domains, including sports, gyms, and other exclusive spaces for biological women. Odom critiques the handling of gender politics by society and highlights the quandaries faced by institutions in balancing inclusivity with exclusivity.

The video navigates through current events and policies affecting trans inclusion, such as Donald Trump's executive order on sports and Gavin Newsome's stance on fairness in athletic competition. Odom also explores how these policies shape public perception and affect individuals' daily lives, particularly in environments that have been traditionally gender-specific.

Emphasizing the need for dialogue, Odom encourages viewers to engage in conversations about gender identity and its implications with empathy and understanding. He argues for clear distinctions between inclusivity and exclusivity while acknowledging that societal norms are evolving. Ultimately, the video appeals for mutual respect and constructive conversation amid the complexities of identity politics.

Chapters

00:00 - 00:30: Introduction and Overview In this chapter titled 'Introduction and Overview', the focus is on the growing tensions between biological women and trans women, particularly in shared spaces and activities such as sports, gyms, spas, and the army. The chapter sets the stage for exploring the increasing instances where trans women are being restricted from these spaces, highlighting the discomfort and challenges faced by biological women. This serves as an introduction to the broader discussion that will unfold in the video.
00:30 - 01:00: Trump's Executive Order and Gender Definitions In this chapter, the focus is on Donald Trump's executive order aimed at preventing men from participating in women's sports. The discussion highlights the irony that Trump, often labeled as misogynistic by critics, is actually taking steps that are described as protecting biological women. The narrative criticizes the left for allegedly erasing the distinction of biological women by promoting an inclusive definition of 'women' that includes men, women, and non-binary people.
01:00 - 02:30: Trans Women in Female Spaces The chapter discusses the evolving definition of what it means to be a 'woman' and the ongoing debate about transgender women in female-designated spaces. It highlights the irony of how, by 2025, advocating for biological women’s exclusive spaces has become associated with far-right or right-wing views. The chapter also recounts a specific incident involving a transgender woman who, due to her physical stature and intact male genitalia, stirred controversy in women’s spaces. The reference to a friend named Riley suggests personal connections or testimony related to these events.
02:30 - 05:00: Arguments for Biological Women's Only Spaces The chapter discusses the importance of having biological women-only spaces, using the example of Leah Thomas, a transgender woman who was a teammate of the speaker. The speaker expresses discomfort with Leah's presence in women-only spaces, like locker rooms, describing it as inappropriate. The chapter questions why the LGBTQ community often defends such scenarios and highlights the role of gay men in pointing out such issues. The underlying argument is that biological women-only spaces should be respected and maintained for the comfort and safety of biological women.
05:00 - 08:00: Public Opinion and Political Perspectives The chapter titled 'Public Opinion and Political Perspectives' delves into personal expressions and societal norms regarding gender differences. The narrator, a gay man, reflects on his personal disinterest in women due to biological differences. However, he clarifies his respect and love for women despite these differences. The discussion extends to the inappropriateness of certain behaviors in gender-specific spaces, highlighting an incident where a 'Thomas' is criticized for inappropriate behavior in a women's locker room, illustrating issues of respect and privacy.
08:00 - 11:00: Media Representation and Ground News Promotion The chapter titled 'Media Representation and Ground News Promotion' explores the emotional turmoil and sense of betrayal experienced by women due to privacy violations. The speaker expresses feelings of violation, humiliation, awkwardness, embarrassment, and discomfort. They recount a sense of betrayal by their university, the NCAA, and other entities they believed were supposed to have their best interests in mind. These organizations disregarded women's rights to privacy, leading to deeply unsettling consequences for the women involved. As a result, some women avoided entering locker rooms, indicative of the broader impact of these actions.
11:00 - 14:00: The Gym Debate and Safety Concerns The chapter titled 'The Gym Debate and Safety Concerns' discusses the personal experiences and challenges faced by women in locker rooms. It highlights the discomfort and safety concerns among female gym-goers regarding the presence of a trans woman in the women's locker room. The chapter underscores an example where some women, including the speaker's teammates, felt the need to change in a janitor's closet due to discomfort, thus pointing out the paradox of inclusivity leading to exclusion. The narrative emphasizes the complexity and controversy surrounding the definition and space of 'woman' in the context of shared public facilities.
14:00 - 18:30: Discussion on Trans Inclusion in Gyms The chapter addresses the controversy surrounding trans inclusion in gym facilities, particularly women's locker rooms. The discussion highlights the perceived erasure of the term 'woman' and the exploitation felt by some women due to the presence of transgender women in these spaces. It criticizes the concept of inclusivity as being exclusive to natal women, arguing that women's safe spaces are being compromised. The image of Riley Gaines and Leah Thomas exemplifies the tension and illustrates the broader debate over gender identity in sports and shared spaces.
18:30 - 21:30: Military and Trans Service Members The chapter discusses the ongoing controversy and societal discussion regarding transgender athletes competing in sports categories that align with their gender identity. The speaker expresses frustration that this topic continues to be contentious as of 2025, highlighting that criticism of transgender athletes is often misinterpreted as transphobia or hate. Instead, the speaker emphasizes that it is possible to critique or question this issue without holding any animosity towards transgender individuals. The core argument is that healthy discussion and calling out perceived issues can occur without it being hateful.
21:30 - 30:30: Perspective on Trans Rights and Common Sense This chapter discusses the discomfort that some women feel when around biological men, regardless of whether they are transgender women or not. It highlights a societal issue where people may feel unable to express their discomfort for fear of being labeled as bigoted or hateful and facing social consequences such as cancellation or exclusion from groups like sororities.
30:30 - 37:00: Conclusion and Personal Message In the conclusion of the chapter, the speaker emphasizes the importance of standing up for one's beliefs and being vocal about them while remaining respectful. They argue that advocating for spaces and sports designated for biological women is not hateful, bigoted, or transphobic. The speaker expresses frustration and bittersweet satisfaction that even prominent Democrats, such as California Governor Gavin Newsom, agree with this viewpoint.

Why Trans Women Are Being Banned From Everywhere Transcription

00:00 - 00:30 biological women it's embarrassing it's uncomfortable well what about women who have penises and men who have vaginas trans women are occupying biological women's spaces and these women have had enough from sports to the gyms to the spa to the army trans people are being barred left and right and this is only on the rise it's clear that there's a lot going on between trans women and biological women and that's exactly what we're going to get into in today's video if you like this kind of content be sure to subscribe the sports
00:30 - 01:00 Okay so what you're seeing here is Donald Trump signed an executive order keeping men out of women's sports which is so ironic to me that this man that they're always telling us that is super misogynistic and hates women the list goes on he's the one trying to protect biological women the most and you know on this channel we call things for what they are and it is primarily the left that is erasing biological women they're erasing the term women as it is because the left is saying the term women is all inclusive that includes men and women and people who are non-binary it doesn't matter anybody can be a woman you render
01:00 - 01:30 that term woman useless it means nothing anymore this is a concept that we're going to keep coming back to but if we're saying men can be women and women can be men then that makes everything equal and it makes there's no differences between us and it is so ironic that now all of a sudden in 2025 it's a faright or right-wing talking point to say that biological women deserve their own spaces and own sports that's so crazy to me a 6'4 man was allowed in to undress fully expose himself he was fully naked of course fully intact this is my friend Riley
01:30 - 02:00 Gains she's so sweet so amazing in this example she's talking about her past teammate Leah Thomas i'll put a picture of them here yeah that was her teammate and Leah would go into the locker room and just change and be swinging that thing and that elephant trunk all around the locker room in front of women and why does it take a gay man to to point out that that's wrong and why is it that as a gay man like it's the LGBTQ community the one really defending for that to even happen in the first place no I can if anyone can acknowledge this
02:00 - 02:30 difference between men and women it's me a gay man who obviously does not like women because they got some things and they got you know pH balances and all types of crazy stuff that I I'm just not fond of that's just me no shade i love my women i love my females but you know I I'm not I'm not getting into that for a reason because we're different okay and that's totally fine that's totally acceptable because I know that difference i don't think it's okay for Thomas to be up in his locker room swinging around flaunting off in front of women from where we as 18 19 20 year old girls were fully undressed i I can't
02:30 - 03:00 even put into words just the feelings of violation the feelings of of it's humiliating it's awkward it's embarrassing it's uncomfortable but but most importantly like I just remember feeling so betrayed i felt so betrayed by my university by the NCAA by people who I believed had our best interests at heart and without even a blink of an eye they threw our rights to privacy as women entirely out of the window and what we saw result from that was women who rather than going into the locker
03:00 - 03:30 room to undress they found other outlets i I know there were several girls several of my teammates even who opted to change in the janitor's closet next to like dirty mops i feel like any of us should be able to call this behavior out and say "Yeah having biological women in a women's locker room changing in the janitor's closet because they feel uncomfortable that a trans woman is in there getting changed." It gets to a point where we have become so inclusive that we start to exclude we become so inclusive to what the term woman means
03:30 - 04:00 that we're excluding the term woman in general like we've erased what woman means to being exposed to a naked man and exploited to a naked man so when they talk about inclusivity what that really is is exclusivity and what they're excluding is women out of women's locker room and that shouldn't be that should not be accepted we shouldn't be excluding women out of the very thing that we created for them to have their own safe spaces this picture of her Riley Gaines next to Leah Thomas on this podium it's literally that South
04:00 - 04:30 Park skit like why is this even a thing even to today in 2025 here's another image of another trans athlete just dominating the podium looking like a whole dude and none of this is transphobic none of this is hateful none of us I feel like this shouldn't even be that divided of an issue the real problem is that no one's being vocal and no one's calling it out for what it is and just saying "Hey this is wrong." Cuz you can you can say something's wrong without being hateful you can just call something out and it's fine i don't hate trans people i have no ill will towards
04:30 - 05:00 them but what I do hate is people taking advantage of a system and making other people feel mad mad uncomfortable and one thing that makes a lot a lot of women uncomfortable is being around a bunch of biological men it doesn't matter anymore if you're a trans woman or not just the mere fact that you're a biological man it just it innately makes majority of women out there uncomfortable it just we've gotten to the point where so many people feel scared to say anything cuz then they get cancelled or bigoted or hateful or get kicked out their sorority so many
05:00 - 05:30 different things can happen now and I wish this wasn't the case and and I'm really advocate every viewer out there right now to be vocal with respect be nice but be vocal about your beliefs and stand up for what you believe in it is not hateful it is not bigoted it is not transphobic to just say yes biological women deserve their own spaces biological women deserve their own sports and it frustrates me it makes me It is bittersweet it makes me very happy to see some of the most prominent Democrats out there the governor of California Gavin Newsome even agree with
05:30 - 06:00 me on this issue it's not fair is just for like a woman's entire woman's sports i agree you know by the way I agree with you i agree with you and it's interesting i stress tested this Charlie i was wondering I said you know in California and I've been a leader in the LGBTQ places as you know back in 2004 was marrying same-sex couples and I know we have different opinion on on on marriage equality um and so I've been at this for years and years i take a backseat to no one but I was actually on the issue of sports which in the last few years has just exploded um trying to
06:00 - 06:30 understand and understand the 10 athletes in the NC2A 510,000 athletes but 10 athletes and what but how profound and even my own friend cohort people saying "What the hell is going on why aren't you calling this out why aren't you calling this out?" I think it would be monumental and I'm glad he's doing it now it's bittersweet like again I'm happy that he's saying this i'm happy that he's coming to terms of yeah this is just not okay but at the same time I wish he said this sooner i wish instead of it being a Republican talking point MAGA talking point farright
06:30 - 07:00 talking point bigoted transphobic it just is what it is it's like hey actually we can come to the consensus yes when it comes to trans people in sports we need to look at this a little bit differently because now we've gotten to a point where again you've rendered the term women useless female useless it's just whatever you want to be you got people not even transitioning just saying that they're a woman and then going and dominating women's sports this is something that is actually happening and it's not okay when I saw this podcast I was like there's no way Gavin
07:00 - 07:30 said that like really and it made me think okay the last few years people have been rallying behind trans people in the LGBTQ community are they going to sweep this one under the rug are they just going to act like Gavin didn't say that or are they going to highlight this to try to you know make Democrats seem more more tame because of how bad they did lose this election and how many people are leaving the left are they treating this real what is the left versus the right saying let's see for ourselves we have here Gavin News says transgender athletes in women's sports is deeply unfair and let's actually take
07:30 - 08:00 a look at this clip that was featured on CNN because I think with this fair of a coverage and it doesn't seem too many like too many hit pieces it seems pretty fair is the tide turning i think these numbers are really illuminating on this topic because I just think there's such a clear trend among the American public so transgender female athletes in women's sports only 18% of the country says that they should be in fact allowed to participate in women's sports compare this to the opposition i mean my goodness gracious 79% you rarely get 79%
08:00 - 08:30 of the country to agree on anything but they do in fact agree on the idea of opposing transgender female athletes in women's sports but it's not just the here and now Laura it's not just the here and now what we're actually seeing is a trend on this particular issue and it's going in the direction of opposition so take a look here okay transgendered female athletes and amongst those Americans who oppose them in women's sports back in 2021 it was 62% a majority but you know not anywhere
08:30 - 09:00 close to a ginormous majority right a clear majority but not a ginormous majority but then again you look here in 2025 you see it at 79% it's rising there are more and more people coming to terms with the the reality of the situation that is there is a difference between men and women in sports the tides are shifting and I'm very glad that we have tools that exist like ground news that helps us clearly see in the media landscape what is the left saying what
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11:00 - 11:30 seen this rise and this craze of like we need a women's only gym so we're not around men and creepy men we need a women's own only space this was bound to happen any kind of controversy regarding a women's only space is bound to happen because trans women are women what she keep telling us and boom now the spaces are infiltrated let's let's see what happened with this gym cuz there's been a lot of controversy around it from her women onlyly gym the influencer known as Natalie B Fitness announced plans to open the Girl Sport in London back in
11:30 - 12:00 2021 with a mission to tackle gym harassment intimidation and sexual harassment that women face she created a GoFundMe to crowdfund the space amassing over £20,000 in donations at the time when asked about trans women accessing the gym Natalie was quick to respond "Of course trans women are welcome at my women's only gym i don't see trans women as trans women i see trans women as That's where she messed up she ended up saying like "No trans allowed," which you shouldn't have said that in the beginning if you felt this way i get it
12:00 - 12:30 you want to start a woman's only gym that's your prerogative that's fine but I think this is the one misstep that you did have is saying "I'm going to include trans women." And then all of a sudden I guess you're not that's the backlash if you started off with hey this is a biological women's only space I don't think you'd be seeing the backlash that we're seeing now for this gym owner if you identify as a woman then you're of course welcome she reinforced her stance with a tweet stating "Trans women are women and also a minority that need to be protected." However Natalie recently made a U-turn on her decision to be
12:30 - 13:00 transinclusive in a video posted to X on Sunday March 9th she said "My women's only gym will be operating as a single sex space for biological women we are focusing on self-defense classes as well as workshops and activations around PCOS and training on your menstrual cycle all of which occur to biological women." This statement caused a wave of online backlash hey again I think that's fine if you want to have a woman's only space and that you're the owner you want to switch to just having biological women that's fine but again you probably
13:00 - 13:30 shouldn't have led off with "Hey I am going to include trans women." You shouldn't have done that but at the end of the day it is her business she's allowed to do whatever she wants to do with her company and some even asked for refunds from the funds donated hearing the noise Natalie came back explaining her reasons the decision was based on the simple fact that I had been sexually assaulted inside of a gym so many of the women that are coming to my women's only gym is because they have also been sexually assaulted or sexually harassed
13:30 - 14:00 or faced gym intimidation whilst I understand the anger around backtracking the reason why it is female only is so incredibly important you know like I want so many girls and women to feel so safe and I think that's again that is fine you want women to feel safe you want them to have an environment that is biologically only for them go for it and it's unfortunate that there are so many bad actors out there there are so many trans women out there that are gaining the system taking advantage of things
14:00 - 14:30 and still to this day using that as an opportunity to harass women not all trans people harass women i get it but we have seen a rise with certain instances of trans women taking advantage of the system becoming trans just to harm biological women whether that be in jails in restrooms in spas the list goes on people are actually going to jail for this but with all this backlash let's see what other people have to say have any thoughts on this women only gym other than how the are
14:30 - 15:00 you going to be able to prove that someone is a biological woman when they try to come into your gym we can tell how for one for the most part you can tell you can definitely tell with that person but two your ID when you sign up which I personally think all IDs all passports should have your actual sex listed how are we going to try to prove it are you going to have them drop their pants in front of you like what is it and to exclude a group of women who absolutely face danger violence just out in the
15:00 - 15:30 streets alone just like any other woman does is crazy to me everybody goes through violence at some point somehow someway every group can be faced with violence but that doesn't give you the right to intrude on other groups spaces especially one that is so uniquely like biologically chemistry like like life uniquely different to them men and women are different i'm not talking about like there's some black only space or white only space no that's stupid but if you
15:30 - 16:00 want to have a men's only space and a women's only space totally fine because these are characteristics that actually make a difference in our livelihoods and just because you want to transition into that and you want to become that doesn't mean you ever will be so sorry but that's the truth including them simply because they are not biological women crazy all this is doing is just perpetuating the same rhetoric that sis white men are using because what are you going to do when you have a more masculine presenting woman come in to
16:00 - 16:30 the door you are perpetuating white supremacy this way and the ideals of femininity are stemmed and rooted in white supremacy first off I'm we I'm so tired people bring a racist white supremacist this and that what does you have a fully intact hoo-ha hello elephant trunk or or or you know chopped off have to do with women's only spaces i get it you bring up a good argument of like you know masculine presenting women they have an ID they can just show that they're a woman and
16:30 - 17:00 be left alone and if you don't then you got to go and if you can't see that I don't know how the you're allowed to open a business like that so so first and foremost I will speak on this because this person is saying that um you know how are masculine women going to feel and if they're masculine presenting I'm masculine presenting i'm a masculine woman i have tattoos i dress like a tomboy don't mind all this cuz I'm in my gaming room right now um but usually when I go to the gym I dress like a boy i like to dress very comfortable because I'm hitting legs or you know doing a workout i don't need people looking at me that's my personal thing but trust me by looking at me you
17:00 - 17:30 can still tell I'm a woman i just have obviously still facial features of a woman i have a raspy voice and I'm just big body like Megan telling i have big hands i'm 5'8 5'9 now when we look at you we can tell you are not a woman why and then also the hands you can tell when a woman has big longed hands but they still look feminine you have male hands and you still look like a dude i did not vote for Trump okay before I get into what I'm going to say I did not vote for Trump i don't want to hear it i love how she stated that i love how
17:30 - 18:00 she's stating I don't care who she voted for but I love how she's breaking that stereotype that hey not all people who think men and women should have different spaces are some Trumpers like no she's saying she's not a Trumper but she can identify and say hey we're separate if it says woman only gym that's woman only gym i don't understand why you need to go in a woman's only gym keep going to the same gym you're going to it's not hurting you go there i'm not understanding why a lot of people like this person want to force
18:00 - 18:30 themselves into spaces they're not welcomed one thing about me is I will never go somewhere I'm not wanted or obviously I'm not supposed to be in cuz I wouldn't say you're not wanted there because me personally I have no problem with you know men dressing up like girls it's not my business you know if you want to dress up and put makeup and nails and stuff and say you're Sally by all means do that i'll call you your name Sally cuz I'm a respectful person but at the end of the day there's a gym made for women women who bleed s that are from our kitty meow meow our natural kitty meow meow and women that want to
18:30 - 19:00 feel safe and secure at the gym and not get stared and gawkked at by men i think this is a great example of someone being respectful and speaking up let your voice be heard let it be known that what you're saying you don't agree with if you're watching this and you don't even like Trump like that you're not even on the right more like politically center center right center left it doesn't matter just be vocal on your beliefs and if you think that it is okay for biological women to have their own gym in their own space that should be fine why is being honest controversial why is having an adult conversation all of a
19:00 - 19:30 sudden like I have no hate in my heart i don't God bless this person i pray they get everything in life i pray that they're safe and secure but let's call it what it is if it's a allwoman's gym and you are born a woman you can go to the gym well I wouldn't get mad right now if somebody said "Oh you know what we're having a Latin club night only Mexicans pure Mexicans i'm gonna get mad i'm Mexican and black how can I get mad when that was the rule?" The girls at Hooters what are the rules have big yetis to get in there you're not going to go there being itty bitty titty
19:30 - 20:00 committee and get mad that you're not welcome there right the race stuff I'm a little I think it's a little bit different but to say "Yeah I want a biological women's only space because we are different and we have shared experiences and down to like how our body like how they act whether you black white brown doesn't matter you're all still a woman you want to have that space go for it." And calling out the truth shouldn't be controversial it shouldn't be like she said I don't understand why we aren't having these adult conversations anymore i'll tell you something I've been furious about uh if you followed my saga about my gym um
20:00 - 20:30 I was minding my own business leaving my gym changing room the other day i was uh quite surprised to put it mildly to see a man in there and I clarified the policy with Virgin Active they surprised me uh ladies and gents by telling me that in the female changing room children were allowed uh transgender females females of all ages and non-binary members um what literally what does that mean if you're saying women are allowed trans women are allowed and non-binary people are allowed in this women's locker room what
20:30 - 21:00 is the point of having separate locker room you see what I mean referring to that last video talking about just like having honest conversations and just telling the truth for what it is i want everybody to think about this what does it mean to have a woman's locker room if we are striving and fighting for trans women and non-binary people to be included in a woman's locker room again renders the term women useless there's no point of a woman there's no point it doesn't exist if we've all lived this entire life saying yes a woman is
21:00 - 21:30 someone with a vagina and now in 2025 you're saying "Well actually trans women are women trans women can be women and then non-binary people can like also identify as women too." And then we also know anybody can be trans i don't have to do anything i don't have to wear a wig i don't have to do any I don't have to change anything now I can just say I'm trans or I can say I'm non-binary and I'll identify as a woman or a man which lets me do anything I want to do what's the point of a woman's only space you get what I'm saying like I don't understand why this is some big debate i
21:30 - 22:00 don't understand why it's some so huge controversy but this is why more and more biological women are speaking up and saying "Hey you know what i've had enough i thought I was a feminist i thought I was fighting for our rights." But all of a sudden I'm a bigot now because I want my own women's space you I'm so glad I'm here with y'all because y'all make me feel less alone and the comments do and we all this big community that just says "Hey we're here for common sense we're not hateful we're not bigoted we are just trying to get a grip on this on this world and really
22:00 - 22:30 try to understand what is going on in at least I would say a nice and respectful manner hey I mean I don't know who needs to hear this actually I take that back i literally just lied to y'all i know exactly who needs to hear this but just as a never friendly especially from me reminder if you're transphobic in 2025 you're a loser i don't know how else to say that you're a loser and your ass stinks like that's just it's a scientific fact you have poop in your pants right now i bet when you leave interactions people talk
22:30 - 23:00 about how much you're stinking god how embarrassing did you know that did you know that people are talking [ __ ] on you cuz you're so awful this person has 8 million followers on Tik Tok it's so ironic that this is a liberal famous liberal being divisive being hateful being bigoted i get called that some of you get called that the more center right anybody who has an inkling of just saying hey I think it's totally fine to have oh uh biological women's only space
23:00 - 23:30 boom hateful bigoted the list goes on this is why you're losing people this is why you're losing votes this is why more and more people are not resonating with the things that you're saying and it's slowly retreating back of like this is kind of disappointing you know it's like what is the point of being this divisive why can't we just look at things with nuance why can't we just approach approach these topics without being so hot and having to think hey let's listen to a couple different perspectives on this let's see different viewpoints cuz it's clear not all women
23:30 - 24:00 feel that way you want to talk about listening to women listen to women listen to women then listen to them don't only listen to the women that agree with you listen to all women which is much different than believe all women hello let's make that difference here but let's at least listen to them and understand where they're coming from the spasm female or male go into a part so if you have the female parts you go to the female sex if you have the male parts you go to the male part i'm not sure what your meaning as in as in like
24:00 - 24:30 physical parts as in like your your genitals yes if you if you have the woman genital still you go to woman type and if you have the male genital a penis you go to the male side well what about women who have penises and men who have vaginas um you go to that side second we still go based on genital parts so you would put a man in the women's room so they have the parts yes that's not a man though necessarily we just go based off genitals what you were with you're assigned with if the
24:30 - 25:00 male has a genital part if you put a man in the women's room you're going to have huge problems you can't do that if we have transgender um male they feel totally if they still have we're going to talk how it is they still have their vagina they go in the female side they could totally be comfortable cuz we go based on what they have um the genitals yeah but you have I mean if somebody is a man they need to go in the men's room which is full if they don't have gentle parts we cannot let them go you can't you can't say that somebody's not a man based on what their parts are if they're licensed and and what they have said they are a man you can't say that
25:00 - 25:30 they're not allowed to go it's videos like this that really make me homophobic that actually do make me transphobic and these are the things that I'm trying not to be i don't want to be i have gay friends hell I am gay i have trans friends i get it but it's people like this that drive me up a wall that are this demanding this disrespectful and this just stupid quite frankly there's no nuance with this it's stupid we can't sit here and argue with staff and and really push and fight and say "Yes well
25:30 - 26:00 there are women who have penises and men who have vaginas there are trans people that identify as those things and they exist but that isn't reality that isn't what's going on at hand so we can't say that." And it's these people that call I say the actual like the OG feminists turfs trans-exclusionary radical feminists if you ever hear or see that slang that terms turf what that is saying like they would say I'm a turf basically they would say anybody's a turf that says there's a difference between biological women and trans women the crowd that says trans women aren't
26:00 - 26:30 women or we actually do need to have like a biological women's only space all the people that want that would be called a turf and it's crazy because like you say transexclusionary radical feminist but let's see who's actually radical hey everybody transferal breath for Marray we came down to Imperial Spa did some artwork on the ground met a whole bunch of good people put things together hopefully a lot of these are going to come out to Banyan and support us out there we've
26:30 - 27:00 got plenty of support cities activated and what's ironic is that's still a group of men invading women's spaces if you want to boil it down that's a group of trans women biological men getting very angry that they cannot be in women's spaces this is what y'all fought for all the carefree women all the Oh it's fine except trans people yes trans slave like that D Faro girl this is what you wanted you're going to end up like what what is a girl what is a girl what
27:00 - 27:30 is a girl what is a woman what does any of this ever mean if you're going to say they're all the same it doesn't make sense it's insane and just in the terms of nuance just to share a different perspective and a different side there are and have been a lot of trans women who go unnoticed and unharmed in women's spas all this hipper and holler all the debates all the protest typically happens when someone is not passing when someone is clearly a fully intact male just dropping their drawers in front of
27:30 - 28:00 the spot in the spa or causing a scene it's typically these people riing everybody up because there are examples of regular regular trans people being in women's spaces or male spaces which are not biologically assigned but they get away with it i'm about to go to a spa today as a trans woman it's something I always feel so nervous about i know I've had my gender reassignment surgery there's gendered changing rooms i just get like a bit nervous and anxious to get changed to be in a woman's only space i've got my emotional support
28:00 - 28:30 animal with me today as well i've just got changed which was an interesting experience n's going pity patter this is the swimming costume pantel and again I highlight that quick example just to show I'm not trying to argue whether or not you can tell if they're a man or a woman what I am saying is that it does exist where trans people are in these spaces and nothing's happening this is that truly over the last couple of years we have seen this attention we have seen this rise because people are abusing the
28:30 - 29:00 system abusing what being trans is and just ruining it for everybody honestly because again trans people do exist like we're not we can't just say they don't exist they are out and about and they have been they've been living their life they've been doing what they want to do always have been of course there's been issues all throughout history here and there but it's been blowing up over the last couple of years because of why the people taking advantage of the system even with our own tax dollars the army hi I'm EMTT i'm a trans man in the United States military and I am documenting my journey um basically
29:00 - 29:30 being the channel that I didn't have going through all this i had to fly out to Ohio for those of you who don't know I live in New Jersey long story short if I get hop surgery through the military it's free free military free our tax dollars free crazy and again it wasn't until people put every put all their business out there on Tik Tok whether even to the smallest things like oh here's how to
29:30 - 30:00 upgrade a concert ticket for free and they post it to Tik Tok now all of a sudden you can't get your concert ticket upgraded like people are exposing all the hacks and tricks to do on Tik Tok for a cloud or to share it but forget that it's called a hack for a reason you can't just share all the secrets it's not a secret anymore now you got these people gaming the system just I'm not saying this person did it for this reason but there are people that exist that are going into the military just to get their surgery and then bouncing this is why Trump has just scrapped everything pause everything regarding
30:00 - 30:30 trans people in the military he just said enough is enough put a pause on it we need to review what is going on it's these bad actors that ruin it for the rest of trans people that are really patriotic and love this country want to protect this country and mind their business cuz there are a lot of people who want to protect and serve our country and just because they're trans denying them of that i don't know i I'm really on the fence with that one you guys i really am hi my name is Cal and I'm a trans service member in the army i
30:30 - 31:00 am fourth generation Army uh through my dad's side of the family uh I commissioned in May of 2023 from ROC after 4 years and I got to my unit in about October of 2023 and I've just deployed with this unit uh this past January over to Poland it's the honor of my lifetime to serve every day I can wear the uniform is an honor and uh that's being taken away from me right now a fourth generation the the Army has been in their family you can tell this person's
31:00 - 31:30 passionate about the United States they love this country they want to work for this country and they're not being allowed to because they're trans i think there's some room for conversation to be had about scenarios like this because it's not like all trans people hate America and want to secretly see the demise of it because no there's plenty you can just look on TikTok you can look on the internet there's a plethora of straight men who identify as a Democrat who are in the army who hate America who are like incelss who want to see America crumble and they document and they talk about it all the time so that exists so
31:30 - 32:00 I'm not in this camp that says all trans people are bad for the military no I have room for maybe you know maybe no combat sure but everything else I don't I don't quite get it i keep thinking about how most of us getting removed working cyber intel or essential personnel this ban is crippling our force where is the logic that I can get behind i don't necessarily think it's a bad idea to have a trans intel or trans chef trans cyber security like I don't maybe the intel maybe the combat maybe
32:00 - 32:30 no trans surgeries allowed but to strip someone who wants to serve and protect our country just because they're trans seems like a silly move they're already facing a decline as it is we should be seeing and promoting anybody who wants to fight for this country anybody who's willing to put their life on the line anybody who's willing to say yes intel chef cook combat whatever maybe not combat for the trans people but I'm just saying in general if you have someone willing to be that patriotic and fight for our country we should give a little nuance and maybe figure out what we
32:30 - 33:00 should do with them and allow them to do so but in that same breath I understand just saying "Hey shut it down so we can understand and pinpoint where are people gaining in the system who's just getting surgeries and dipping what do we need to do with the trans people because we've had enough." And and I I get it i can understand that going forward we have to be vocal and call things out for what they are but as with as always with empathy and logic in hand as much as we don't get the empathy from some people it works to just be nice come with the receipts come with the facts and come with an honest intent that always works
33:00 - 33:30 best in a discussion whether it be with your friends loved ones collegiate pupils classmates working like it doesn't matter that seems to always work in situations when you're talking to somebody who disagrees with you i feel like a majority of the people watching this video don't all of a sudden just hate trans people no we just identify that there are some key differences with biological women and that's why you see this on the rise between the gyms the spas the sports the army trans women are getting barred left and right for this very reason because again I can't stress this enough if we if the left wants to
33:30 - 34:00 keep saying men can be women and women can be men that makes us equal and it makes everything just null and void what is the point of anything if you stand for everything you stand for nothing and it's honestly just getting to a weird point in our society where we're standing up and defending trans women so much that we're constantly pushing biological women off to the side and the two we have seen cannot coexist in certain situations we We can't keep shoving aside and pushing biological
34:00 - 34:30 women into the shadows i'm a gay man i want nothing to do with biological women love y'all love to support i'm just talking about sexually it ain't for me i've had my fair share of kitty cat i don't want no mo that's you know that's we can coexist together and I will always fight to protect you i fight to protect a lot of people what I'm fighting for here is common sense what I'm fighting for here is to urge you guys to be vocal with respect and just share your opinion and let it be known and says "Hey I don't agree with this." Cuz majority of the girls that are like "Oh my gosh yes trans people like accept
34:30 - 35:00 them love them whatever." I bet you their freshman year of college and they just put the most frat frattest frat boy and so oh hey there like imagine perfect imagine like a co-ed dorm male and females but like everybody's rooming together it doesn't matter you're a first year freshman in college you're a girl you got your room all pink and then in comes your roommate the dirtiest stinkiest frat boy plot twist oh I identify as a girl i just went to room with a girl so I just identify as a girl we've been through that before that's actually happening this isn't even a
35:00 - 35:30 joke anymore there are some universities where you can just say "I'm a girl i identify as a girl." Then boom you get roommed with a girl that's lunacy it doesn't make sense to me and I don't see how it makes sense to anybody else i don't Am I alone do y'all agree with me let me know in the comments below please let me know your thoughts because this is just it's become too much but needless to say this is why trans women are being barred from everywhere and there's all this beef with biological women so like I said before let me know your thoughts in the comments below would love to hear your opinion what are your thoughts on all this trans stuff
35:30 - 36:00 trans women versus biological women especially like that gym situation do you think it's fine do y'all think if you're a woman below let me know in the comments do you think it's fine to have a women's only space and if you're someone that thinks that is transphobic or someone that doesn't agree with anything that I said let me know in the comments we're all respectful here we're all loving we're all caring let me know what you're thinking about and as always if you like this content please like it share it and subscribe helps the channel grow a ton i am more than thankful for the support of this channel thankful for the growth thankful for all you guys being here i can't wait to meet a lot of
36:00 - 36:30 you guys soon you guys get to hear from me a lot more crazy tons tons i'm just so excited there's so much I say this at the end of every video now i'm hyping you guys up there's a lot that will be coming within the next few months so keep your eyes peeled on everything too soon to be dropped and as always no matter what you're going on in whatever no matter what's going on in your life it is called going through it for a reason you're not stuck there you're going to survive work on you and only you if you're still watching this video this message is for you do what you got to do to become the best version of yourself with empathy with grace with
36:30 - 37:00 dignity with integrity most important with love do that focus on you and only you and you will achieve your goals and dreams as someone who's been from hell and back I'm here to tell you you can and will be your wildest dream so with that being said thank you guys for watching today's video i will catch you very soon in the next one deuces [Music] [Music]